Winnipegcub

I don't believe any gentleman worth seeing would have any concerns with your screening process. Now what you actually do and in each case is completely up to you. However, if you ask for references then I think it is my responsibility to provide you with their contact details. I've also notified my reference to give them a 'heads up' that they may be contacted. If a client doesn't have or provide you with what you ask for...then it should raise a flag. However, I know ladies rely a great deal on their judgement and other tools to check us out. If you have a process I would stick with it and us guys value and respect that you're putting your safety first. For me, a lady who values herself this way will probably also respect my privacy and discretion. And likely be fun to be with. If our values and beliefs in areas like this are similar...chances are our intimate time together will also be in sync. XO Cub

Heading to a mountain cabin for the weekend. Bearcub goes home!

Meeting a new lady for me who is also new to the industry. Sweet and Sexy combined in one nice blonde petite package.

I met Laeticia some time ago while we both visited Calgary. Booking was pretty straight forward and time with her was great! Cub

I'll go with Baking and Woody from your list. Hehe, I said Woody. Actually I've always been a Vanilla fan. A few ladies where it and luv it. I especially like it in an elevator when I get in and no one is there. I can close my eyes and just imagine the sexy lady that might have just been there before me. I would say I'm less into the floral scents. And in all cases I really like it when it is subtle. Ladies whatever you chose, we just need a 'scent' that draws us to come in closer for more. Cub PS, I also like the scent of saw dust. But that's a different thread.

In no particular order; - democracy and freedoms - the way women walk - animals - babies and little kids - the ability to travel and take in new/different cultures - time with beautiful, smart and sexy women Cub

Got my Visa, Travel Shots, and international travel is all good to go. Love going to far away and new/unknown places for me. Now I just have to wait 2 1/2 months. Ugh....but the researcher in me will find lots to explore before I board a plane.

A little of most of what is on your list but one important thing for me is missing. Chemistry. I try and determine this by a variety of things including her posts, her site/advertising, and maybe we even cross paths in chat. I look for a lady that I think I would be a good match with. I know it is a little hard to tell before you meet but thus far I'm pretty satisfied with my intuitions. Cub

Isa is so kind and a giver. Today dear it's all for you.

Dark Blue cotton boxers. Match my suite today.

Quick answer is No. I withhold my private information for reasons of high discretion. It has cost me in seeing a lady once who wanted my real name, work name and work phone number. I thought that was too much. Now once I've met someone a few times and we've built a relationship which also builds trust...then for sure they come to learn more about me. And usually me about them too. I'm much more comfortable with this level of building rapport, trust, and sharing personal information.

This young cub is 52. I feel much younger in my thoughts and beliefs. Did some of my academic work in studying younger generations which was both an interest and learning. Always work at having a sharp and fresh mind along with a positive and low stress approach to things which I think helps. Physically, well I remember my 20s when I worked construction. Damn I looked good then and strong as an ox. So still a cub in many ways but an old wise bear too.

Lots of great suggestions. I like the sound of a Spanish Guitar. Jesse Cook - Fall at Your Feet Which is what a few of these CERB ladies make this bear do.

Setting up a new IPod.

Just finished splitting firewood for the winter. Sorry, I know I said the 'W' word. And now having a beer on the deck.

I have a high level of discretion I work to protect. So appreciate the question Mareana. Here is how I feel about it. - I have no problems with a simple buzz in and/or camera system at the front door of an apartment/condo. I usually try to enter at a time when no one else is standing there. The lady is expecting me, probably because we just texted, and so it is a quick enter the number, buzz and I'm in. - I've also been to a ladies incall where it was self-buzz in but they also had a concierge. I was a little more nervous but they didn't interact with me. I kind of view it like walking into a hotel and you see people in the lobby/front desk. The key is just try to be confident or look like you belong. - I've never experienced it at an incall but perhaps the more nervous scenario might be where I had to interact with someone and sign in. I think you're considering more 'option 1', which for me would be no problem. In fact some security to protect the ladies is completely understandable. You are worth protecting! XO Cub

Well it was actually yesterday...but just now I can think/type again. My first morning encounter. Thanks MC! Hell of a way to start my day. Recommendation coming soon. Cub

I'm with you...luv Fall. And I'll go with hiking. Ok, since I've booked some recent travel. Thailand or Vietnam?

This is a very good question and certainly could apply to gents like myself. But for now I am very happy where things are at. First my dance card is very small. I hobby mainly when I travel which isn't as frequent as it used to be. I love the 'connection' and when I feel it works for both of us...well I really enjoy seeing the same lady over again and getting to know each other more. I know as clients, we pay for the appointment and the time together, but I do really like to get to know the lady I'm being intimate with and care about them as amazing women and human beings. I've also learned that I do over time feel comfortable with them getting to know a little more about me. I have seen some ladies I would love to meet but I think circumstances all around and the nature of this...well it turns out their gone in short time. I tend to be attracted to the established business oriented independent ladies. So, it is something I've thought about but, at this time it isn't a problem. Cub

Oh so many...it could be a long list. So I'll limit to 3 quite random. - meeting up with my favorite lady friends. - good food. I like so many different variations...but luv a great steak. (Alberta Guy) - Single Malt Scotch

Quite unpredictable and mostly when I travel. Which also is unscheduled. My travel patterns have also changed (work) and thus a lady in town X who I saw often in past...I rarely see now. :icon_sad: But I am traveling to new cities so does give a chance to meet new ladies. And if a spell goes too long where I don't travel, well I do know a lady who has caused me to change my 'not in my town' rule. :D But overall...every 2-3 months.

Going to Vietnam for Christmas and New Years. I've been to Cambodia and Thailand and had a great time. Nothing like S. Asia for people, scenery, food, etc...Can't wait!

I'll add my vote to 'chemistry'. In fact I've had some amazing dates and often I'll repeat with ladies I think I've connected well with. And for me the chemistry can start well before the date. CERB is great for that, in that I've met some ladies in other parts of the country that I'm absolutely crazy about. I love their posts, their ads, their style, their class, their smarts, and wit. In some cases we've had email, chat, text, twitter exchanges and that only builds the admiration and desire to see them. (I think these ladies know too) I love building that kind of chemistry and this bear almost always gets his prey. Hehe. Cub

Making some possible travel plans. Vietnam for Christmas/New Years. I've been to Cambodia and Thailand but didn't make it to Vietnam. S. Asia is quite the place. Hope things align well.

It is great that you get that little nervousness. It likely means you're meeting with someone who is very special to you. I luv that feeling and it only builds the excitement to the moment of meeting. It amazed me how it happens so strongly for ladies I've seen for awhile. Us gents truly are blessed. I would say 'have a great time'...but have no doubt you will. Cub