Winnipegcub

Spent last night drinking a scotch out by the fire pit. Was watching my dog snap at bees. I can't believe he catches them and snaps them till they fall down. I don't want him eating them so I go pick them up with a paper towel. I think he got 4 last night....and you guessed it. Picked up one and the bugger stung me through the paper towel. Crap that hurt. Dog = 4 for 4. Cub = 1 sting.

Muncher, I think that is a great suggestion and would love to see that happen. It would take someone(s) to stand up and express how it would impact the client. I actually think now is the time for those voices to be heard as the government looks upon the purchasers as the criminal. I believe that approach is flawed on many fronts. First I view it as a legitimate business transaction. The activity isn't illegal thus making the purchase of it illegal seems ill-conceived. Secondly, I am sure many men could make the case that they are respectable individuals, not taking advantage of nor abusing women, not being pimps, not using drugs, etc... It would be great for these voices to be heard. I did my little part in completing the government survey. I am extremely proud of our community and in particular many of the ladies who have organized and made their voices heard. But me and I suspect many gentlemen (clients) restrict ourselves to anonymity and discretion. Thus although we are being directly targeted, we can't really stand up and defend ourselves. The cynic in me wonders if that is why the govt chose this course of action. Silently supporting. Cub

Nathalie, first thanks for your presence and contributions to our CERB community. Smart and confident women are extremely attractive and I have no doubt you will succeed in all your pursuits. I regret that we never had a chance to meet but even without a physical connection, I've come to respect and admire you deeply. Best wishes. XOXO Cub

Coming up to 7pm in Ab. Hot last couple of days so BBQ ribs, potatoes, veggies. Now sitting back on the deck finishing a beer and watering the grass (sprinkler). Listening to radio and surfing CERB. Deciding on whether to grab another beer and maybe some wood and have a fire 2nite and a glass of Oban and a smoke.

Well I wish I was 'planning an August with Emily'....haha. But coffee is on and just going to start some bacon and pancakes. Might be a lazy Saturday.

How about an intimate encounter with two special ladies. Haha. Really love them both - but if I have to pick I would say the one on one encounter. Lake or Ocean?

iphone, and Hi sweet Sindy! Facebook or Twitter?

Getting a surprise text from a special lady. She knows it's no problem for me and just wanted to say hi. The in between dates communication is nice to engage in once in awhile just to keep the flirting and missing feelings going. XO Sweet Lady.

Sanding my cedar deck on the hottest day of the year. Love the smell of wood/saw dust.

Wow way to go Em! You are such an amazing woman and member of this community. XO Cub

For me it has been an amazing 5 years this coming September. Lots has changed over time for both of us but I still cherish every chance I get to see her and the incredible memories and experiences we have shared. (smiling just thinking about them) Cub

Interesting question. I generally don't respond to these; "what would you do" type questions. I often find second guessing what happens can be difficult so I don't usually spend much time there. In your case I probably would have hit a time when say after staying 10 mins...I really should either politely end it or stay and expect I'm compensating her for her time. I have spent some 'off the clock' time with ladies but it was really exceptional circumstances, was communicated, and we both felt comfortable. I have also had some 'unique' situations unfold but I wouldn't post them on a public board and would just ensure that both the lady and I are comfortable with what transpired and how we will manage. (agree with Kimberly) Making sure both parties feel valued and respected. If that is the end result...then I really don't care what others think. Cub

Let's go hiking! hehe. Over the campfire. - hotdog - hamburger

I'll go with watching porn. Ok ladies one for you. While on top do you prefer; - sliding up and down? - or grinding back and forth? Oh and can't say both. Hehe

I have been fortunate to meet some great ladies. And also for me the 'connection' is important so if I feel we've had a good time together...I'm often a repeat customer. But a couple things in my experience would fall into the 'turn off' category. 1. Obviously 'No Shows'. Yeh it happens to guys too. I've had it happen a couple of times. And I've always left the benefit of the doubt, provided the lady with opportunity to explain/apologize....and nothing. 2. 'Over the Top' It can be in talk, attitude, or looks. I know this gets to be personal choices but my preferences are just down to earth, respectful, and classy ladies. I like having real conversations. For me my dates go way better when we connect on various levels as well as physical. I've learned to look at ads better and communicate more openly with prospective dates. I remember meeting up with a lady at an agreed location (my 5 star hotel had card key) and although her ads/pics described a 'down to earth' 'classy' woman, she was wearing knee high stripper boots, a short mini skirt, and furry coat and lots of make-up. I know I could have been more specific. Walking through the lobby, past reception, concierge and the lounge was quite the scene. I'm sure some guys like this...but at least for me - just be yourselves. Thanks for the chance to comment and again the majority of ladies who read this are AAA....already absolutely adorable. Cub

I voted 'indifferent'. I get how they are a useful tool for the ladies in managing their business and thus have no problems receiving them. Lots of guys just testing the waters who don't result in dates. In my case, I accept it as part of the process and what means more to me is the communication that comes after. This will often determine if we might connect and how our date may unfold. For me when I contact a lady I've already likely done lots of research, know what kind of woman she is, and have a keen interest to meet her. I'm not in this to find a pen pal. Thus much like the ladies...I approach the initial contacts very business like and therefore something that makes it efficient is fine by me. Now once we've confirmed a date and leading up to the moment we meet. Well let's just say I hope it gets a little more personal and intimate. Cub

Great thread! I like to end with a High Five! No just kidding. But I know one particular lady who that just seems like it would be so right. Maybe next time. Typical endings are simply a long embrace and kiss by the door and words capturing the feeling I have at the moment. But I can recall a few good ones. - after an overnight going for breakfast, chatting, talking about the day ahead, etc...and then just maybe a look or quick squeeze on the street corner before we part. - showers together are always nice. - I know of a couple times with a special lady she simply asked I stay naked lying on the bed, I'm drained. She gets cleaned up, comes in behind me, whispers to me, squeezes me, pulls the blanket over, and leaves....I drift away. - often I can end up sitting in the bathroom, either on the counter, tub side, or toilet (set down) in my boxers talking with a friend as she is getting ready to head out. I watch her get back 'dolled up', putting on make-up, doing her hair and getting dressed. Some of our best talking times together. But really...I hate goodbyes. Cub

Did someone say Honeypot?!! Us bears luv honey. Hell why not call it the entire picnic basket? (ok I wander) Yeh I don't know about a specific name and it is too bad a common or natural one doesn't exist. But rather than a specific name maybe just an indirect reference. Like simply move up from kissing her neck and whisper softly but deeply into her ear - "I really want to taste you now". Worth a try.

From my standpoint both parties even need to be more respectful when a 30 min appointment. For me clock always starts when I arrive. Your company is what is offered and paid for. If I wanted a quick 30 min encounter with discussion, intimacy, and sex...then I would likely be a little more 'rigid' (pardon) with the time. If I showed up late...that is on me. So on arrival I would clarify. "So sorry I'm late. I was hoping to spend 30 minutes together and it is now 4:10. Are you Ok until 4:40?" If no...you now have a 20 min date but should pay for 30 minutes and manage the time accordingly. If yes, it is dealt with respectfully, out of the way, and you can enjoy your 30 mins. Geez I love long dates! Cub

I kinda like mine. I do sometimes change my Cub look to coincide with the seasons. Might be time soon.

Like Phaedrus...sorry for being late in our support. Agree with his comments on checking a ladies ads or site as this sometimes gives an indication. If you check her posts sometimes that also gives a clue of her interests. Many will tell you the most important thing is being respectful, clean, on-time, etc...and are modest on gifts. But who doesn't like that so feel free. If you don't know the lady and have no indication a gift card or extra donation is always the most flexible for them to use. And then if you get to know them more over time you can personalize it to both you and their interests. The fact that you're even thinking about that plays well that you likely had a great time. Cub

Oh yeh...do it! Was a recent thread on this http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?p=523285#post523285 And if I might give a shout out for Jessica Massage. You'll find her on CERB. Overall an amazing woman and her nuru experience....well good luck! Haha Cub

Something for the taste; - an ice cream Something for the scent; - some flowers Something for the touch; - a dog Something for the ears; - a musician Something for the eyes; - a pretty woman Something for all the above; - A Lady from CERB!