Winnipegcub

I am much more on the regular/repeat side. For me I partake when I travel so visiting different cities can offer variety. When I find someone I connect well with I love getting to know them more and watch our connection grow. It also makes the intimate times that much more interesting and intense. The connection is everything for me and I've had some great ones. So I've seen some ladies I've repeated with a couple times if they are touring and it depends on when our travel plans cross. I've seen some special ladies a few times when I make it to their town and have enjoyed the continuation of our 'relationship'. And I've been blessed to get to know someone very special over the past 4 years and since I began this. I have seen her numerous times and our time together these days is even better then the first amazing time I met her. We've maintained variety in our dates and have done lots from dinners, clubs/drinks, brief quick encounters, bath/shower, and sleep overs. I cherish all those memories and for as long as we're both continuing - the future times we'll meet. Cub

Well AC (After CERB), I have a couple light fixtures to change in the house. Like painting and adding art, it is an easy upgrade that can really change a room.

Don't want to take your original post down one specific path Danielle. By the way I think it is a great question and look forward to more ladies responses. I sometimes question the 'initial contact' and will always follow the ladies preferred method (email, PM, text, etc..). I find text can be tricky because of the limit and how much to provide. Want enough so she knows a little about me and I've addressed most of perhaps initial questions...but at the same time I appreciate and value the time it takes for a lady to manage her business. Was good to see I came close earlier this week with a new lady I'm looking forward to meeting. Her response; "That's such a wonderfully detailed first contact". I view that first contact and our text exchange between now and when we meet in a week, to all be 'part of the date' and the experience we'll both have. Off to a great start I think! Cub

I love; - so many beautiful women. I don't have a particular 'look' that attracts me but I will say I am so drawn to confidence. - custom made suits. Years ago I stopped buying 'off the rack' and was hooked. My sense and the costs have gone up but nothing like when I go pick up a new tailored suit. Oh and throw in some new shoes with that. - single malt scotch. Started drinking this years ago. (maybe the same time as custom made suits) But nothing beats sitting by the fire, reading a book, and sipping away. Cub - oh and picnic baskets. Haha

I'm like a few others who have posted here. I would say an ad might catch my eye but I'm a researcher at heart so certainly invest a lot more before I'll make a booking. I look at how a lady might present herself in her ad, plus her website, plus posts, and maybe chat. It is much more about a good connection which is a little hard to determine in just an ad. Having said that, I do like the classy and professional look. A face picture is good but not a deciding factor. I take my involvement in this hobby very serious and conduct myself respectfully and professionally. In a ladies ad, I'm looking for the same. That would usually be a good indication I want to learn more about her and we would likely have a good time together. Cub

Writing and Reading a recent recommendation I wrote. I know it may sound silly compared to the highlight of the encounter. But sometimes reading the written word just brings back such fond memories that I find myself smiling. Thanks Red!

Many of the gentlemen have different approaches to this hobby. For me the connection is everything. I see limited ladies and only when I travel. I've grown extremely fond of the regular ladies I've seen and from my standpoint have created a very special bond. I feel extremely fortunate to have connected with one such lady I'm just crazy about. Every since I first connected with Emily Rushton she has intrigued me. However, I had to wait over a year until our first meeting back in 2012 in Toronto. Emily is the kind of woman you can come to know and feel close to, even before you meet. She is very intelligent and witty. I was drawn close to her before we met and had huge admiration and a crush on this gal. So if you're attracted to smart, professional and classy women...you'll likely enjoy getting to know Emily. She travels to various places in Canada and a quick check on her website will let you know if she's coming your way. And then when you see the physical appearance of this woman...well gents she'll weaken your knees. Emily has the most beautiful red hair and bright eyes. I could stare into her face for hours. She is in great physical shape with a true woman's body; adorable sexy curves and soft skin. It has taken me over a year for our travel plans to connect again but during that time she is always fun, playful and leaves me wanting and waiting for the next opportunity. A trip to Vancouver recently had my fingers crossed that things might align. A skip from my hotel to hers and I couldn't believe my fortune. I had that little tingle of excitement as I approached the door. She was as beautiful as I remembered. A glass of wine and great conversation confirmed how special this woman is. It is really something for me to be in the presence of a smart and confident woman. I could easily slip into a daze and spend hours with Emily. After getting reacquainted we moved to the bedroom and slowly got undressed. Emily's passion as a lover really comes out and I loved pleasing her and also allowing myself to fall into her eyes, arms and body. Emily reminds me that a great intellectual and personal connection can lead to amazing love making. Till our paths cross again Red! XOXO Cub

I've seen Manuella in a different city. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=146847 Although I know every connection is unique I just can't imagine anyone not enjoying time with this woman. She is extremely exotic and sensual. Since it is Easter season....I think you're in for a treat! Cub

Happy Easter to all the great CERBITES! Cub

When you realize she looks as beautiful in a long glamorous gown on your arm going to the show as in shorts and a t-shirt painting the back fence together.

Packing and travel bound!

Asking for change sounds so funny it seems sad. I would NEVER do this. I am a planner so often have my dates set up well in advance and multiple hours. I make sure I know the appropriate donation amount and always have it prepared well before the date. Even if it was an odd number, let's say $535 and I was going to the bank...I would have the $35 in pocket and get $500. And I would probably count it out a few times just to make sure. Once we meet, the encounter is about us and our time together. I never want it to be about the money. Cub

Not to take the thread in a different direction but GREAT story ICE4FUN. So many great ladies in this community but is extra special when something like that happens.

Wow for sure both but if I have to pick - kissing. Corn Flakes or Frosted Flakes?

I have booked through them a couple of times when one of their lovely ladies crosses travel paths with this bear. Very good experiences with both the agency in booking and ladies I've seen.

Having contractors spending the day working in my attics and upgrading insulation. Luv the guys who put in a hard days work.

Dealing with different contractors who all start with; "I've been in the business for over 20 years" and then tell you completely different things. Both have good references and ratings with better business bureau. Should just bring them together and hold a good old debate. And when the economy is good they really don't need my business or take the extra time to explain things. Sucks sometimes being the consumer.

Waiting a very long time to see a special lady one more time. We had one brief encounter over a year ago. And I've come to admire her even more over these many months. Now our travel plans look like they will bring us together again. Oh so happy cub.

I'm wearing a pair of my Ellen's. Very Soft and Comfy. The dark black ones.

Yeh it is too bad some people are just so pissed with their lives they need to be mean to others. Report it, ignore it, and then surround yourself with those who care about you and are positive. You'll find lots of that on CERB. Big virtual bear hugs from afar! Cub

Packing for a trip this week and that means playtime. Also a chance to meet up with a new lady. Happy Bear!

Gotta go with the food (9 1/2 weeks). Speaking of food - Jam or Peanut Butter?

Reality is both should be aware of the clock. It is respectful and avoids any awkward moments near the end when really that is when you should be winding down and reflecting on what just transpired. I always manage the time. But that doesn't mean it always unfolds the same or as planned. I have had sessions when it wasn't about me and I'm clear to communicate that so the lady doesn't feel any responsibility or pressure. I'm a big believer in letting things unfold naturally. But if you expect something specific to happen within a particular timeframe - then you have to manage that time and not leave any pressure or disappointments at the end or on the partner you're with.

To follow up on Katherine's post. Getting a quote for attic insulation upgrading that is much less than I would have thought.