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Soleil, you seem so violent tonight; ' Crush your balls'. This sounds like a society that makes suicide illegal. How freaking stupid is this ! As a society and each of us as individuals, should strive to make everyone's life worth living. When there is a suicide, it means that we have failed; but we need to allow people to make their own choices, as stupid as those choices seem. take care chicas

Holy crap !!!! All i can say is ' I gotta get me some make-up!'

These are all good quote's Roaming Guy. Thanks for shareing. They don't quite express the degree of of civilization that a nation shows by provideing for the poor in their society. That isn't quite what I mean, but the quote that I am trying to remember expressed this perfectly. I could make up my own quote that would express this almost as well, but I would rather attribute this to the person that expessed it originally. This expression is the essence that separtates our great nation from so many others.

Can you help me with a quote? I heard this quote 1 time and don't know it's author or that exact wording. It goes something like this: " the worth of a nation is measured not by what its wealthy own , but by what it's poor have." If anyone knows the exact wording an possibly it's author I would appreciate your shareing with me. I would like to pass this on to a friend who may benifit from the wisdom in this. Thanks...... chavez

Thanks to all for the concern and advise. This was much more than I expected. I posted this as a way to hopefully help others. As so often happens in life, I recieved much more back that I gave. I appreciate the concern and I will use the advise and I hope that others will do likewise..... thanks ...chavez

This is a bit of a precautionary warning. It is something that I hope never happens to any of the member of this board. It was something that happened to me and although it was detrimental to me it was far worse to another person. I have use G mail for all of my private communications for a number of years. A few months ago Google changes some policied with reguards to G mail. I was perfectly fine with the way G mail worked in the past so I told myself that I didn't need to accept this change, I would simply change to a different e mail service and I choose hotmail because I observed that this was the service that many members used. Everything worked fine for a few months and I continues my private correspondence. Then something changed. I don't know why, I don't know how and I may never know. Frankly, now it doesn't matter. Some how and for some reason someone broke into my HOTMAIL account. All of my correspondence was copied and forwarded to the email account that I share with my wife. Which she read and which she down loaded and printed on paper. I can only think that the person that did this thought that she was doing my wife a favor. It was a very hurtfull thing to do. My wife was very hurt and continues to feel hurt to this day. She confronted me and I admitted everything without giving names. Was it hurtfull to me. Not as much as one would think. My wife appologized for allowing our sexlife to decline to an non existant level. For the first time in 20 years she wanted to become involved in my sex life, to the point where I can hardly keep up. Where previously she was only good at recieving oral sex, she is now an enthusiastic particiant, giving some of the best head that I have ever recieved. She now participates in all sorts of variations that I have explored over the last few years. I am still a little hesitant to describe to her all of the practices that I have involved myself in in the past few years. They were plentiful and they were fun but I don't think she is ready for that. I have only this regret. While in the hobbie I met a number of ladies that I liked and respected, not only for their sexual expertise but also for their personalities and friendship. I would have liked to continue these relationships. I have very few complaints about my present sexual satisfaction. I hate giving up my friendships and I hate what this person has done to my wife. Honestly this ' do gooder " has saved me thousands of dollars in my personal sexual satisfaction , but they have cost me much in my relationships and have done a great deal of hurt to my wife. Since that unfortunate event I have learned that HOTMAIL is an easy target for crashing. I don't understand the reasoning behind what happened to me. I am confident that the intended result were not to improve my sexlife and to save me thousands of dollars, but that is not what upsets me. By this act of intrusion the perpitrator has done a great deal in injure my wife. Now the other little (I hope little) problem with this incident this that my email identity that I used for hotmail was stolen. My password was changed and I cannot enter my hotmail address to retrieve mail or respond to mail. This part isn't a real problem because I prefer my G mail address anyway, but if the perpitrator is responding to my mail and sending mail with my identity , he/she can cause a great deal of problems. This is the caution: If you are now useing hotmail for your private communication, maybe you should consider a different email provider. ... chavez

You know your old when you can still do everything you used to do.......... you just can't do it night after night ( after morning,... after night.....) Damn I hate old age!

You can do this girl!!! Go for it. I want this for you and it can be all that you hope for. Take care . ( cuidate ) Good luck and Best wished. Merry Christmas to you and all of yours...chicas

I have missed most of the discussion on Sydnee's situation , which is a shame because I am not sure there are many that are in a better situation to defend her against the many attacks than I am. It is wrong, but it is understandable that the media tell a one sided story based mostly on the information given to them by the L.E.s . What I find ironic is people who did not know the real situation , many that never lived here or met her, or had anything to do with her ; taking upon themselves to judge her based on what the media has fed them. They all should know better. Sydney was no saint, but in some ways she was a bit on an angel. Lord knows she and I did not see eye to eye on many thing ; mostly about running a " brothel" out of your home, and how safe it was to hold parties at your home. You know what; we weren't even a very good match sexually but I respected her. That is one of the great things about Sydnee; you didn't have to agree with her 100% to consider her a friend. This talk about 'trying to redeam herself somewhat by volunteering' is nonsence. Sydnee did tons to good work. Gathered food for the food banks at her party. Contributed and encouraged others to contribute to animal shelters, especially in our unforgiving Winnipeg winters, work at the woman's shelters, on her website she started a blog that was more or less ' how unselfish I am, with a prize bassed on the contribution voted the best, it may have inspired more good deads) the list goes on....... Some one said that they considered that auctioning of a ladies 1st SP experience distasteful. Well me too a little bit, that is why I didn't participate, but you have to have known what inspired this. Does anyone remember a young lady somewhere in the United States auctioning her virginity. It huge media visibility. That is what inspired this and that was typical Sydnee. It wasn't anyone's virginity , it was their first S.P. experience. Maybe it ment something special to the lady to think that her first experience was special not just to her but to some guys. Maybe it was. I don't know , I don't live in a ladied head. I do remember this. The arrived price for 1 hr. as a little less than a regular fee for 2 hour, so no big deal but if it made the lady and the guy feel special I am ok. with that It is suggested that she recruited young girls while doing her volunteer work. Did you ever think that maybe young girls we already in this buisness and planned to continue. She offered them a safer place to work. Screened their clients for them. Upped their fees to a real professional level so they weren't being take advantage of on the street. Sometimes some of "Sydnee's girls" were 19 but more often the ages were in the 20's or 30's. Was it a co-operative? Maybe not exactly. The ladies had pretty much controle over when they worked. They had Sydnee's screening and with that, controle over who they saw. The ladies choose what services they wished to offer and what services they wished to provide. There was no up selling. There wasn't a no-shows, because Sydnee set the appointments and the ladies didn't have to tell the guy ' I'll be there, when they didn't want to, and there was no switches. Some people think that the ladies were forced to show their faces in the ads. I don't know , it may have been encouraged (maybe to prevent the appearance of switching), but I know that showing your face wasn't manditory because the lady that I saw a number of times always appeares in mask or with her face turned to the camera. Compared to any other agency in Winnipeg , this was excellent service for both clientele and S.P. Not every lady needed Sydneys support to run their buisness. Ladies came and ladies went in her opperation so naturally she was recruiting. Often I suspect that they were only there long enough to get a good sence of what they could do on their own. I am sure that she missed a well established lady and popular lady when she moved on but I never heard Sydnee complain about that and her services of screening clients, setting up appointments and seeing that the ladies only worked the times that they wanted suited some ladies very well. Once established with Sydnee a guy could alway use her for a reference when dealing with ladies not in Sydnee's flock. I am certain that after an appointment with ' one of her girls' there was a post appointment report. I was certainly o.k. with that. I never heard any lady, not with her. say that Sydnee refused a reference. She considered this profession, a real profession with no time for selfishness. Certainly she pushed the boundries. I believe that she felt that it was what was needed to push this profession out of it's darker edges and into accepted main stream society. She pushed harder and moved faster than many of us would have, but her intentions were good and they were honest. We should not judge her on what is feed to us by the media and we need to be carefull about judgeing her by what her competion has to say. I judge her by what she was , and I say she was a lady ahead of her time. A time that we yet might see.

O.K. , so where is the "nerve " to answer the question truthfully ?

Did anyone else notice the coaches from the Bomber and the Lions skirting the question about no sex before the big game ? Why are we so timid about that question? Both coaches more or less said that it doesn't matter that much. This was more or less up to the player. Neither of these coaches deserve to win a grey cup ! Either they don't have balls enough to tell it like it is, or they have no grip on reality. Come on guy, some reporter had enough guts to ask the question , for the sake of god , be honest. Without a doubt it makes a difference. Football is an aggressive sport. Testosterone = aggresiveness in all mamals, and maybe everywhere. Sexual satisfaction in males (read a few orgasms) lowers testosterone levels in males. (if it hasn't been proven already, it will be, mark my words). Personally I become a pussy cat ; and that isn't a bad thing, in everyday life. On game day, in a competition where agresssion is important, it is a free pass to lose. The only thing that I will buy is that each coach is trying to phyc -out the other guy by saying that sex before the game doesn't matter. It damd well does! If I am coach , it the locker room, I am saying this to my guys. " look guys, no sex for at least 3 days before the game. I don't even want you masterbateing. Got that !" Is everone with me ?

Pretty much like what I said except I am not easily distracted. lol

I tried something like that once. Dureing a Guy/girl/Guy (no gay) session I requested that the lady read a story about wife shareing from a penthouse forum while we played with her hair then slipped off her blouse, undid her bra , suckled her nipples tugged down her panties and played down there with our fingers. I thought that it would be hot, hot, hot because the best images are the ones you make-up in your head, right? The girl did a terrific job. She read clear and clean; hardly a stumble in the whole piece. Much better that I expected. Much better that I could have done. Was it hot ? Sort of....... if truth be told I hardly remember heard a word she said after 45 seconds. Did I have a great time..... yeah but I think it was the experience of the people around me that was really doing it. I do remember this though, after the story was over she was hot and juicey, we were hot and hard and I recall saying to her " I thought that I asked you to choose one without some super well hung black dude " Her reply...." Well I didn't think I did but when I found he was there I was kind of enjoying it so I just kept reading"

I would not say that all men or even most men fantasize about "asian girls", although they get more than their share of attention. It has little to do with ethnicity and a lot to do with the style of this ethnic group. In my experience I have never been given "attitude" by an asian lady. Even though I expect most have a good deal more experience that I do, I have never had one say or even imply such a thing. There is much to be said about confidence but for good buisness check the attitude at the door. This is the thing that a gentleman never has to concern himself with when he sees and asian ladyand I have never been with one that wasn't a great experience. Does this mean my fantasy is an asian lady ; no I fantasize about latinas, but that is just me. I think each man has his own fantasy, and asian ladies are a very good and a very safe bet.

I think you are looking mostly for replies from the ladies but I will contribute a little here. Like most men, I am sure , I love to see a lady at the height of sexual enjoyment. I brought a Sabian Machine to the last 2 Chicas parties in Winnipeg. It wasn't manditory that all the ladies participate but it was suggested. And they all did. There was a little hesitation at first but after everyone witnessed the action, all the ladies gave it a try. Part of the entertainment aspect of the party was to have someone else control the dials. There was no lack of volunteers at the controles and this was done in full presents of the whole group. Koodos the the good sportsmenship of the ladies! We had a variety of attachments available , but no anal attachments and no double pentitration attachments. After the first party I was pretty sure that the clitoral stimulator was ' hands down the favorite' After the second party , I am not so sure. The ladies got off on a variety of stimulation. The G spot stimulator , which you have to admit looks a little large, sent 1 lady completely into orbit and created quite a stir in the group. I have never seen anything quite like that. In a way it was a shame that she was the last in the ladies to try it. I am confident that the men would love to see more of that and some of the ladies might have wanted to give it a re-try with this attachment. But the party must go on. At that point we moved on to the next activity. At the first party we had time for the ladies to give the machine a second go and a few did. One lady even a third go. ( ironically she was the one that gave it a go the night before so probably knew more that most what the Sybian was capable of) Let me admit, I was not the master at the controles. That honor would have to go to Wildstallion. Also the lady that was sent into orbit was sent there by another lady , but I have a feeling that anyone at the controles could have done it for her. We did have 1 side effect, but it wasn't serious and it isn't up to me to comment. I hope that one or two (or more) of the ladies that had the Sybian experience at a chicas party in Winnipeg have a chance to add to your post. The Sabian is truly an exciting option. Price makes it a little prohibative but my view it that the more people that can enjoy it the more acceptable is the price. It will come to all of the Manitoba Chicas Parties in the for- seeable future and hopefully play a part in the evening activities. Also I will bring it along to some of my future appointments. I would like all that are interrested to be able to give it a try, but it is only an option. If a lady doesn't want to, I am o.k. with that.