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Happy May Day comrade Joshu and comrade HalfBelgian . I've been thinking about this day, I just didn't get a chance to get to the computer. Then on Monday it appears that all good socialists were out doing their part in the election. Who knew we had so many brothers in Quebec. (lol) Anyway, I for one am glad to see them participating in this country of ours. Now if we can just get those west of Ottawa to share the work load and well as the profit. To learn to take responsibility for their neighbor and not just take all they can get from threir neighbors I am afraid that we are headed for 4 very greedy years. If there is a good side (other than Quebec is in, the green thing is starting to sprout, and socialism is strong) it is that we will see 4 years of an abusive dictator given free reign; after which I expect a strong revolt against dictatorial rule. Everyone, please hold on for a long rough ride; don't give-up the cause, at the end there is hope. Red Chicas

Oh Yes. Way back in my super hero comic book days (well before Batman was cool ,or whatever he was), I admit to a sort of hidden interrest in Wonder Woman, yes cooler that the Green Lantern. Is it just me? Lynda Carter had a nice bod (maybe still does) but behind those beautiful blue eye, it looks like there is NOTHING. To this day I am looking for something more than a beautiful body. Maybe it goes way back to that Wonder Woman super hero in the comics who had everything, including an invisible jet plane. I never understood that but it was way cooler than ' leaping over tall buildings' like superman. Sorry, do I ramble? (retorical) Just one more thought. Why do we say Superman, Batman, Wonder Woman, Woverine, Iron Man, Spiderman, but we say, The Hulk, The Green Lantern, The Flash,The Fantastic Four, and why are comic book heros from my youth, super heroes of today? I never thought of asking for a comic book hero. I guess I grew up, I just want a real (sexually charged) woman. If a comic book hero showed up, I guess it could be great as long as it wasn't superman,batman or the hulk, but you know what; I prefer a real live Latina any day. chicas/chavez

Good advise from Angela. This is what I say Megan. *If you are in buisness answer your phone. Not only is it good buisness practice it it good manners. *When you answer, if you can't talk give him a time what would be suitable to call back. *If you are in "session" give him a oppertunity to leave a message. *If you can't take a 24 hour 7 day schedule ( and that is understandable) leave a message on you answering machine that you can not be available on ," Sunday or Monday/ or today (what ever) please call another time or leave a message" *If you answer and the "gentleman" is pissy that you can't see him today (or tomorrow or next week), he is likely someone that you didn't want to see anyway. Let him be pissy, you be courteous, and allow someone else the pleasure of his company. *If this is a profession (and I believe it is) then it needs to be handled in a professional manner. Answering your clients (unless you are in session) is professional. This is coming from someone that answer his own phone dozens of times a day.Yes there are times when I could club the damned thing with a hammer but when I lift that reciever and there is a potential customer on the other end it is just her and me , and for that minute or minute and a half she knows that her needs are the most important thing in the world to me. It works for me and has worked for a long time. Good luck and take care ....chicas/chavez

Interresting question Sacha. Actually I am a little suprised that more men havn't given an answer similar to the one I will give: I like meeting women, I like to experience all sorts of ladies, ( sexually and non sexually), and I enjoy the variety that comes with all ages. I am well into my middle ages and often find a lady of say 45 , comfortable(as long as she is at ease with her own sexuality, ie she doesn't want to compete with a young 20 something). A lady of 30 or 35 is frequently more dependable and fun. She knows what she can do, she knows the buisness, and she is interrested in her reputation. A younger lady, say 20 to 24, is a little edgy, but I like that uncomfortable feeling. She often doesn't give a shit about her reputation and can be quite undependable but adventurous with-in her own bounds(not yours). Ladies between 24 and 30 are exactly a blend of the two age groups on either side of them. Almost as adventurous, and more willing to stretch their bounds, if we can make it interresting. Less dependable than they should be, often quite adventurous. There is lots to enjoy in each of these groups. (less than 20 years is a little chancy for me. They really need to have a boyfriend or two first to help them understand their own sexuality). Ladies over 45 years. I'm open. As long as they have a good sexual appetite, we could try it. All that said, I find the the ladies in Manitoba are maybe a little more mature in age than other places. They certainly are more honest about their ages. I tend to think that the working life of a lady in Manitoba is a little longer, especially compared to Toronto. I know a lady that used to advertise her age in Manitoba as 31. She moved to T.O. and dropped 7 years from her ad. When I asked her what her real age is she told me the her Manitoba age was correct but ' everyone here lies' . For her it works easily. That was a year ago. I saw her last month, she could pass for 22 yrs. any day of the week. (lucky girl! well we could all use some luck, right). In the end I prefer all ages, just don't give me attitude.....chicas

Interresting thread Angela, thanks. There are many, here are a few. I talk to animals frequently. We don't even have to know each other, I just think it is the proper thing to do.(most of them undestand me.) I have stopped talking to inanimate objects ( mostly due to the stange looks from other people), but I respect their place in the universe ( the objects as much as the people). I enjoy the hightened sense of awareness that darkness allows me. I shower in the dark , even though I know someday that I will break my leg because I never saw that bar of soap on the floor when I stepped out of the shower. Someday I would love shower in the dark with a lady who wants to share that hightened sense of awareness. chicas/chavez

I've seen Niki on tour, She seeems to fit the requirments. Personally she needs to pull up her rep to see me again. Courtney looks o.k. but was a little too money driven for my likes. That leaves Cindy (b.p.) Yes she is big time monotarily driven but she is honest, she is open minded. She has nice little tatas, great perky nipples; really digs sex. If you want an intinmate encounter, not likely your best best. If you want pure sex,exciteing encounters, check her out. But what the freek do I know, take care , chicas

No, in all respects, your saftey is not more importants than mine. I don't have difficulty arrangeing appointments. I don't ask for real names. I give you mine, if you give me yours; but after we meet and only if you ask. Actually very few ladies ask after we meet, but I am O.K. if they want to share. chicas/chavez

I live in a part of Canada where the saying rings true " 'they could run and old yello dog and get elected' The truth is , the conservatives could run and old yellow dog, that hadn't had a bath in 10 years, slobbered when he( yes he not her) spoke and admitted he was a crook and still get the seat. It is hard but I can live with it. Not everyone has to agree with me; but I am sick and tired of hearing these same people complain about our declining health care system. What in the freak did they think would happen? If you keep electing this bunch of crooks, you will keep getting the same freaking thing. If you give them the majority that they want, it will only get worse for most of us! Over and over I see vast difference in other country between the ' have and the have not'.That is where we are headed. It seems that I can live by example but I can't change those around me that ' vote like my dad voted'' so I throw my hope to the rest of Canada. Please , please ; don't give those s.o._ ( letter that rhymes with "c" s) a majority. If you can, throw the ( word that rhymes with masters and starts with 'B') out of office, god bless you. After that I don't care if you choose liberal, green or, orange. I'm 100 % o.k. with a coalition. That is the way many of the best democracies in the world work. Take care, god(s) bless . chicas/chavez

Yeah I'm like Roaminguy, not much into the short texts. I like a lot of forms of communication. If you make it too short you could to easily be misunderstood. I'm a big fan of the greating. Hi '''--. to me it adds sincerity. Unless I'm replying to a text I also close with my name. I know ... we are taking about another dozen characters but what is common courtesy worth. Yes not everyone has a full key pad. For me, I forgo the 'cool' appearence of a slim trim phone to allow me something that I can communicate with. As for expecting an instant reply, never. If I get a reply right away, great ! If not, O.K. too. Lots of the texts I send are at 1:00 or 2:00 in the morning, that is why I'm sending a text; so I don't interrupt you.(otherwise I'd phone). Get back to me when you can. Better for me if it is 36 hours or less but if it takes a week , it takes a week. love the exchange of ideas. chicas/chavez

KingBong I know where you are coming from. I use my cerb name or more commonly my name from another board. I don't block my calls to my 'pay as you go' cell phone , but that isn't real either. I will give my real name to a lady on a shared basis if she asked after we have met a few times. I have never done an incall, always an outcall, (usually to my hotel room) that is often registered in an different name. explanation: I perfer not to enter her world and thereby compromise her identity. I'm O.K. if she want to share that idenity after we meet but I don't want to know before. By the way, good tip Angeltbay. I love to hear anything that anyone learns to make things work for all of us. Do I think that I am over cautious; not really. Once, and only once, I made an appointment with a lady(?) and had to cancel due to unusual circumstances ( I won't go into details now, but sufficient to say if you ever meet the artist known as 'meat loaf' and you see he has a terrible limp, you will know I saw him in the last 2 weeks and kicked his ass around the block til I couldn't lift my foot again). Anyway I let her know 5 hours before our appointment. The crap she put me through was crazy even though I offered to compensate her. She published my name on another board as a 'bad date' and included parts of my 2 cell ph numbers. I truly believe if she had my full name she would have done anything with she could with that. Since that time, if you want my name, we have to meet first. So how is a guy to get into the ' hobby'. Carefully ! Initially I choose an SP with an great rep. for security of information. I did give her all the info she needed after I asked her if she would give an honest report of our ' date' when other ladies requested a reference. Then when we met I gave her my standard treatment. Since then I have had no problems. When asked for name, or where I works or anything else I simple say I will share( like you show me yours, I'll show you mine) those thing when we meet if you require it; until then I will give you however many referrences you would like. I seldom know if they check the references. Some what I have a rep on the boards. Granted my rep here isn't sterling, but that is because I'm honest, don't hide my thoughts and don't sugar coat things. If I'm saying good things about you, you deserve it. Anyway, I don't blame the ladies for being cautious, you should be every bit as cautious, try to find some way that works for each of you. chicas/chavez ps. Sorry for the story; that's just my style

I'll pm a story to you. Sorry nothing sweet and simple.

I am wondering about he merit of some of these policies. etasman tell us that noninating a post also contributes to points. Today I saw a member wishing another member a happy birthday. It was a simple wish and I'm sure it was heart felt but different member nominated that post. What the heck is that ? If you want to wish her a happy birthday do it yourself. Nominateing someone elses birthday wish is like sucking-up in the cheapest form. I'm not sure who the sucking up was intended for; but tell me; is there points attibuted to someone when this sucking up thing is done? These are the things that send up red flags for me. Senseless suck-ups, and collecting friends like fly paper collects bugs. I appologize. I am from Manitoba , and from past history we need to be a little more careful in this province. Infiltration is a dirty reality chicas/chavez

Easy easy question Alpha male. If I couldn't or wouldn't give my wife the sexual fulfillment that she needed and she was becoming more bitchy and more bitchy with each pssing week and each passing year because unreleased hormones were f**king with the civilized portion of her brain. I would welcome someone else releaving the pressure for her ; making her fuctional and easier to live with for everyone. Not that I expect that my wife would feel that way, but then I am very sensative to other peoples suffering. You might think, 'then you should divorce'. No, in almost every other sense we work so very well together. No doubt you have heard it said that you shouldn't just get married for the sex, well that goes double for divorce.....chicas/chavez

I like parties. I like arranging them, I like participating in them, I like being the center of attention , I like not being the center of attention. I love to watch people enjoy each other, especially sexually , but not necessarily in ' the ' sexual act. I like to spoil a lady and love when she says " I've never had an experience like that". I like to be generous , but do not abide any attempt at financial domination. ( actually domination of any kind) I am a bit of a thrill seeker. Things that others might consider dangerous ( usually they aren't) . I don't mind doing this on my own because I meet the most interesting people doing the same things. I love being in uncomfortable places, it is an adrenaline rush. At one depressive time in my life( my mother died) I did a bit of golfing ; I thought it was O.K. and I might take it up when I get old. Now that I am older I realize that I will never get that old. I am 10 times more likely to die in the mountains of Colombia or with a bullet in my head than I am possibly going to die of a heart attach on a golf course anywhere in the world. And I am happier knowing that. My apology (and sympathy) for those that like golf. I understand that I am outnumbered 50 to 1. Those are my kind of odds ! Fishing ; I could do that; Fishing nude with a mixed party of 10 men and women in a river with piranha and a picnic basket of grapes, wine, and cheese, on the river bank; now you are talking, sign me up!....chicas

Cat you defined your answer just as I see the question, and so much better than I could have. No doubt you have put a lot on thought into your answer and your answer helps me better understand my needs. Thank you....chicas

Thanks Julia, I feel for you in so many ways. Until now I didn't feel like I could respond. My natural first responce to say turn the other check. Go to the Sunday supper and when you are alone ask your mother if she wants to tell you why she wants to ( what do you say) leave you out of her will. It is her money after all ( actually not likely all her money, likely her money and your father's, but she can see it however). I expect you were independent before the money and can be independent after. So she is really just hurting her image. Let her explain why she wants to do this. If it is hard to listen to, while she is explaining it, pretend she is explaining how she feels about you sister. I don't know for sure. My older sister might have been in the buisness, she certainly hinted at it, but never said as much. It didn't matter to me, she was my sister, she was a beautiful person inside and out, she away treated me and everyone I ever met well ( that is why I suspect she may have been in the buisness). Her relationship with my mother wasn't quite as seamless as my relationship with my mother but I think that is because she didn't manage money as well as the rest of us ( there never was a lot). When the end came for my mother she said to me ' I never gave you as much as I gave your sister' I told my mother ' you did what you needed to do. I would never have wanted you to do otherwise' Julia, at this time in her life , that is what your mother needs to know. She needs to know that she did what she needed to do. What ever she does , let her know that you accept it. I hope that if you do this , she will accept you. If not , the money isn't yours anyway . CARMA . you will get back anything you can release. It worked for me ; it can work for you. Just release it. Now meeting someone you know: I don't know if my mom knew that I know what my sister did. I don't know if my sister knew that I knew what she did. I don't know if I knew what my sister did. IT DOESN'T MATTER. It doesn't matter. I loved them both. They both believed the best in people. They both treated people well. They are both saints in my eyes. If I met a lady I knew I would have a hard time not to acknowledge them. Lots of the ladies I know by their real names, if I don't I would never use their trade names. About explaining how I know them; not hard. " that was the lady I was telling you about at the spanish class, she....." Remember the lady that I was telling you about that had the mother with.... that's her. I hope things are going better. " that was Brenda, you remember I was telling you about her. I met her at.... her husband left her after the twins were born. I think it was too much for both of them. Can you imagine?" "This is your mother? (change gaze) Look I have to say your daughter really helped me understand my ( daugher) ( son) (cat)[ what ever I know about the lady], she was a god send. Look in honesty (ironic) I have learned how to lie. Base it on honesty. The more truth you know the better you can make it work. That's it Julia, release things, accept things , help where you can. It all comes back. If not now, I think in the next life. So far for me it has been in this life, that might be good, but it could be bad. Maybe I don't have may lives left. My sister would know . lol .....chicas

Of course you realize the Sybian is just a diversion(but what a diversion !). You are not forgetting our special operation are you. I have ran it by some members of the other camp and although it scares the heck out of some, a few might have what it takes for this assignment. We may have to pay mercenary wages though, not everyone is in this for the adventure. Traes tu arma ( use slang translation,not literal) Do you have any word on that improved communication system? I would have liked to make an announcement at the last party. Luego amigo ......red chicas

Seriously, I didn't realize there was a sensitivity about big bills. Always use 100s and 50s. Thought it was easier for the ladys to count,( if she wanted to count it). These bills seem to be coming more and more common in our everyday currency, so I thought it was O.K. Never had a complaint though... so it can't be that bad. Now mind you this is coming from someone that will mourn when "they" stop making pennies...chicas

Hi Hicapa, I think quite a bit will depend on what you like. I believe most ladies will agree with me when I say the best way to get what you like is to ask for it. I don't always do that, some ladies have their own program and that is what they want to do but lots would like to hear what you like. Don't demand , just suggest. Something like " babe what yor are doing feels good, how would you like to use your teath a bit, don't bite , just close them around my shaft a little when you pull back". Something like that. Personally I like a lot of suction ; like she is going to pull the head right off. One lady that I gave some suggestions to continued to practice for 15 minutes longer after I made the suggestion and in my oppionion gave me a very good job. She wrote me message a few months later saying "thanks for the tips, I use them all the time now and get complements" What could I say, glad to help. lol chicas

Like Sweetadmirer, all my appountments are outcalls . For as long as I have been doing this, I always have a bottle of wine(usually bubblely), and a few bottles of fruit juice (often 2 or 3 types) and lately I have also added a fine ginger ale ( you might ask , what the hell is a fine ginger ale; something with snap). I ask the lady is she would like a glass of wine, or juice or ginger ale. Given an either or choice she will almost always choose one and not say "No". Then I will pour us each the same. Heck I selected the bottles so I like anyone of them. I'm never disappointed if she chooses either the juice or the ginger ale. I can drink which ever I want at a latter date. Right then it is about shareing so I'm shareing whatever she wants. I do have fond memories of one appointment where we each selected a wine and brought them. She has very good taste in wine so we drank her bottle first and mine next. This was a O.N. encounter so it really didn't seem excessive. It seemed each of us could hold our alcohol quite well and with the other refreshments it made for an enjoyable night. I always consider the offer of a refreshment as the proper way to start an encounter. ...chicas/chavez

Your right man. I've read a number of your posts( not all, your pretty prolific). Lots I agree with, and some I'm not sure I get the point (not your fault, likely mine). We are here to express a thought, agree with a thought, disagree with a thought , discuss a thought and maybe express a counter thought. There is no room for name calling. Few of us really know each other well enough to form a fair opinion about anyone. What you do, keep doing.... chavez

Ahhh Pushpin, I see that the nuances of jewlwery elude you, ( esta O.K. , yo tambien). The ring was stering silver, the jewel was an emerald of .693 ct , Colombian certified. Anyone see Romancing the Stone ? J2Y, you are absolutely right. This night was the thing that deams are made of. I think that Pushpin and Wildstallion will agree with me. When you woke the next morning your mind is saying ' did that really happen?' All that day your normal work is made more difficult as your mind replays the events in random order, and the whole week images keep floating in and out of your mind. It is similar to somethings you have done in your life and different than anything you have ever done. In short it is what memories are made of. I am not sure what it means for the ladies. I can only hope that it is atleast half as special as it was for the men. That is what we are aiming at; some great memories while shareing something special ; that and community. take care ... chicas/chavez

I'm with Meagan's tough on this one. I'm even a little so-so on incalls. My preference is for hotel rooms,if we can a little upscale even better, but an incall could be o.k. ( never actually did one.) I realize may be a bit of a dollar thing. Recently I saw a lady and asked her if she did incall as well as outcall. She said ' no incalls only outcalls" and in my mind I said 'great, my kinda girl' then she added ' outcalls and cars'. I asked " you mean car dates?" She replyed "yeah". I thought, 'Oh shit'. then thought ' chicas you are being way to moralistic to reflect your true nature, I'm not in her shoes, I mean boots, or in her panties. She is doing what is right for her; maybe I shouldn't be so judgemental' We continued and I can't say it wasn't good but I was definitely treated differently than I'm usually treated dureing an appointment. Still I wouldn't do a 'car date' and I won't say I don't like ladies that do car dates,but I do prefer to see ladies that don't do car dates..... chicas

Thank you Kaylee for your help putting the giftbags together. You were a delight to have at the party. You and I share that enjoyment of people enjoying themselves. If you want a chance to use the Sybian in more privacy we can arrange that. Next time I'll ask the girls and guy to close 1 eye each. lol . Actually what you have to share is too good to keep to ourselves, but if that would help you become more familiar with tha Sybian ; you got it.... chicas/chavez

Omehgosh, Reddog and Sweetcakes are all hinting in the right direction. Dehydration is a glood part of the problem. The reason we don't all know the answer is becasue it is illeagle to advertise a product for hang over relief in Canada. I guess they thing hang overs are a cure for over consumption. There is ounce of truth to this but the question is a cure for hangover. Besides dehydration you have an acid imbalance in your body making your muscles hurt and stomach want to wretch and some nasty peraldydes giving you a headache. The peraldehyes came from the liquor fermentation process. they are sort of a side reaction. It is a poison related to its more common cousin formaldehyde. In time you will breath it off. Peraldehye is more volitile than alcohol , unstill that happens you need some analgesic , and it takes less than you think. ( more in a moment). Now we got to get some fluids and alkalinity back in you body, So you have to drink something alkalynie. Who in the hell is going to do that you ask. Well the there is a comercial product that gives you both alkalinity, and analgesic and it wasn't designed by mistake. Cure : 2 Alakaselzer tablets in a glass of cool water, wait a moment for them to disolve and then drink it down. Yeah it tastes like slough water but it works. Add one more tylenol or ibuprofen if you want but chances are you won't need it. After the alkaseltzer in disolved in the glass I through in a 1/2 tsp of ENOs. It is more for taste than anything. So that is my story. Alkaseltzer is the answer, we don't all know about it becasue you can't advertise a cure for hangover. When you know this the alkaselzer ad. makes sense now. " Plop Plop, Fizz, Fizz; Oh what a relief it is. For when you over indulge. " The ad all looks like they mean when you eat too much, but you gotta read between the lines. Oh and a little bit or chemisty doesn't hurt either. Take care, take it eazy and when you don't take Alkaselzer Hey I like that like for the new ad. lol .....chicas