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Hey thanks john for the advise. Right. Tour right.

Right, Your right.

I'm sorry Megan. that your query has become more of a toy to play with rather than a question that deserves a proper response. I was looking forward to see the recommendations of others, not a bunch of dicking arround; but maybe this is like when we were kids. Who is going to step into the water first ( none of us want to be bitten by the shark). So here goes : I'm not big into toys, certainly not an everytime thing but with the right lady and on occassion , yeah we can have some fun. Like most men I am big into the visual. A personal citoral vibrator is el primero! Something that works for you to get you off while I watch. I don't care if I'm doing the manipulations or you are. I'm looking at your face , your body and you vagina. It is like watching an Imax movie, I don't know where to focus my attention but it doesn't matter 'cause I'm loving it all . El segundo; Again big into the visual. I enjoy useing a pussy pump with a lady.This does require my participation , especially as a lot of ladies are a little unfamiliar with this. Simple stated it is a device that uses a partial vacume around the ladies vagina to draw more blood into that area resulting in temporarily enlarged vaginal lips and citoris. From what I have heard from the ladies this increases sensitivity which suite me very well because I like to use my tongue very gently. The visual is fantastic, lets face it ladies all men can't be hung like a horse, and all ladies don't have long lucious lips. The pussy pump is a bit of a equalizer. El tercero; Yep you guessed it . The visual again. A nipple pump can start a lot of fun. Actually same basic principle. Negative Gs on a device that fits over the ladies nipple. (oh I forgot to mention that these last two devices can be use with or without vibrator). Depending on the lady this can cause a temporary increase in nipple length of 1.5cm to 2cm. I don't know why but long nipples really do something for me. Remember, a ladies nipples vary a lot in sensitivity. While some ladies find this enjoyable others will find it painful. Make sure to ask before and during. The point is always, pleasure for both of you. Here is a little addendum. I have been told " I will if you will". I have nipple that like to be played with. I really had no objection. She seemed to have fun trying it out on me first. It didn't feel bad, but frankly it looked a little strange to me. Women with long nipples, great! Men with long nipples, wierd. One final bit here. Early in my experience I recieved a visit from a lady. She wasn't carrying a purse but a large shopping bag, rather full. When I asked her what was in the bag she said " a change of cloths , thought you might like something different, some high heal shoes, I kind of like a lot of shoes, and some toys." We proceeded on with the first thing on my agenda. After an hour or so I asked her what type of toys she had in the bag. She said "lots". I said " like what" she said " Well I have a strap on". I said , " let's see" . She pulled out of that bag , this strap on with a huge dildo attatched. The damned thing must have been 8 or 9 inches long, at least 3&1/2 inches around and had a pronouced upper curve. Lord almighty it must have been purchase with her girlfriend in mind and I'm thinking, a very open minded girlfriend. I told her to put it away and we proceeded to other things on my wish list. To this day I don't know why she brought that thing to a meeting with a man. The point of this last little piece is, make sure the toy suits the company. There we go Megan. I have put out something for real discussion. Do you thing that we can have some men give you meaningful input to your question?.... Chavez :bddog:

Hi Rake, PM ed a message to you .

Hey I know what you mean. I love the ladies , but for me a latina is absolutely, unbelieveabley sexy. If we have no luck waiting for this to happen ; then maybe we can make it happen. What do you think?

Scott , I have always considered Tanis a real prospect. If you have this experience , will you let me know how it goes... chavez

Soleil , if you keep this up you have all the makings of a party without me. You know my limitations timewise but you also know that I'd be happy to contribute something to cover some of the overhead. Keep up the good work ! ; ahhh......and save something special for me. O.K. You know I'm all Manitoba...... chavez

Hey Scott , I understand your needs/wants and situation , 100 % . I'll pm you a little later. chavez

Yeah I sort of know of what you speak. I don't think that a regular session would do this to me but I recall being at work the day after an overnighter. I reached for something and felt a twinge in my abdominal muscles. My first thought was ' What the hell is that about?', then I remembered some of the things that brought on the strain. I'm sure a huge grin passed over my face right after the grimace from the twinge. Luckily for me nobody was waching to ask me ' What the hell was that about' Anyway if I could do that on a regular basis my stomach would be as hard and flat as I'm sure my wallet would be. Wonderful exercise, wonderful memories.:cooter::motion::69::bddog::bjs::lol:

You are too kind Soleil, and you are absolutely correct. I was within a couple of weeks of giveing this another go. There were 2 options, one Bdn and one Wpg. When I think of the facilities available I couldn't actually think of a better location than we had. It was something wasn't it! Having learned from the first time, this would have been a few $ less, but not a lot less. You will remember that the first one was billed as a barrb reunion/ birthday party. Being a birthday party we had to have, how do you say, treat bags for the ladies( like at a kids party). You will remember because you helped me put them together, there was like 150-250 $ worth of treats in each. That was only a birthday party option and I don't think we would have to do it every time. In response to livenudecats, yes the ladies should receive and honorarium for showing up.We did this with no obligation. Simply stay for 1 hour, if you like what is happening stay longer, if you aren't having fun you are free to leave. I did start to invite one lady that told me straight up that she would take the money, stay for an hour . If there was more money to be made she would stay , otherwise she was leaveing. I'm not opposed to anyone making money but my premise was ' if you are having fun. ' That invite never went any further. I'm not going to go any further into what we did at the party ( atleast for now) . I tried to write a review, but it was just tooooo much, and those that know me from Barrb realize that I don't usually have that problem. I had, maybe the best time of my life ; but how could I not. I was partying with one of the most beautiful ladies , one of the most open minded ladies and one of the most fun ladies that I have ever been with and I was shareing. I do have a few regrets. Primary was you and vgedit having to leave somewhere around 1:00. You and I both know that we would do that differently now . For all those that say they would have come had they known. You know what, I would have invited you , had I known. Like Zoe said, I learned some things from Sydnee. I saw her take a good deal of static about a party that she arranged and made too public.( aparently). This happened just before I started on the boards. I offered to help her throw another party, and even offered to supply a large suite in a hotel. There is no doubt that she is/was much more in the know than I, but we had a major disagreement about if these things should be hoasted in ones home. She won, I never went, but did contribute in my way. I still don't think I was wrong . When I say we had a major disagreement that is a little strong. I liked Sydnee, I respected what she was trying to do, we just didn't always agree. Kind of like your sister. So Zoe now you know how I feel about hoasting a party in your home. To be honest it was the men that were the problem ( aren't they always). I invited maybe a dozen men that I knew from barrb and who I thought knew me. (I had no real presents on cerb at the time, still don't I guess). Granted there is the true excuss of conflict of timing, and I know there was a little bit of ' I can't believe' this but still I was disappointed. Soleil , we could have had more ladies; but that wasn't the point. It had nothing to do with me gathering as many ladies around me as possible.It was more about sharing an experience. So I thank you, I thank Tina , I thank our TO. lady and damn it; I even thank VG, for the experience. Like I said we came this close to another party in a couple of weeks then the wheels fell of just before I was going to tell you. But I'll tell you what girl. You keep up your work and I'll keep setting aside 'un poco dinero' and we will have us a party that will knock the sox off anything that is happening in Ottawa. O.K. ?

You Alexxis,are a shameless flirt. Your writing teases us, and we are the perfect subjects for your firtation. We paint ourselves into the scene that you have created to tease us. If 100 men read these prose, 99 men will think they could be that man, but you know only one can be that special one. Mission accomplished ,( 99%)......chavez

Nicolette, Old Dogs reply was very much like the comfort that I wanted to offer (without the humor, and it was humorous). I don't like accidental killing of any animal, but if we consider the circle of life it starts to make sense. You don't have to accept the circle of life completely but accept the possibility. It helps put all life and all death in prespective , even your own.I don't believe we should cause death but accept it. Still there is a purpose for greiveing. We need to save that for the ones you love, be they human or animal...chavez ps. it was alright for you to share these feelings

It is O.K. if you want to slam me. I tried to give an honest account of my experiences. Some people are not used to frank honesty. In your defense I will say at age 30 I too didn't have as many expectation of life. If you want to dismiss me, first take a look at the Wpg section of this board.... chavez

Really not as difficult as you might think. My experience, married ladies and ladies with boyfriends tend to have too many restriction to fully enjoy you or for you to fully enjoy them. I prefer open minded ladies that only have to answer only to themselves. Still, if you want this, put out a call. Be clear what you would like to do dureing the appointment....chavez

Buenas Noche Chica, It is wonderful to hear from you once more. I am so happy to see that things are working well for you and glad to have an update on the project. I have often wondered how that was going and if it was headed in the direction that you planned. As classy a lady as you are, there are not many here that would believe you would have matched me glass for glass all evening and both of us no worse for the wear at the end of five hours. In the morning no ill effects and such a sweet departure. I am gratefull that you made the trip out of the city to meet me and although I was unable to see you on your farewell tour, maybe I prefer that memory of and entire night for me alone. Best wished for you and your family....chavez:wink:

your indulgence please. I have a couple of short stories. I am by nature a gentle person, like Antlerman, I find stikeing a woman against my nature. The very first experiece I had with a sp was with a lady aws from an agency in Winnipeg. ( need I say more). This young lady had so many restrictions that after 1/2 hour of talking I finally said ' what do you like to do?' She replied that she sort of liked to be spanked. I was so not into this lady and so not into the spanking thing that although I had really few other options , I wouldn't do it. It is a small miracle that I didn't give up pooning that night. Things improved after I learned not to use an agency in Wpg. Fast forward about a year and a half and numberous sucessful meetings later. I did swat a lady on the butt. It was a single swatt and I would say not hard but more than a tap. The situation here was quite different. I was meeting with an independent lady that had a reputation as a bit of a dom, but not exclusively. This was the first time since my first SP that I was not getting where I wanted to go. Finally I gave her a swatt on the ass . As she protested ' no one has ever...' I moved her into the position that would move things along. We ended having a mutually very enjoyable time and to this day we remain good friends. At the time I could see no alternative and I think it was my way of showing I had no intention of being dominated. Since then I don't think I have given a lady more than a tap on the butt. I have met a few ladies that say they also enjoy a bit of hair pulling. I can't say that is my thing either but who knows, given a certain situation I might do it, once.

Yes sometimes . How so messy. Sin_Cindy, do you ever play with food. It can be particularly satisfying after a few months of dieting

Sorry I maybe wasn't clear. Sometime people pose a question because they want someone to ask them that specific question. I'm quite willing to listen to the thoughts of the person originally poseing the question....chavez

I like it all.This is like asking me if I like blonds or brunettes. When we meet I want plenty of light. I want to see her face , her eye, her lips, the curve of her body. I want her to see me , the good, the bad, the whole thing . I like nothing hidden. When I'm kissing her ear lobes and neck I love to see the goosebumps and her nipple grow errect and when I first go down I want to see the fine details that make her special. Then after the first round as we sit in the jaccuzi shareing a glass of wine and refeshments. The soft glow of candle light or a lamp off in the corner followed by more of the same on the couch. Now I don't need a light to touch and stroke as we cuddle and move into round two. At the end I need more light. Frankly things are a mess. Cloths all over the place, damp towels, food trays, wine glasses, ice buckets (yeah we probably used the ice for more than cooling the wine) candles, and if we did more with the food than just eat it , then there might be whipped cream and chocolate. It all needs cleaned before we part ; and a final kiss. I need light. Then back out into the night and the dark and the glow in the dark and I return home. Yes light and dark important, one not more than the other.

Sorry 2 personalities: shareing/anti-authoritarian

Certainly I want to be closer to some SPs. I like when we share story and I love when we share experience but I'm not looking for love. I think most SPs aren't looking for love either and maybe most aren't even looking to share, but there is room for all of us in this boat. What about you Origin ( robert3)? Do you want to share your feelings on this topic with us.....chavez

Your advise, Soleil is invaluable, your experience, I'm sure , is re assureing. Your protege could not have done better than look to you for help. How fortunate she was! I think that you will find Bdn a wise and profitable choice. ( did you really mean " bent-up sexual fantasies"; this could be wild)

Thanks Cobra guy, I've stayed at most of those hotels ( agree about fort G), never thought of asking for an afternoon rate. This info could come in handy.....chavez

Hi Raven, certainly you did the right thing, and yes maybe you picked up on a vibe that wasn't intended. We guys can get our tongues twisted sometimes and what we want to say is not what is heard. By leaveing the door open you gave him a chance to back-up and start over gain at a different time, and if he is really interrested he will do that. However men are sensative creature too. If you cold shoulder him again he should , and probably will, read that as rejection, and that is what it should be. If he doesn't understand that as rejection,that is when to worry. Oh and can you give me a few leasons in "cutsey". Jeez all I got is honesty, straight forwardness, affection and how do the say " a real gentleman". I could use some of that "cutsey" stuff.... chavez

Close Plumcrawl, This isn't directed at anyone in particular but a suggestion to ladies that tell us buisness is slow and the economy bad. They need to look outside the perimeter. More and more ladies (yes Winnipeg but others as well) are spending a day or two in Brandon. Close Alphamale except I have never advocated dropping prices. Prices are fine in Wpg and Bdn. I expect a little higher remuneration in Bdn to cover costs. Coming to Brandon needs to be all about discretion. See my posts and the posts of others in " Suggestions Hotels" One day Victoria our schedules will align. I can hardly wait.... chavez