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Thanks for pointing out the current visits of Victoria and the lovely Dorinda. For me to participate in ' the hobby' the moon and the stars ( and sometimes the sunlight herself) have to align. Still I have incredible ' dumb luck' with my meetings.( I believe I have reddog to thank for the dumb luck). The point of my post was this; it seems to me more and more ladies are complaining about buisness being slow, about the down turn in the economy , about clients that don't want to pay full price. On the otherhand I see more and more ladies making the trip to Brandon for buisness , and I know why; and I know how they could do a better job for their clients. In buisness you can either sit on your duff and complain or open your eyes to the posibilities around you. Sorry if this comes off too strong for some of the cerb community. It is what it is.... chavez

I like your thought process wildstalion. I too have thought about the hotels aways from Brandon, but I wouldn't count on cheaper rates, at least not in Portage , if you want a nicer hotel. Still I like the restaurant thought. In Bdn at LakeViews there is parking behind the hotel / or park at Subway and walk the 100 yards. Comfort Inn (also outside enterance on the main floor) , park at McDonalds, Super 8, park at Smittys or A&W. I know why the ladies like the Vic, the north 40, the Royal Oak, and Canad Inns; it gives them something to do if it is quiet but it sends shivers up my spine if I have to park at and walk into those places to meet a lady. Either the market in Brandon is so hot that the ladies don't care about discretion ( ie: it isn't their ass on the line) / or they don't understand discretion and believe that if they are getting out of the city they want to have an entertaining trip. Personally I have chosen not to see a lady that I would like to see because she has chosen a conspicuous location. The other alternative is choose, the hotel and pay for it, choose the lady, then pay for the travel.... chavez

Beauty BB. These last 2 are , how do I say, exquisite. You are me, with the tongue of a dove. Someday;...... someday , we will share one lady between us and although it will be beautiful for us, for her it will be , como se dice, exquisite ! ... chavez

Close attention will show you that more and more ladies from Winnipeg and outside are making the trip to Brandon. A Brandon trip is not easy but still it must be worthwhile or it wouldn't be happening. Maybe the ecomomy in much of Canada in on the downturn, but here it is smokeing hot! Not only that but we are way under serviced and as a friend of mine once said " as horney as a two peckered owel chaseing a half fucked fox through a forest fire" . Yeah,me too, I'm not sure about that image but he claimed that it was a phase that his Grannie used and if it is good enough for Grannie it is good enough for me. :smile: ....chicas

Unless I miss my guess Tina girl, Alex is also talking about Bdn. If you are comeing to Bdn, (and if you R let me know), most things about Wpg apply except more descret is even better. I know some ladies perfer the Royal oak, the north 40, the Victoria Inn, the Canads Inn. All too high profile. Brandon is all about descresion. Choose something nice but lower profile. Perhaps Days Inn ,or Super Eight on the # 1, Low profile but heart of the action, Colonial Inn and Suites , or my fav. Lake View Inn & Suites. As a matter of fact, contact me , I'll help you work out something when you come. Jeez, now you've got me thinking. I gotta stop. Haste Luego chavez

As alway Birdboy , I love your words. We could use more creative characters here. On this submission you got a little far away from sex for me. I admit you includes the stawberrys and cream ; I'd like to hear a little more of you intentions or a little more of what happened. Yes the tittilation is nice, but paint us a bigger picture. (I know you can). This was like peeping through the keyhole, I'd like to be there in the room with you. Yours in creative prose.... to the end..... chavez ;-)

Hi Birdboy, Your prose are well known and well loved by us in Manitoba. mas luego chavez

Please indulge me for a moment. I define phobias as irrational fears. Fear has only 1 rational purpose and that is the presevation of life. Once you have surrendered the fear of death you can surrender all fears and live life to the fullest. Now I know many of you are thinking " that arrogant chavez, I hate him." Let me continue for a moment.... Surrender your fears. I know it is unusual and may seem irrational but I surrendered my fear of death when I was eight years old. You might think ' what a dismal childhood' . On the contrary. I had a wonderful childhood in what might have been difficult circumstances. One example: I had no fear of bullies or being bullied by the 'in crowd'. Not only that, but I had no fear of standing up for those being bullied and hence I was able to relieve a great deal of misery for others because a bullie can do nothing to someone who has no fear. I nearly drown when I was 10 or 11. Because I overcame my fear I was able to save myself. Now my favorite activity is scuba diving. I have no fear of heights, no fear of darkness, no fear of spiders or snakes, or fire ( got over that one when I was 12). No fear of stangers, no fear of being a stranger, no fear of different culture, no fear of crowds, no fear of being alone, no fear of public speaking. These are all nothing, just part of me; but there are a few ' non fears' that I am prowd of. All of us, and I mean all of us are many facetted personalities. Almost all of us only have enough courage to show only 1 or 2 of those personalities to the world. I show it all. If you know me you never understand me but you can't hate me; and that is what I want, less hateing everywhere. Second. I have no fear of loathing. The world is populated by people that worry about what others might think of them. I say release that fear, be true and be honest. If you do so you will have many true friends. Finally choose your friends by the way they treat others. If you choose wisely you can defend them when the world turns against them. If you can do this , you have proven your worth and conquered your fears. chavez

So well said Birdboy. Your feelings are shared by many of us maybe all of us. For some its hard to put it out there, but you did it man.... chavez

Hi Soleil, Glad to see you back in form. (although I never realized that you missed a stroke) That was some party and whether we call it a poly party or a good old fashioned orgy or even an early birthdayparty for you that got out of hand, it was fun. Speaking of which , I have never tasted a more delectable birthday cake. Thanks for supplying the main "ingredients". As I think back there were dozens of memories from the night and I know one of yours was the "team hug" . We must have looked like a team because at that point we were all wearing the same uniform. For me , I will never forget the first break when we all stood around naked and I realized that I left the keys locked in the other room with our cloths when we all scrambled to the king size bed in the main room.In panic (well as close as I get to panic) I was wondering which one of us was going to go down to the lobby in a towel and ask for another key. Huge relief when Tina said " I grabbed my cloths before we ran out of there; there here somewhere". Honestly you had to be there to understand. I remember you saying " I didn't know five hours could go so quickly and then you took another hour to leave. I think that was about the 2/3 point in the party and that was totally my fault for saying that the party would last until 12:00 or 1:00. I really had no idea but I had to tell the hotel something. You can't blame them for thinking that a party that last until after 4:00 a.m. might get "out of hand". It kind of did , but in a really good way. I spoke with Tina a few days ago. If we ever do this again, she wants and invite. I am so grateful to you for your help in organizeing this and for holding my hand as more timid souls bailed on us. Man we work well as a team ! I'm not sure who is the quarter back and who is the main reciever ........ yeah I am. I couldn't have done it without you. THANKS chavez

Nice choice mod. I was pretty sure this post would stay because of the vitriol it would enspire from some of the nice people on this board . I am sorry that I use the word "you" I certainly wasn't pointing a finger at any of the ladies that proceeded me in this topic. Speaking of which. Some have commented that I got off topic and the topic was about intoxicated potential clients not just a glass or two of wine. I don't remember any one commenting this to two of the member that proceeded me in the post. I think cheektocheek said some about ladies not seeing you if you have had a drink period. Fortunate one said some boards encourage newbies to drink........I find that disturbing. Both these posts proceeded mine. Did I come across pretty strong? Yes. Was it intentional? Maybe. Will we see my appology here tomorrow? We will see. Finally a word of thanks to Red Machine for wishing me good luck making appointments. I just came off a 7 hour marathon with three very fine ladies. As one of them said at the start . Look at that " a blond, a brunette and a red head". Actually I would have said mahogany, but then I'm not one to argue. Thanks Red Machine, I am doing quite well in the lady department, but a little luck never hurts.

Very interresting and very timely. This weekend at a party I attended this very subject came up. Honestly I am well past my 30s and frankly well past my 40s but I try to keep up. A couple of people ( not a couple) brought up the movie " Blue Velvet" . I know the movie and in my opinion everyone that talks about sex movies should know about it, but not everyone did. The movie is not simply sexual, it is sensual and makes you think about your own sexuality. I'm not a movie buff but I think a movie should make you think. What do you think? Should a movie make you think and question your sexuality or is it there to stimulate your sexual response.

Look man I've looked a this situatution fromk a man's point of view. You can take this advise or not, it is up to you. If our are takeing hair of your back, off your tummy, your hinny waxing is the best. I don't know if you can find someone to help you with you hinney I don't On your pubes (around the cock) a trimmer will work fine . The ladies don'y expect bare. On your balls and perinium a razor does a wonderful job BUT in a week, Freek it hurts . You are not so much shaving as sharpning the ends of each hair shaft. Here I find a depilorator cream is best. I follow the instructions except I leave it on at least until the max time. So what product is best. Look for the bikine line product. ( I don't give a rip if you never wear a bikini or not) Now which is best. I haven't tried every product and if you do so tell us. From my experience Veet work better than Nair, Less irritateing at the time max, The time max works best for me. Good wishes Chicas

Man you guy are close minded. When I make an appointment I always ask if the lady would like to share a bottle of red wine , a bottle or white wine or would she prefer juice. ( I really don't care but I never offer any thing stonger than wine) Secondly: I often make my first contact after 10.00 pm. Damn it I work hard and I work late if you can't do the same you likely don't deserve me, and if I talk to a lady after 10:00 pm I like to think I can tell if she is a boozer or a stoner. If that is the case I'm courteous but I don't make the appointment . This thing about if a guy can perform after a glass or two of wine is bull shit. If after a guy has a glass or two of wine and you don't make him blow his load, maybe you need to examine at your ability. If you need a tea drinking, early to bed, man maybe you need to advertise in the seniors only boards. That would be helpful to me. If you have reached that point, get off the bus, make room for the younger minded (not always younger) ladies that can keep up. ....chavez

Before you choose Savannah you need to PM me.

My experience with Jamie is fairly recent. ( we are talking dark-haired, Italian heritage Jamie on EC?) My review is not acceptable here. PM me for details.

Tights jeans, shorts and capris can be sexi. Short skirts & tight dresses are always sexi. My vote, short skirts.

Yeah yu got me. As I'm reading this I kept wondering how I would react. I was thinking that I couldn't have backed up . I'm pretty sure I'd look for the lady with the pussy, offered to pay for any vet bills; hoped that we formed some sort of relationship. Then cad that I am, hoped that I got a crack at her pussy.

The customer is right. Even if he is cheap.... he's right. The best you can do is think that he wanted to take the 20 and give it to Big Brother or something. .... Yu never know.0.. Chavez;-)

There is a problem on this planet and we are complicent. Here we have a member's appology for trying to help another member. What are we coming to? We need to encourage people that want to co exist. We should be breaking down walls not building them up. Personally , I don't like appologies. They put the supposed wrong do er under pressure , and they put the recipient of the appology under pressure to choose to accept the appology or not. Sometimes you are a heel to feeling offended in the first place and then if you don't accept you are a heel for not doing so. Better that the supposed wrong do er explain what the did and why. Discuss that if you wish, then more on. Both sides can learn. No one is offended..Chavez

Yes I capitalized ( and I never have before). What you did K3lly401 has no merit. You have taken your husband's fantasy that he shared with you ( and includes you) and turned it into a joke , and you bragged about it. He presented his fantasy to you , you atleast owe him the respect to present him with your alternative. If you can't do a F.F.M. threeway for the sake of all that is fair say so. Now at the very least you owe it to him to tell him that he is free do so without you. You have opened the door to do this behind your back , and if he does , he has my respect....Chavez

It is easy; you can do it to. Like you at one time I had a difficult time having a nap. If I did, I overslept, awoke groggy and couldn't sleep that night. I found the answer quite by mistake. Sleep deprivation ! Work hard all day long; a combination of mental and physical work is best. Reduce your sleep time to 6 hours a day. After a few weeks, reduce it to 5 hours a day. Keep up the pressure so that you need to wake-up to do the things that ' need to be done , and wouldn't get done without you.' Then 3 or 4 days a week reduce the sleep time to 4 hours a night. At this point you don't have to work the other 20 hours a day, probably 18 hours is enough, take 2 hours a day for yourself as chill time. It will feel great! After a week or so of this you will find you can drop off any chance you have. As long as you keep-up the self impossed pressure you will find you can limit the nap time to 15 minute, 20 minutes, half an hour or 45 minutes and still wake-up refreshed and ready to go. Here is the bonus. On the weekend ( atleast one day) you can allow yourself to sleep until 9:30 or 10:00. It will feel decadent and you havn't wasted your weekend by sleeping it away. Oh yeah , vitamins. Get yourself a good multivitamin, and supplement it with extra B vitamins. I tried to live this life style at university but nobody told me about the vitamin thing. I've been living like this (and some would despute that it is really living) for a few years now. I nap at the drop on a hat. I can sleep in a vehicle whenever I'm not driving and fall asleep in under 10 minutes. I can sleep lieing, or sitting and have trained myself not to sleep while standing. If I'm driving, and feel tired, I simply pull over and nap for 15 minutes and the I'm good for another 4 hours. I look my age ( sleep deprivation doesn't do anything for yours looks) but act 10 years younger. I get more done in 24 hours and subsiquently have a little more money than I would otherwise. Now you have every justification in saying' it isn't worth it!' To which I say, if you can't nap you are getting too much sleep. You may say that living like this will lead to an early death. Possibly; at which point I will catch up with you in the 'big sleep'. If this doesn't happen then you have slept away more of your allotted three score and twenty than you should have. You might think that I must not appreciate sleep. Not true. There are few that enjoy sleep more than I. What I don't enjoy are the minutes/hours spent waiting to go to sleep and believe me , I don't have many of those. In jest and in truth .... Chavez

I missed it the first time in the 60's and in the 70's it was sort of free love. By then the ladies were realized hey not only do I not have to worry about pregnancy, but this sex thing is worth something.Back then they weren't exactly sure what it was worth, but it was something. Well now we all know; 200/hr, plus travel, plus hotel, plus what ever. Now I'm at a point in my life that I don't give a crap about the cost (I still value good service for good money), but I miss the egalitarianism. Gentlemen; there is no free love. We have lost the war ! The best we can do now is to make sure we get the best settlement you can. To keep the most even playing field we can it is nessicary to review, reviews, review.

Soleil' instructions for sizeing a ladies' bra reminded me of another story. A little over a year ago I was staying in TO for a couple of days and decided to explore some of that city's cultural diversity. I made an appointment withan asian lady for outcall to my hotel room. When she arrived I saw that she was quite tall even allowing for the calf length high heal boots that she was wearing. She also seemed quite well endowed in the chest. This was a little contrary to what I came to expect in a asian S.P. I took her coat , we kissed and then sat down on the couch for a conversation. After a bit I asked her if she would remove her top. I wanted to get a better look at her breasts. She was wearing a pretty bra, full rounded C cup , that completely encase her breasts(no cleavage showing).Things proceeded and after a little while she removed the bra. I thought my eyes would bug-out and it was all that I could do not to "do a doubletake" Encased in that pretty C cup bra was a pair of lovely B size breasts but what really made my eyes pop were the nipples at the end of each breast. They were dark, large and errect and they extended a full inch (that is 2.5cm for you young folk). According to Soleil's formula she was doing exactly right. Measure the difference between the chest circumference and the chest/breast circumference at the fullest part of the breast and calculate the cup size. Seeing as I am a nipple man,I had a perfectly wonderful afternoon but I have often thought of those B size breasts bouncing around in a padded C size cup.

I salute cowboy for bringing up this most touchy ( pun intended) of subjects, and I thank Soleil for the lesson in fitting. Without a doubt it was a part of my education that was samefully neglected in school. It should be manditory, at least for young ladies but also for interrested young men. I am amazed that the subject that cowboy brought-up hasn't spurred more comments from other hobbyests out there. A few months ago I had a meeting with a young lady. She advertised herself as a " D" cup. Not that breast size means that much to me. I like them all, and in reality am more interrested in nipples size, reactivity and sensativity( sorry this sound a little more clinical than I intended). Anyway when she met me at the door I was interrested to find that she was indeed a spinner. D cups and a spinner, it wasn't adding up to me but the clothing she wore may not have been revealing the whole truth so I let it slide for the the moment. A little later as we sat having a glass of wine and discussing our possible mutual interrests ( there weren't many) I asked if she would take off some of her cloths so I could better appreciate her body. She responded immediately by pulling off her top. This revealed what I suspected earlier , she really didn't have a D cup ( not that it mattered). Shortly there after she doffed the bra. There it was , I mean there they were a nice pair of B cup breasts, dark nipples and somewhat errect. I couldn't help myself. I said " they are not D size breasts" She responded " yes they are" . I reply " maybe a C" ( and I know I was giveing her more that the benifit of the doubt) . She looked down at her own chest and said " No, they are D size" I let it drop. In their own right they were perfectly fine and as it later turned they were quite a bit of fun to play with. But this is my point; like Cowboy I wonder why a lot of ladies want to embelish the truth reguarding the size of their breasts. It seems so pointless. Additional Comments: I salute cowboy for bringing up this most touchy ( pun intended) of subjects, and I thank Soleil for the lesson in fitting. Without a doubt it was a part of my education that was samefully neglected in school. It should be manditory, at least for young ladies but also for interrested young men. I am amazed that the subject that cowboy brought-up hasn't spurred more comments from other hobbyests out there. A few months ago I had a meeting with a young lady. She advertised herself as a " D" cup. Not that breast size means that much to me. I like them all, and in reality am more interrested in nipples size, reactivity and sensativity( sorry this sound a little more clinical than I intended). Anyway when she met me at the door I was interrested to find that she was indeed a spinner. D cups and a spinner, it wasn't adding up to me but the clothing she wore may not have been revealing the whole truth so I let it slide for the the moment. A little later as we sat having a glass of wine and discussing our possible mutual interrests ( there weren't many) I asked if she would take off some of her cloths so I could better appreciate her body. She responded immediately by pulling off her top. This revealed what I suspected earlier , she really didn't have a D cup ( not that it mattered). Shortly there after she doffed the bra. There it was , I mean there they were a nice pair of B cup breasts, dark nipples and somewhat errect. I couldn't help myself. I said " they are not D size breasts" She responded " yes they are" . I reply " maybe a C" ( and I know I was giveing her more that the benifit of the doubt) . She looked down at her own chest and said " No, they are D size" I let it drop. In their own right they were perfectly fine and as it later turned they were quite a bit of fun to play with. But this is my point; like Cowboy I wonder why a lot of ladies want to embelish the truth reguarding the size of their breasts. It seems so pointless.