Auralie (retired)

So what are the girl's that aren't high end? Something different..hmm..what's the word that's the opposite of high...it's stuck on the tip of my tongue. Just a tip- watch the words you use to describe people. All the women I've had contact with are high end. When asking for something you want, be a little more specific ie. are there any girls in Winnipeg as hot as Victoria Jolie? Damn she's hot. or Are there any girls in Winnipeg as cool as Amelia? She's so cool. Just my advice.

Whoops, nope. Wrong tense. I just had to chime in because I don't like people going through others to ask personal questions. I used to have a boss that would ask me "how is XX feeling today?" or "is XX angry at me?" and I'd tell him that I can't read minds (yet! lol) and he better ask the person himself. Asking someone else about experiences, what a girl's like, etc. great. Asking someone else what a girl likes and doesn't like, what her favourite ice cream flavour is, how she's feeling that day, etc. not a good idea.

I would suggest that you ask her directly what her likes and dislikes are. I hate to break it to you, but occasionally (just occasionally) us SPs fake it and guys think we like something that we really don't.

I asked previously about favourite winter activities- always a joy in Winnipeg- so what are everyone's favourite summer activities here in Winnipeg? It's not summer yet, but I already have too many favourites that I have a hard time picking one and getting out of the house! So far I think Bird's Hill Park is close to the top...or possibly biking through Assiniboine Park then getting a pina colada milkshake at Sargent Sundaes. Just a reminder to all you handsome men- with the summer heat, I have a nice cool shower available to you when you arrive. When you make use of it I will be much happier to kiss you all over if you know what I mean... Here's a new photo to heat things up a little more (like we need more heat...)

I just wanted some advice about e-mail and phone etiquette and how the other ladies respond? On numerous occasions I received e-mails saying something like "call me" or "today? 555-5555" or "you're hot. call me". I never reply to these- mostly because I would feel like an idiot calling: him- "hello?" me- "hi, is umm..the rude guy I don't know there?" him- "speaking" me- "oh, yea, you messaged me?" him- "yea, how much?" me- "for what?" him- "how much?" me- "uuhhh...who is this?" him- "Kevin" me- "Kevin?" him- "Kevin" me- "Do I know you?" him- "Yes, I messaged you" As you can see, this could go on forever with increasing awkwardness and annoyance on my part. Do most girls call guys when they write this? I thought that they should call us? Or at least tell me their name and why they want me to call in an e-mail? Am I being difficult here to ask for some sort of introduction?

I spend a lot of time wandering around my house naked- naked is the best way to be! Hey Winnipegcub- next time you come to Winnipeg I'll look up the steps for tango! I can salsa, but naked tango sounds much sexier.

I'm with the other ladies who have posted here- 1-2 per day and 3-4 days per week. If I see more than that, it feels less enjoyable and I get stressed out, and I don't want to offer bad service to anyone just because I chose to see more people than I wanted to. Every experience should be a great one for both of us!

I understand that people who don't know of other sites, or haven't heard of all the problems, or just want to see what's happening or get free advertising use the site. All that makes sense to me. What I don't get are those guys who talk about finding a "diamond in the rough" there. I mean, they do realize that those women aren't virgins waiting for that first man to e-mail them? Women on that site see just as many people as the others, they're not waiting for discovery- they've been discovered! It's like Christopher Columbus pretending he was the first "person" in America or something.

Thanks WIT- you are a much better researcher than I! I'm having some e-mails back and forth with their admin, so hopefully it will get sorted out. I just wanted to bring it up here (I don't even know if it was a CERB guy) as a reminder to think about what info you are posting before you do it.

I realized today that there is a review about me on a website I didn't know about (*********). It must be a good one because people are linking from there to my website and while I'm very flattered- I'm a bit upset that the reviewer put my phone number up. I don't post my phone number publicly for a number of reasons, the top one being that I like to know ahead of time who is going to call me. I hate texts from strangers and mysterious phone calls at 3am like "hi, can I see you today? 555-5555" I suggest that anyone making reviews consider how much detail to add, or check with the lady first.

I get the humour in this and I appreciate the intent, but it always annoys me just a little bit when SPs and other related industry-folk are portrayed as a bit lazy, shallow people who bat their eyelashes and get money thrown at them...maybe strippers lead different lives than SPs (probably not), but I hope you guys certainly don't think it's close to reality. My phone doesn't ring every minute, I don't hang out at clubs by night and tanning salons by day, and I certainly have never, ever, ever asked a "friend" or client for money. I earn the money I make and though it's an enjoyable job (especially compared to a $10/hr customer service career), it's not easy. We don't all expect a man other than a client to pay for everything- the best thing about this job is that it gives me financial independence so I don't rely on a man to pay for stuff for me. A bit ironic, sure, but life is full of irony.

Thanks WIT! You were an excellent "test subject" and I'm very glad I got a chance to meet the original, famous (or should it be infamous?) POTM. p.s. I was telling a friend about the life cycle of a lobster and felt very intelligent.

Thanks Mike! I wish I was here on your next stop over...hopefully your next visit will be soon.

Fascinating discussion. I have mixed feelings overall, but wanted to ask the men then, what would you do if you found out your SO was having a purely sexual relationship with another man? Just curious.

I agree with what has been said above. For me, I'm always nervous (though excited...but mostly nervous) meeting a new person so I really enjoy feeling calm and confident knowing who's coming. I see a select few people because of my busy schedule so I only see a person a second (or more) time if I enjoy my time with them. Also, there's something to be said for getting to know a person's body and how to please them. It's wonderful to find a secret pleasure spot, to know where a person is ticklish or sensitive, and to make plans for 'next dates' together. Isn't that what GFE is all about?