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Thank you Luxe - and well said. All we clients should take your observations to heart. Perhaps it would help as well if we were to follow Dylan's advice in "Forever Young" - "May you always do for others, and let others do for you ... "

I'd like to thank you for this post diver9500. I suspect it took a little courage at least to do this and you are to be commended for it. I like to think that it is a reflection of the Lyla community spirit of respect to all members.

Some good points made there Melanie - by Brad and Taffer. The ads do raise an expectation on the part of the reader. When I read what you write your personality shines through but I'm not sure what you write will always override the visual. As Brad said, to thine own self be true and you will win over hearts and minds.

LIkewise not an SP Little Princess Emma. And this may or may not work for you but if you know your vanilla work schedule for a few days in advance it may be helpful if you were to post on LYLA your availability for clients for those upcoming days. Kylie Jane does that and I certainly find it useful. Hope this helps.

I would appreciate any information as well. Thanks. Additional Comments: I would appreciate any information as well. Thanks.

Miss Lacey Grey smiles. The warp and weft of space/time Transports us, as one.

Beauty? - in the i of the beholder.

I may be naive, but I tend to agree with Cinelli's first post. And that is that I feel I can trust completely the CERB ladies I have met a few times. I do believe that you can get a good sense of, for want of better words, their "business ethics". And, from that belief of mine, I disagree with the notion that these ladies will take advantage of a perceived opportunity in a "depressed market" to increase their donations. In short, I believe there is a lot of goodwill, and trust, between escorts and hobbyists who already have established a relationship.

Way back in February I first met Savannah. It was cold in Halifax and, to say the least Savannah warmed the cockles of my heart. And not only my heart. Back then I described her effect on me as that of a kind of tsunami created by in iceberg tipping over and washing over me. Not a good analogy when I think back because what washed over me was warm, and then got hot and ... well, you get what I mean. But the tsunami effect on me was accurate. A new experience with a new, lovely woman. It did crash over me, and immersed me. Update. I just saw Savannah for the 3rd time. Anyone who knows her will know that she enjoys fine wine. And what I have learned over these 3 encounters is that she is like one of those fine wines - a subtle, many-layered taste on the tongue, subtle aromas for the nose,complex and intriguing, to be lingered over, always inviting a second taste. And good wine is never so enjoyable as with good conversation. All of us on CERB know YMMV. I have to tell you that my mileage has been varying by increments, increasing that is, each time I see Savannah. I may have to take a fibrillator with me the next time I see her.

He is so right. Just wish I was as good looking as him! Additional Comments: Oops. Just noticed that no-one will be able to figure out what I was referring to as I've completely misposted my post. My reference was to the Anthony Hopkins quote. Christ, I can't even find it now. Forgive me. As an afterthought, reading the posts on this thread leaves me absolutely gobsmacked at what you ladies have to put up with at times. It also embarrasses me that cerb hobbyists would subject you to such unmindful, disrespectful questions and comments.

5'9 1/2. I have to add the 1/2" because, despite the physical, incontrovertible evidence, I insist my daughter is not taller than me. It's a loving Dad/daughter thing. Bald on top. Hair on the sides, kept short in the summer but I let it grow longer in the cold weather. Full (trimmed) beard and moustache. My family have described me as a "skelf" = that's a Scottish word meaning kind of skinny. But that's a comparative term. Some ladies (not Cerb ladies) have told me they like my quads. That's from playing soccer. I would say as a general description, I'm unremarkable. Can't help but add that one day, a few years ago, a waitress in a coffee shop did say I sounded like (not looked like) Sean Connery. It was love at first sight - for me.

I think this is a very useful thread. Other threads have discussed the nature of the relationship between the SP and the client or hobbyist in the context of the time they spend together. That relationship has been described as indulging in a fantasy - on the hobbyist's part. It's a good way of describing it. It's a good way for the hobbyist to remember it. I can understand where the question comes from and I believe the posts have addressed the question. If one is single and lives alone and one has enjoyed an intimate encounter with a SP, particularly a SP who has, through her skills and professionalism made that encounter very personal to the hobbyist, there is a danger when reflecting on the encounter, of the hobbyist slipping over the edge of the boundaries of the relationship. While that may be thought of as a tribute to the SP the hobbyist has to recognise the reality that to cross the boundary may be a genuine cause of concern and discomfort for the SP. A reality check, thinking of the true SP/hobbyist relationship is always a good thing. Hope this is helpful.

Fish and chips (fries) Clams and fries And, as to "old and young" it's a bit vague but I think I like those in between. Not that I haven't enjoyed older and younger.

East coast of Canada, west coast of Scotland A lady who tickles your fancy Or stretches your .... mind (we all know the best answer)