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I agree. 'Would make no difference to me for the same reasons. The reasons for coming out of retirement are private unless there's some compelling reason to share them. (Frankly, I can't think of why the reasons need to be shared.)

Good evening everyone, First, I want to add my voice to what a great community cerb is. I know I'm not the only person who would feel lost without logging in to see what's new. I am especially impressed by the extroverts in the community, like Cato, who post regularly and help engage the rest of us. We don't have to agree with what everyone posts, but by and large we are respectful toward each other. THAT, and discretion and privacy really helps raise the comfort level of being here -- which brings me to a question: Do you believe we could benefit from a specific forum for health, hygiene and wellness matters? I've noticed these things discussed on cerb now and again, and was thinking that if there is a specific forum for legal type things, why not "HHW"? 'Seems to me a good fit, and a good way to share info, maybe even help dispel myths precisely because of the respect, discretion and privacy provided through cerb. Let's face it, these things are already difficult to bring up even with our own doctor (if you're lucky enough to have one, that is. Hey! That could belong in an HHW forum!) What do you all think? (I'd start a poll on this if I knew how. Fact is, I'm kinda challenged by I/T...)

LOL!! I'm laughing so hard I can't see straight!!! Awesome link!!!! Additional Comments: You? 'thinking of taking a class?! Babe, you should be TEACHING the class :mrgreen:

I'm with CK, this makes no sense at all. But perhaps Loralee might reconsider since it's apparent she has supporters too who would vouch for her here on cerb.

congratulations cato, the cerb community is a LOT richer with your posts!

Unfortunately, BTDT, a number of times. I think it's only natural to feel badly, especially since it was something that couldn't defend itself. Accidents will happen.

Good post! Thanks!!

That's amazing, Megan. Thanks for sharing!

Hello Everyone, Just getting caught up on things here on cerb after being out West for awhile. Lots of interesting discussion, as always. The news from Tess, however, really caught my attention and apparently those of many many others, with well over a thousand having viewed her announcement about enrolling in rehab. A courageous and bold move, not unlike the persona she has built here on cerb. No sooner had I viewed her threads when, just like that, I received a request from her wanting me to visit. I was flabbergasted and flattered -- of course, I said, "Yes." I just returned from visiting "Tess" where she is undergoing rehab. She is very aware, and grateful, that the cerb community has her back, and asked that I post an update about her as I see fit. Tess is safe, but she is struggling. She is tired. Since enrolling, everyday has presented her a new challenge. She has had not good and really not good days. I reminded her that it is early days still, that this awful addiction has an 8-year head start on her. However, Tess spoke to me in a manner so that there can be no mistaking; she is very determined to beat this thing, to learn as many of the coping and other life skills she will need in order to deal with her demons once her time in formalized rehab ends just over two weeks time. Many of us have read about her courage. This afternoon, I was given the privilege of seeing it, up close, and it is no act, our Tess is for real. So, let's all let her know (again) we're still here, and that we've still got her back.

Happy Birthday! Have a great day!!

If going in I knew I'd have to leave before the end of the agreed time, I'd let her know at the very beginning, when I make my donation, that I would be leaving early, but that it's not a reflection on her (after all, I did choose to meet with her). If during our agreed time I had to or wanted to leave, for whatever reason, before our agreed time had expired, I would still be honest albeit gracefully, letting her know simply that my mind is preoccupied and that I would be leaving since it wasn't fair that my attention is somewhere else, instead of treating her (and myself) with dignity and respect. And if in either case I enjoyed being with her, I would let her know that too, and that I wanted to be able to see her again in the future. When people are involved, feelings are involved. Common sense and good manners go a long way.

Unfortunately, there will always be a few bad apples in the bunch ... Very sorry to hear about what happened to you. Hope you are ok.

I agree, an excellent thread, Annessa. It's sobering to read just how invasive FB can be if you aren't careful -- and discrete -- with your personal info.

This is a fascinating discussion! I would agree that the sex industry is among one of the most inelastic when it comes to spending "after-tax" dollars. One could even make a case that in the vein of the avante garde study of "behavioral finance," spending for sex (be it for the services of a SP or MA, or going out to SCs, etc.) is not really discretionary. Slower, perhaps, but likely still a priority for those that value getting some (and who doesn't?), regardless of income level. The marketing challenge for the SP is how to move hobbying up the list of spending priorities for the hobbiest. Personally, I hope for you, SaraMQ, and all of the other fine women who choose to earn or supplement your livelihoods as SPs or MAs, or work as dances in SCs; that you all not debase your value by offering something like a points or rewards program. I say personally only because, as some others have said, I prefer a GFE, and not a commodity.

Let there be no doubt, mod, you ARE appreciated! Thanks for keeping the site going.

Quieter? People are likely taking advantage of weather and time off for extended summer weekend getaways. That'll probably change come the Fall, when people have used up their vacation time ...

First, congratulations on the soul you've chosen to bring into this world. As for your question, I will infer that you are somewhat conflicted over the question you have asked, and for which you are receiving opinions. My take on this matter: You've chosen to bring the soul you are carrying into this world, therefore, your first task is to be its parent, which makes YOU accountable since in this matter, your son is not in a position to make the right choice(s) for himself -- yet. I would imgaine that as a parent-to-be, you would hope that, at the very least, you will be successful in showing your son the difference between right and wrong, the constitution of a good set of morals and values, and how to make informed decisions. Doing those things would increase your son's chances at having a healthy, happy and fulfilling Life. Male circumcision? I believe there is consensus that at infancy, there is no medical reason for doing it. (Later into adulthood? Perhaps; it depends on the reason.) Final thought: If you choose the procedure for your newborn son, please be aware that if done at birth, it will be your son's first experience with purposely inflicted pain. Yes, this pain will pass; but it IS pain nonetheless. All parents make painful decisions for their children -- that's YOUR job. There is no harm in seeking the advice and opinions of others. In the end, it's still your call. In your position, I would simply ask, "Does my newborn son NEED this procedure, and the pain that goes with it?" Again, congratulations.

Congrats, I'm sure everyone will appreciate this effort you're making for us hobbiests! (and yourself as well :mrgreen: )

Being called out is never pleasant, regardless whether in private or public forum. If it's necessary, is there a civil if not "nice" way to do it? I say, it depends. Seems clear enough to me the members involved in this latest exchange are respected in this community, and know, or know of, each other well enough to Live and let live. All the more reason to show up tomorrow in an open gathering and know, you are among friends. Peace out.

Cato, you have impeccable taste in women!

No need for you to apologize. Yes, you provide a service -- but you are NOT a "commodity." To those of us who've had the repeated pleasure of your company (as Peachy, Val, Katie, ...), you are a great girl! In our "I want it and I want it now" culture, it's too easy -- and wrong -- to forget that we are human; at work and at play. And I'm certainly glad that you enjoy playing with us :mrgreen:

Another thought provoking post -- thank you, Cat! Why indeed!! You know what you want, which is the most important thing. Afterall, "Happiness is wanting what you have."

Great points, Cato -- 'am going through a bit of the same myself, being relatively new to the cerb community. I think also that being positive requires thinking and energy, something that being negative takes less of and hence easier to be, unfortunately. But like you said, that is what makes cerb such a great community!

Good heads-up, Katedot! Really helpful, thanks!!

Excellent advice from fortunateone. I'd add that the people-skills really do make the difference, right from that first impression greeting and/or handshake at the interview. BTDT and I can say that in retail especially, it's pretty much decided right then and there, in that initial moment, especially if it's going to be a 30min-type interview. Knowing their business, who their customers tend to be, and being genuine, will also help them remember you in the best way.