Megan'sTouch

At the Nu Den, there were roughly 16 songs per hour at $320/hour. At Bare Fax, Pigales, and Barbarella's, there were roughly 17 songs per hour at $340/hour. I don't see it as guaranteed money at the risk of potential loss, because I'm typically charging him the same amount of money for the same amount of time. The goal is not to give him more, and it's not to make myself more money. The goal is really just to have a fair transaction without counting songs and feeling the need to continuously upsell. It's more relaxed for both of us and this arrangement never made me more or less money.

Unlike escorting/massage where your time starts when you enter the door, dancers spend time with their clients on the floor, sometimes drinking, and getting to know each other. The goal is, of course, to get them into the champagne room and make money. I had regulars who enjoyed taking me to the champagne room maybe 2-3 times for maybe 5-10 dances each time. In between champagne room session we would sit together on the floor and order drinks. Let's say, just to make this simple, he would take me twice for 10 dances, which is about 40 minutes and $200 each time. I would likely spend 15 minutes on the floor chatting with him before going to the champagne room ( we are at 95 minutes) then maybe 15 minutes to take a break and get drinks (we are at 110 minutes) and then maybe 10 minutes at the end to say goodbye. In total I spent 2 hours with him, and was paid $400. If this were a regular and his habits were the same, I would suggest he pay me $400 for spending 2 hours with him, regardless of whether that time be in the champagne room or on the floor. The problem with this method is that he, of course, wants to chat on the floor for free, and I want to minimize floor time and get into the champagne room so I can make my money. This can create some tension. When I am paid by the hour, I don't need to worry about "hustling" him and getting him into that champagne. I can just relax and let nature take its course, and he appreciates this too! It's also extremely annoying to "count" songs and when you are in the champagne room for 5-10+ songs, it's very easy to lose track. When I don't have to count songs, it's easier for me to just have fun and provide a good experience.

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This was something I would arrange with a regular client. It would be X amount for X hours and it would include our time drinking at the bar and in the champagne room. It's much easier to choose a flat rate than to count songs if you intend to spend a long time with a lady.

I have had one female client who visited me twice and it was a lot of fun!

POWER holds meetings roughly bi-weekly. Some are open to all members, and some are closed board meetings. Meetings open to the public and always publicized on the mailing list. POWER holds various events throughout the year. We will be marching in the Dyke March and at Pride this year. We hold monthly socials that are sex-worker-only. Feel free to PM me for more information.

NOOOOOO!!!!! These guys are not supportive of sex workers at all!!! If you are interested in political activism and public education, POWER is a great group in Ottawa!

I would recommend only accepting interac money transfers. You do not need to reveal your real name, banking information, or any other personal information to the client, and once it's in your account it cannot be removed. If you charge credit cards, or use paypal, he could "backcharge" and take your money back.

I'd be open to the reverse approach with someone I've met before, but I'd feel kind of akward launching into a full blown body slide & handjob with someone I've never met. Not sure if that makes me a prude LOL.

Evidence for what? What would the charge be? Solicitation? Bawdy house? Living off the avails?

Having a website for me was very useful with new clients, because all the information was readily available to them. At this point in time, I only see a few new people each month so I haven't been motivated to make a new site. My regulars don't really need one. I can't see how it could be used against you in court. What charge would they use it for? It's not illegal to solicit in cyberspace.

My preference is for natural, but do whatever makes you happy, not the men (no offense guys).

Yes, with someone I trust. Would you ever kiss someone of the same sex?

Good eye contact, appearing like you're having fun, etc. is good for business whether you are onstage or not. What you are describing to me is not artistry or theatrics, it's just a basic stage show.

I'm so sorry this happened, and thankful that nobody was hurt (at least to my knowledge).

If the vagina can prepare itself to push out an 8 pound baby, it would logically follow that with the right preparation, the vagina could accomodate a fist. However, I don't have any intentions on testing this theory myself :o .

Unfortunately that is correct. There is very little to no correlation between good stage shows and making money. It's your sales skills that make you money. Also keep in mind that we are generally only onstage 3 songs per shift, so the majority of people we dance for will never see us onstage. I danced in Thunder Bay 3 years ago and we were paid for our stage shows. We had 4 shows per day and were paid between $40-60 per show. In between shows you could hustle for private dances. I'm not sure if this is still the way they work.

Simply put, there is no money in fancy stage shows. You make your money hustling selling lapdances, and putting on a fancy stage show hardly makes you money. It's a shame because I really do enjoy a good stage show.

I also buy all my clothing second-hand and I have quite the extensive unique wardrobe that I'm proud of. I like to support small local businesses, especially businesses that are owned by women. Auntie Loo's is one of my favourites!

A male friend of mine (purely platonic) exited a relationship not too long ago, and has confided in me that he is finding it very difficult to go from regular sex to no sex. In fact, he's been complaining about this for some time now. He knows what I do, and I suggested to him he contact an escort and even suggested Berlin (she is totally his type). He has the financial means to do so. He informed me that he "wasn't desperate enough to pay for it". Meanwhile he continues to complain about his situation while doing nothing to change it. With all the negativity that I've noted on the board lately, I wanted to throw out something positive and that's that I admire hobbiests for knowing what they want and going for it!

If you have to work for it, it's not free. What makes you think you're entitled to sexual access to a woman just because you take her out? Have you ever heard of consent? Just because she accepts a date or a dinner doesn't mean she's consenting to sex.

Paying for dinner does not mean we are in any way obligated to have sex with you.

I think it's best to move on, as much as you were wishing to see her. I don't necessarily agree with what people are saying about telephone being the best route. You should contact her the way she requests to be contacted. I prefer email for new clients and welcome phone calls and texts once we've become acquainted.

Last time I went to the clinic for my regular testing, they did the "immediate" test. It was pretty cool but almost creepy to watch the results form right before your eyes. It's kind of like taking a pregnancy test.

I think the Welcome Inn near St. Laurent has a day rate 9am-5pm for about $60 but you would need to call to confirm.