Megan'sTouch

I prefer no perfume for discretion/allergy reasons. Sometimes I use a scented lotion, though.

This is a good strategy, but I think that a reference coming from a lady is better than a reference coming from another client.

I was going to vote but I don't like that the voter's identities are public. Posted via Mobile Device

I can in no way offer a comprehensive list, but here are a few pointers: -Treat her with the respect you would offer to any woman you are dating. -Let her take the lead. -Be clear on her boundaries before touching her. In regards to tipping, if you see someone like me who offers an all-inclusive rate, no tipping is expected. I'm sure a tip would be appreciated if you are given superior service, but again it's not expected. If you attend a massage parlour that has a door fee (usually around $60/hour) you will need to tip for the "extras" that you want such as topless, nude, release, body slides, etc. I'm sure the gents at CERB can give you good advice on how to discuss and tip for extras. Good luck and thanks for caring enough to ask this question!

I strongly dislike it when people say "A certain SP on this board is doing X but I won't tell you who or report it to mod" because then people cast their gaze t all of us. It's not fair! If you can't say who you are talking about, maybe it best not to be mentioned. Another member did this recently and claimed that a well-known SP on this board had "severe mental illness/psychosis" but he would not say who. Now everyone casts their eyes at us trying to figure out who!

I seriously doubt they would be banned because one hobbiest said they were bribed for a review. Who's to say a disgruntled client wouldn't make such as accusation? Hobbiests have made more serious accusations in the past, but they have not been booted because it is merely hearsay. My guess would be that mod would inform them of the report and inappropriate nature of bribing hobbiests for reviews. This would be beneficial to the entire community.

Ask the lady in question. Posted via Mobile Device

mmad and roamingguy, thank you both for your kind words. XOXO!

From what I've seen, Mistress Pandora is a massage provider and not an escort. But still a good choice for domination if escort services are not a necessity! :)

You bring up a very good point. When I started stripping, I intially thought that the "model" dancers would make big bucks, and the "pretty girl next door" dancers would make average money. I was shocked to see time and time again a guy turn down a perfect 10 for a more "average" looking woman. I believe many men are intimidated by beautiful women and feel more comfortable around "hot average" women than perfect 10s.

Thank you for your comments, joeblow. This has turned into an interesting discussion. I'm going to take the club I danced at for the longest - The Nu Den, as an example. I mostly danced daytime but did some night shifts. During the day, there were about 20 ladies, so income for the club would be $400. We would also maybe have 20-30 gentlemen come in during the day shift. Most bought 1-2 beers, and maybe 3 or 4 bought lunch. So on the day shift, I would have to say that the $400 they made in house fees would be a significant source of income, similar to the gentlemen in the club. Nighttime was a different story and I will agree with you here that alcohol is a huge factor. There were maybe 40 dancers or so nighttime (not always at the same time) so their housefees would be $800. I have no idea what the alcohol income would be, but I'm sure it would be huge. To summarize, yes I would consider $1200/day to be a source of income, even for a strip club. I appreciate your comments and insight too!

My personal opinion is that the best way to attract gentlemen is to attract dancers. Working in clubs, I've noticed that the more dancers there are, the more gentlemen come in. I know this isn't the other way around because when clubs require ladies to work slower shifts, it works and the gentlemen eventually start coming in. How do we attract ladies? Superior working conditions would sum it up. I also agree with you that clubs are interested in making money for themselves (we all all ultimately selfishly motivated) but clubs don't make money without dancers. They collect house fees, so we are also a source of income for them. In fact, I think they probably make more off each dancer than off each customer. And we attract in the gentlemen, creating another source of income for them. Just my opinion from working in the clubs.

I think everyone has a different view on what model looks are. I can confirm there are stunningly beautiful women who charge the going rate! While no escort has a monopoly on sex, we have a monopoly on sex with US which means we can charge whatever we want and if a gent wants to have sex with US, he has to pay our rate. Another thing to notice is that women who charge high rates tend to be low-volume, and I believe that women who are low-volume provide better service. This is NOT a hard and fast rule, but a general observation. When I was dancing, the ladies who worked every day may siginficantly less money per hour than the ladies who danced only occasionally. I know for me, the fewer people I see, the more excited and enthusiastic I am, and I provide better service.

Slurp - I'm not being critical of any individuals, but rather the marketing techniques that attract the wrong crowd. Posted via Mobile Device

LOL, I'm glad you had fun but this is why I would never dance at Taboo or any club that operates like this. Remember that the ladies actually pay to work there (when you think about it, they're actually paying for your food, cover, etc.), and if the guys there have the "It's only $6 for food, drink and naked chicks" attitude, then the ladies will left in the hole (unfair to them) and probably not return.

Rusty, I would not say you're unusual, in fact I would say you are in line with other men. The overwhelming majority of men are in fact interested in sensuality and teasing. This is something I learned from working as a stripper and an MA. In observing others, if you can't be sensual, you will not make much money in this industry. If men weren't interested in sensuality, my sessions would be 15 or maybe 30 minutes in length. The same goes for other SP's and MA's. I also don't think you're alone here. About 7/8 men who book with me for the first time schedule my "lapdancing and massage" session which means we take about 20-30 minutes at the beginning to get to know each other, and I can lapdance for them and slowly undress. After this, they are much more comfortable getting nude for me. I would personally feel akward having a gentleman come to see me for the first time and undressing right away. It would seem too mechanical for me and lacking something. I personally have no problem being naked in almost any situation, but I am a little uncomfortable with a man being nude in my presence just a minute after meeting him for the first time (this does not apply to those who see me regularly of course.)

If I have, I can't say they deserved it. I personally don't believe in "eye for an eye, tooth for a tooth" and I consider it rather barbaric. I do believe in forgiveness, mostly for ourselves rather than the individuals who wronged us. But I don't believe what you said earlier that we need to "prove" that we don't deserve to be treated badly. As I said before, that goes without saying.

How many times have Christians predicted the end of the world and been wrong? Even the supposed "disciple of Christ" Paul was wrong, and they still follow his words!! When will they learn?

I am going to disagree with you here. I don't think I need to "prove" that I am not deserving of being terrorized/harassed/degraded/demeaned. It goes without saying.

But with Jude he would have the option of scheduling a therapeutic massage and leaving his boxers. Then he could schedule a sensual massage and take the boxers off. There would be no confusion there. The OP implied he might like to move onto the complete service.

Perhaps it was a misunderstanding? I have new clients (or patients lol) call me to confirm the appointment and for me to give them my location. The key word here is confirm. I don't consider an appointment to be confirmed until we have spoken on the phone. I don't consider it a no-show if the appointment was only tentative. (I do schedule over email for repeat visits).

I meant PRINCESS!!! Sorry LOL. Sometimes you need to kiss a few frogs before you find your PRINCESS. On a serious note, there are no guarantees here. If you stick with reputable ladies, you are much more likely to have a good experience. If you are consistently having problems with well-reviewed ladies, no to sound offensive but I think you may have to start looking at yourself. My advice would be to stick with reputable ladies and once you find a lady you click with, keep her close (literally and figuratively).

Sometimes you have to kiss a few frogs before you find your prince. Posted via Mobile Device

Simply put, I wish for no woman to feel pressured to have plastic surgery, but I also respect her right to do with her body as she wishes.

I think Jude Masso would be your best bet. I also think some of the indendent MA's would be willing to offer such a service. It might be worth asking around. I have catered to such requests in the past (no hj, etc.) but showering with me is a mandatory part of our session.