Megan'sTouch

YIKES! I agree with you there. I also find that very unattractive in men.

If people want to do business that way, I'm all for it, but it's not for me. I'm not really interested in seeing clients who shop for a lady like they are shopping for the car. I like the people who come to see me to be drawn to me by my photos, my posts on CERB, and my recommendations. I'm not sure I'd be interested in meeting with someone because I have the correct eyebrows LOL. Again, this is not meant to be offensive to you. Different strokes for different folks! I was going to say I match what you're looking for, but not the last point. I think confidence is sexy! I'm very secure & confident in my sexuality and love to show off what I know I've got! ;)

I know the place at 256 Banks also has a dry cleaning (or is it clothing alteration?) business that shares the same entrance, so if spotted you could always say you were getting your pants done. I often wonder about those who legitimately bring their clothing in to be serviced and if they are embarrassed to be seen using that entrance.

I don't really have much to add, but this is why I prefer working alone. Heck, in between appointments I cook my lunch in the nude! Seriously though, in the first instance I think you did nothing wrong. It would be nice if the ladies could coordinate better so there is no bumping into others. For the second, I don't really know how MP's work but I prefer my gentlemen to undress when I indicate it's time. I have some gents try to undress for my lapdance which does not work for me because it restricts how close I can get.

^^^Girlfriend to me means long-term, but I like the term "date".

I know the term "hobbiest" seems to be popular on this board, but I find many of us have struggled with what to call the men in this hobby. I've traditionally called them "clients." They fit the definition: pay for and receive service. But this term sounds so cold and I don't think it truly captures the closeness and intimacy that is shared. Is a "client" who comes to see me the same as a "client" who buys computer software? Of course not! About 6 months ago one of my friends asked me: "What time is your last patient?" as she was looking to meet me for a coffeee. I laughed and asked her: "What do you mean, patients?" She couldn't think of what to call them! At first I thought it was silly, but I liked it and it has stuck. So those of you who see me, you'll be (happy?) to know that I refer to you as my "patient." I care for you and make sure you leave happier and healthier than when you arrived. I hope this little anecdote sparks some interesting conversation.

Caution, another Megan controversial opinion: I don't think a lady is necessarily required to respond to you. I ignore many emails for various reasons: -Very short, no introduction. -Rude/abrupt. -Suspect it may be a past client who I don't want to see again. -Intuition I do not want to meet this person. Also consider that many ladies are part-time or "sporadic" or even "end-of-the-month" workers. This si a full-time endeavour for myself, but not all ladies treat it as a business. However, once an appointment is made I fully believe she has an obligation to fulfill and to be courteous and reasonable in the case that she can't. I say this as I sit at my computer with a cold after cancelling a few appointments over the past few days, but each gentleman got at least 24 hours notice.

Lucky you! I find the exact opposite. It's when I'm super busy and not eating/sleeping properly that I get sick. It's so frustrating getting sick when you have a to-do list that's a mile long :(

In my mind, if you don't know their health status they may as well have an STD.

So here I am stuck at home with a cold. I've been playing Angry Birds and surfing on CERB. I'd love to read, but my concentration is shot to shit. What do you like to do when you're sick to pass the time?

I find the sessions get hotter and hotter with repeat visits. A number of factors include the rapport, establishing a certain comfort level, and also learning the gentleman's body. I enjoy meeting new people, but I'm always a little nervous and therefore limit the number of new guests I see.

I hear what you're saying, Pete, but I don't think it's reasonable to expect there to be one thread on each topic for the "life" of this forum. It's also often considered poor board etiquette to bump an old thread.

I understand that there is no cure for herpes, but I guess I just don't understand what the big deal is. Again, I think it's the sexual nature and stigma that causes a moral panic. Of course no one wants herpes, but as i said 25% of women have it and if you get a cold sore every couple years, what's the big deal? It's not like HIV or Hep C where it has a seriously negative impact on your life. Again, I realize what I'm saying is controversial and I'm not a fan of herpes nor am I looking to contract it, I just think we need to look at the context logically rather than as a moral panic.

I believe in education so people understand the risks they are taking and how to protect themselves. I also believe that people make decisions that are best for themselves, and what they do with their own body is not up to us to judge. This might sound controversial, but I respect the seriousness of diseases like Hep C and HIV with their potential to severely impact your quality of life and ultimately take it. I don't see what the big deal is about herpes or any STI that is curable with antibiotics. 1/4 women have herpes, so can it really be that big of a deal? If you have to take antibiotics for a week for the equivalent or a common cold, is that really a big deal? I'm not trying to undermine our health here, but I just want to put things in perspective. I think herpes and curable STI's are stigmatized because they are sexually contracted. If they were contracted another way, I don't think it would be such a big deal. Also remember that most gents on this board being older than us received a pre-HIV/AIDS sexual education. We've received a post-HIV/AIDS sexual education. I have personally had only a handful of sexual partners and offer massage partly to reduce my risk of contracting an STI/STD. This is my choice, what works best for me. I respect the personal choices others make about their own body. No judgments here!

BERLIN hands down! Posted via Mobile Device

I would say yes but be prepared to: 1) Give your full name and confirm via landline. 2) Pay an extra travel fee above and beyond her regular rate. 3) Possibly make a deposit via interac money transfer. Posted via Mobile Device

If you think a lady is doing things that are unsafe, I would suggest you direct her to CERB and SP only access. Or if that's not possible, at least another lady (I'd be happy to) that could help her out.

SA - I think you have to think of where the advice is coming from. If a client gave me advice on my safety, I would be insulted. This advice comes better from another woman/worker.

Not really LOL. I just communicate with everyone over email, and if I do not have a bad experience, I make a note of it. So if a lady asks me for a reference, I ask for his email address, search it, confirm that I saw him, and then see if he's on my "bad" list.

It really depends on who gave it to me. If it were family or someone in need, I would give more.

No necessarily true. I will give a reference on anyone I've seen (as long as the gentlemen requests it, of course) but with a disclaimer if necessary (eg. only saw him once, a year ago, but there were no problems and I'd see him again.)

Candy!!! Posted via Mobile Device

I have done a few overnights, all with the same gentlemen. They are a lot of fun if you have the right chemistry! I thinks rates, hours, etc. are best done on a case-by-case basis. There is something very special about having an intense sexual experience, and then falling asleep next to each other, only to wake up for more fun in the morning!

You have been posting regularly on CERB for some time, continuously dissatisfied with our rates. There are many ladies willing to satisfy your fetish, but it's unreasonable and insulting to expect us to lower our rates. Specialized fetishes are generally more work than fucking so you can actually expect us to charge you more for it. I'm not meaning to sound rude or judgmental of your fetish, but I think most ladies on this site enjoy sex more than they enjoy changing wet diapers, so your rationale that you should pay less doesn't really make sense from our point of view.

I'm well aware of that and please don't assume I was only talking about CERB in my post. Additional Comments: You seem to prefer ladies in the 18-22 range and it is my experience that younger ladies do not screen as rigorously as more mature ladies.