Megan'sTouch

He may be doing so because you need a minimum of 5 posts to post a reco. Posted via Mobile Device

I had an good experience with a CERB member who gave me his CERB name during our session. I decided to PM him telling him that I enjoyed our time together, but sent it to the wrong guy! Whoops!

The thread I started last year may interest you. My opinion stays the same :) http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=24932

Moonshadow - It's quite common 11pm-2am on Fri/Sat nights, and less so during the week and daytime/early evenings. I think guys need to be drunk to get up there LOL

I agree with fortunateone. In this industry, it's the men who approach the ladies, not vice versa. Do you homework, find a few providers who fit the bill, and contact them via their preferred method and ask them if they would be interested. I don't think it's reasonable you expect to lie back and have us come to you, particularly when your scenario is not appealing to many ladies (multiple men, one lady).

Do whatever you want, just don't ask her for change.

I love this!

MA = Massage Attendant. Or at least I think it does :P

There are zillions. Just check out the announcements in the Ottawa section, and cross-reference with the recommendations.

Can I help you with that? LOL! (this is flirting, not soliciting. we are in different cities. LOL)

I think she was asking about massage parlour vs. independent massage, rather than about SP vs. MA. I think that timing/availability plays a huge part in it. Also, the variety of ladies available. The guys who tend to book with me are able to book appointments in advance and they tend to be interested in finding 1-3 quality providers rather than playing the field.

I speak in full honesty when I say that I don't care if my clients are attractive or not. It's not something I even think about. I care first and foremost about respect/hygiene, and second I care about your personality. I know this probably sounds like total bullshit "I don't care what you look like, just your personality" but it's the truth. Harsh reality is that I don't do this for my own sexual satisfaction, so why would I care what you look like? I've met many men who are not physically attractive, but after a couple sessions, they warm up to me and I find them quite charming and attractive.

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It's an interesting idea for the guys to choose the lady, but fact is, strip club business would be way down. When I think about all the men I danced for, I'd say 50% were planning on buying dances and only 5-10% were planning on buying dances specifically from me. Let's talk about the 50% who were not planning on buying dances. I sat down with them, seduced them, and dramatically changed their minds and off to the ATM they go. This, IMO, is why strip clubs and dancers are successful. The seduction of dances you weren't planning on getting.

I have met many jealous wives/girlfriends there with their husband/boyfriend. One time, I asked a man if I could sit with him and he said yes. We struck up a good conversation and I was about to ask him to the champagne room when his wife appeared back from her trip to the washroom and chewed me out for sitting with her husband. I think she was completely out of line because, after all, they are in a strip club, and if he was not supposed to be talking with dancers while she was in the washroom, why didn't he tell me he was just waiting for his wife? Long story short, there are wives/girlfriends who go to the strip clubs either because they are pressured to, or because they want to "babysit" their husband/boyfriend. The accompaniment rule doesn't stop them. On a side note, I'm thoroughly against the accompaniment rule. This isn't the 19th-century and women should be able to go all the places that men go without a male companion. Sheesh!

Berlin, Unfortunately ladies in the SC have a bad rep. Lots of jealous girlfriends/wives. A good place to start would be to tip the girls $5 when they are onstage. You lay down on the stage (not too close to the lady, let her come to you) with a $5 bill in your mouth (gross I know LOL) and she will give you a little dance and then collect her tip. This will show the dancers that you are infact a willing participant and not just there for your BF, and that you are spending money. If you are planning on getting dances with you SO at the same time, couples dances are $30-40/song. There is nothing wrong with saying "no thank you" when asked for a dance by a lady you are not interested in. Feel free to approach a dancer if you like her! How much money you spend really depends on you. $100 could look like this - $20 for drinks, $20 tips onstage, $20 one dance with a lady solo, $40 one couples dance. Sounds like a fine evening to me! Have fun, Megan

Berlin - the fact that it made me orgasm in ways not possible with fingers or tongue LOL Posted via Mobile Device

Berlin, There is a rather persuasive pro-sex-work-anti-visa-for-sex-work argument. The argument made is that visas are generally only given in the case of a shortage of qualified workers in Canada. We need 100,000 plumbers but only 20,000 people in Canada are qualified to work as plumbers, so let's bring in more! You get the point. Fact is, there are ample women qualified to work as sex workers in Canada. Massage parlour owners and strip club owners will argue that Canadian women aren't filling the demand so they need to give out Visas. Why should we give out Visas when women in Canada are qualified? Why are not enough Canadian women working in massage parlours, strip clubs, etc. Well maybe if they improved the quality of employment (better pay, fair work standards, better work environments, etc.) then Canadian women would want to work there! So why should we give out work Visas to bring in women from other countries because Canadian women won't work in such crappy standards? Shouldn't the lack of employees be an incentive to improve their work standards instead of bringing in women from other countries? I'm not talking about reputable clubs, I'm talking about the ones that no one wants to work for. I'm not entirely sure of this argument, but I think it's worth noting and investigating further. Megan

You should be fine, but screen properly. The best way is to insist on calling their landline, and look it up online to make sure the phone number and address match. This should save you a lot of bullshit. Trust your instincts!

Thanks to everyone who has replied so far. Krusty - I was referring to parlours, not independents. Even the ones you mentioned as being "not-Asian" like CMJ, are not race-specific. Places like that hire women of different colours. Asian massage parlours are the only ones that are race-specific. I think that is very notable.

My first vibrator from my first boyfriend at age 17.

Miabella - If a client I had "blacklisted" tried to sneak back in, and I found out, I also would have no-showed. No reason to explain why in such a case, as they should be able to figure it out. I defend Miabella posting her side of the story. Even though the OP didn't name her, he gave enough information that most of us could guess it was her (reviewed well on both board, great website, screening requirements.) There are two sides to every story and now we have both. Case closed!

I agree with you. Working as a dancer, I was there operating my own business, I wasn't there begging on the streets or asking for charity hand outs. If you don't like me, don't buy a dance. Simple as that! There were plenty of men more than willing to pay and I won't be hurting if you say no. Sympathy dances are just insulting!

My Kingston trip was very successful and, believe it or not, not single client was from Kingston. Lots of neighboring towns! Good luck! Posted via Mobile Device

Bethany's Sweetest Massage, Sophie Lauren, Malibu @ CMJ all come to mind. Should be plenty out there for you to choose from!