Megan'sTouch

Personally, porn does nothing for me. I'll take the real thing and, if I can't for whatever reason, my imagination is better than any porn out there.

The answers to your questions vary between providers. You would need to ask the lady directly.

Actually, airing dirty laundry is against the rules of CERB.

That's fucked. I discovered at my grandmother's home a book on "Family Health Matters" mostly for parents pertaining to typical childhood illnesses (ear infections, etc.) It had a section on masturbation for young adults and said that if your teenager is masturbating "Don't panic. He's probably okay. BUT, just to make sure, you should take him to a psychologist."

How can you say it's a private matter if you keep posting about it publically?

When did these problems surface? Could you get a second medical opinion? Do you think there are psychological reasons behind it (getting nervous, stress, etc.)?

What exactly do you need help with? What is your goal?

Sounds very reasonable to me! Why would she risk giving you an appointment when there are other people who've been more reliable wanting to book with her? If you don't want to pay her rebooking fee, then don't see her.

And what would that do exactly??

"Aren't We Naughty" is the name of the store.

When you say "a dance.... but maybe more" people generally assume you are talking about extras. Care to elaborate on what the "more" is? I'm curious now!! :)

I agree with you Berlin, but non-agency girls can have a lot of expenses too. For awhile I was paying $150/night for a hotel, plus other expenses like lotions, candles, towels, etc.

I don't have time to respond in-depth because I'm in the middle of exams, but I will say that the lack of support from hobbiests is very surprising. I don't think that "public perceptions" is appropriate excuse for perpetuating stigma against a group of people. It reminds me of a conversation I had with my ex-boyfriends father. He owned a drugstore in the 70's. Despite being a racial minority himself and anti-racist, he would only hire white people to interact with customers because of public perceptions. It was all about public perception, not his personal opinions, but I still look down upon his decision. Old Dog, I will refute a point you made. You said that when people think of prostitution, they think of street prostitution which includes drugs, pimps, etc. Why then does bawdy-house (indoor workers) get you a lifetime ban from volunteering, but solicitation (outdoor workers) only get you a 5-year ban? Obviously this decision is not based on the public perception you mentioned above. Also, if they are concerned about pimps, why are those who are charged with "living off the avails" not banned from volunteering? Okay, I've written too much, off to study!

I dunno Meg. I think it's probably better to drive drunk than to get a sober prostitute to drive you home......... I kid, I kid! Good for you for emailing the complaint.

Best thing to do if you get offered "a dance..... but maybe more" is to be happy and enjoy, but keep it to yourself ;) Talking about getting extras in the club could mean trouble.

Why would you think it's okay to exclude someone from participating as a volunteer if they have a prostitution conviction within the last 5 years? Why would being a sex worker mean you are "unclean"?

Did you know that Operation Red Nose discriminates against sex workers from their volunteers? If you have a charge for prostitution, you are banned from volunteering. Interestingly, if you have a charge for dangerous driving or driving under the influence, they will still consider your application!!! Read it here: http://operationnezrouge.com/en/documents/ottawa-form.pdf

That's a great idea, and I'll add that it's good if you check first that your MA will enjoy it with you. I'm a non-drinker and prefer my clients not drink with me. I don't like making people feel awkward when they show up with a bottle of wine.

That's a good plan! I know for myself, when I'm given extra money at the beginning (from a new client, not regulars), although I really appreciate it, I'm always worried he's paying me extra because he's expecting extra services that I do not offer. If it's given at the end, I take it as a "thank you, job well done!" without strings attached.

Just curious if you presented your cash gift at the beginning or end of the session?

I do really appreciate the occasional gift that I get.

Interesting question, as I am an east-ender myself (though my incall is downtown). I've always had the impression that business is best in the West or downtown. Many east-enders commute downtown daily to go to work, and it seems that is a great time to do their hobbying. I've thought about having a second location at my east-end home, but that is not an option for me at this time.

I personally don't talk about other people's genitals. :)

It's fabulous this study is taking place and I am lucky to be helping work on it. I know that I face stigma and social judgment as a sex worker, and I sometimes forget that managers/superviros and others in this industry do as well! Contact me if you'd like to participate! :)

I've posted this before and I will post it again. Please use a hobbiest email! This has nothing to do with being a secret agent and concealing your identity from your service provider. Every month or so I receive a spam email where one of my client's computers gets a virus. The virus is then emailed into everyone on his contact list. This enables me to see everyone on his contact list. It makes me so sad to see all his family members (by the same last name) and professional contacts mixed in with escorts and massage provider email addresses. His entire family and professional network are outed to me, and all the service providers he's emailed are now known to his family and professional contacts. Please be open and honest with me about who you are by giving me your name and phone number, but consider using a hobbiest email for initial contact. If you are going to use your regular email, at least make sure your anti-virus is up to date! Be careful gents, Megan