Megan'sTouch

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I called again yesterday and spoke with a much nicer woman. She told me that Shaker's is still open. The hours are 2pm-2am and you need a license to dance. I was too booked up with massage to consider dancing on this trip, but I will consider a longer trip next time. I think the last call I made was a miscommunication. She told me "Shaker's is closed" and I thought she meant permanently. I called around 1pm so I think she may have just meant they were closed at that time. I may go check it out tonight.......

Not at all. A hot naked woman can do no wrong in the eyes of horny men. I was more nervous about finances. Having completed 4 years of university, I was broke and I had to invest $200 in dancing (shoes, lingerie, housefee) and I was so nervous about not making it back. Needless to say, that wasn't a problem.

Nervous for what?

I was 22 and in my last year of university, and I decided I wanted to be a stripper. I found a stripper support forum online and all the ladies suggested I actually go to a club and get a lapdance. I had never been to a strip club before, and I didn't really know what went on inside. I went to the Nu Den in October of 2007 with a friend. We sat down and got a drink. We watched some stage shows. The shows were pretty much what I expected. I was surprised at how many small-chested dancers there were. Silly me thought most strippers were at least a D cup. As we continued to watch the shows onstage, we saw ladies "hustling" clients. There was one girl in particular who looked about 14. She was about 95 pounds, very small-chested, small-hipped, and she had a baby doll face. She was having a drink with a client who was about 55 and then they headed off to the champagne room together. That kind of freaked me out a bit. Certainly not in a moralistic way, but I just wasn't used to seeing very young women in sexual situations with older men. I was getting a bit frustrated because I wanted to buy a lapdance but none of the ladies were approaching me! I mentioned this to the waitress and she sent a dancer my way. The dancer sat down with me and we chatted a bit. I was honest about why I was there. I wanted to be a dancer and I was hoping to get a lapdance to see what it was like. The lady and I headed off to the champagne room together. As we walked upstairs, the baby-faced dancer and her client were together. She was rubbing her body all over him and he was playing with her breasts. I couldn't get over how much contact there was! I was expecting the dances to be like the old-fashioned table dances. Then I got my lapdance! She gave me a very tame dance compared to the one I saw on my way up there. She told me to always undress slowly and she said guys love it when we put boobs in their face! After the dance, a bunch of men came up to me and started hitting on me, which I found kind of annoying. There are so many dancers for them to enjoy, and I was there as a client. But still, it was nice to see what kind of men frequent strip clubs. They seemed pretty normal and that made me feel relieved LOL! 10 days later I went in and did my first shift!

I called and apparently it doesn't exist anymore.

Maybe some of you remember this, but as someone who was born in 1985, this is new to me. I'm blown away by the precocious nature of this young lady:

I can't imagine anyone finding it weird. My point was generally that if MA's and MP's are so popular, there must be a lot of men out there who crave that experience, and I'm sure not all of them go to MA's & MP's, but some go to SP's for exactly the reasons you state. So no, it's not weird at all.

You're right that con artists and fraudsters come from every walk of life, but I do believe her occupation is relevant in this story because she met him and frauded him in her capacity as an escort. Such a shame!

Sorry but I still don't understand why this little mix-up of personal/work life would be immoral in any way. I can understand it making you uncomfortable, but I can't see how it would be immoral in any way. My morals are dictated by what helps/hurts people. Hurting people is bad. Helping people is good. I guess I'm just simple like that :) Obviously this situation, no one way hurt, the lady and you were helped and benefitted (as did her little one). So what's the big deal? Forgive me for hypothesizing, but I find that a lot of men have underlying guilt that they are somehow doing something wrong by seeing a sex worker. The media and second-wave feminists love to paint us as victims, and I'm sure that is something clients can't ignore, even if it's furthest from the truth. Rest assured you did nothing wrong.

Why would that make you feel guilty?

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I'm a heterosexual woman who loves men, but I don't like to see men dancing. I don't think the male body was intended to move as the female body is.

Try telling that to the ladies who've been held against their will, such as the lady who was raped last winter by Asad Noor-Saleh. It's not always that easy.

I'm on board with you. Nobody knows where I live. But I also do incalls only. Lots of ladies who do incalls don't work from their home.

Just because you're doing incalls illegally doesn't mean you can't call the police. The point here, is what the ladies view as a viable option. Many ladies don't view calling the police to be a viable option whether it's incall or outcall. You're right that a client could bring a concealed weapon to an incall, but it's obviously a lot easier to hide a weapon in your home than it is to hide it on your person. Incalls are safer, it's a fact! From my understanding, this is part of the reason that the bawdy house laws were struck down.

I don't agree with this at all. It is a well-known fact that incalls are safer for ladies for a number of reasons: -The client could have concealed weapons in his home. In her own space, she can have her own (I personally keep pepper spray). -The lady does not know the house setup or escape routes. -She does not know if she's entering a home with more than one man waiting. Remember that many providers don't feel comfortable calling the police in the case of assault. Even if outcalls are legal, there is still a huge stigma put on the shoulders of sex workers that makes it difficult for them to go to the police. I will continue to stick to incalls! I take pride in my space setting it up nicely with candles, soft music, etc. and I think the gents like it as well :)

There is nothing I love more than getting an email that reads "Megan, I know it's been a long time but I'd love to see you again!" I never ask why the absence, but a few have shared with me and it's generally due to relationships and finances.

SA - The place you moved to is going the same way with treatment of women, and hefty fines, etc.

You could start by getting a copy of "The Writer's Market" at Chapters for about $50 and send in a sample/manuscript to publishers.

These sites have been around awhile and they make their money by bringing in traffic and then getting paid for the advertisements we see. I think it's best we don't visit the site, nor do we link to it or discuss it on CERB because we're doing exactly what they want - generating traffic and income for them.

One more thing I wanted to add is that my "rant" is more against the way our laws work, rather than against massage parlour owners. I don't believe that massage parlour owners are inherently more exploitive than managers in any other business, but I think the laws make it easier to exploit women. I'm referring both to the laws that criminalize our work as well as labour regulations. I'd be willing to bet that if another industry, such as telemarketing or fast food, were criminalized and not regulated by labour laws, the same exploitation that happens in the sex industry would happen in almost any other industry. What we need is full decriminalization, and our work needs to be recognized as legitimate work worthy of the same legal protections as any other worker in Ontario. One more thing I wanted to add is that in Ottawa unlicensed massage parlours that do not include oral sex or intercourse are regulated by by-law services, not by the police. Though they could technically give a bawdy house charge to any place that offers a handjob, this is not the way Ottawa works, and precedent-setting cases would make this charge very difficult to stick.

Well, not all ladies are treated badly. There are some very good spas in Ottawa that offer a high level of service and treat the ladies well. Why wouldn't they go independent? Well, lots of reasons: -It actually takes skills and hard work to open up your own business. Not everyone has the skills to be able to manage a business. -Some are living paycheck-to-paycheck and can't afford to invest in a business. My initial start-up was about $3000 for first/last rent + signing a year lease ($12,000) about $500 for towels, $500 for other supplies like candles, music player, a couple tables, etc. -Some may find themselves in a shitty financial situation and do massage/stripping short-term to get back on their feet. It makes no sense to invest in a business when you're in it for the short-term. -Some are students and single mothers and simply don't have the time to run a business. Running a massage business is a huge time commitment. I personally love being independent because I love managing a business, but there are a lot of women who enjoy doing massage but don't like the business aspect. Spas are perfect for them!

I wish I could go, but my exam is Monday :(

I wasn't suggesting that repeat clients continuously post on a lady's recommendation thread. I was specifically talking about new or repeat clients who have NEVER commented on a lady's reco thread.