Megan'sTouch

There is no reason to be rude or trick people. Heck, I worked at a call centre my first year of university. It was humiliating and people could be abusive. And they say sex work is degrading?!? Posted via Mobile Device Additional Comments: There is no reason to be rude or trick people. Heck, I worked at a call centre my first year of university. It was humiliating and people could be abusive. And they say sex work is degrading?!? Posted via Mobile Device

I think a good mix would be nice. I'm not a big fan of Christmas music at this point because I find it's overplayed.

Rather than looking for outcall/incall/residence/hotel or whatever, I would focus on the lady. Find a lady who has been around for awhile and who is very positively reviewed. If you choose the right lady, the location shouldn't matter too much.

That's funny. I read "natural" and thought he preferred someone with a more girl-next-door look than a porn star look.

Berlin - I get that too, the assumption that I'm single. One question I got was "Will you someday leave the industry and get married, and maybe have children?" As if I can't be married and be a sex worker. How did your lecture at Chris' class go, btw? Mine went well. I just talked about stripping, not about massage or anything.

As some of you know, I give lectures at U of O and Carleton on sex work. There has been an especially high demand due to the court case. While the overwhelming majority of students are respectful and "get it", there is one thing that seems to come up a lot. That is the mandatory STD/STI testing of sex workers. Many students seem to think that forcing sex workers to be tested for STD/STI's on a regular basis would be "good for sex workers and good for society." This bothers me for some many reasons: 1. It perpetuates the stereotype that sex workers are vectors of disease. I think you are at much higher risk picking up a random at a bar than seeing a sex worker! 2. It is paternalistic. Somehow "they" know better than sex workers what is best for them and must enforce it. 3. It would never be done to the general population. What about bars that are frequented often for casual sex or swingers clubs? Are we going to force everyone to have mandatory STD/STI testing before signing up for "AFF - Adult Friend Finder"? 4. It's sexual assault. STD/STI testing is an extremely invasive procedure that involves putting a speculum in your vagina. To force a woman to disrobe and have an instrument inserted in her vagina is sexual assault. 5. Education, not more laws and rules, works best for society. What ever happened to education and accesible services? It's a pain in the ass to get STD tested these days with the Sexual Health Clinic being closed. I would much rather see a focus on education and accessible health care than more laws and rules. Why do people think laws and rules will solve all of society's problems? Well, that's my rant for the day :) I hope this generates some good discussion. Megan

Good tip!!

I visited Relax & Enjoy recently and I was very impressed with professionalism of the owner, and of the cleanliness and atmosphere of the studio.

I get a lot of shy clients. I believe shy clients are often more attracted to massage than full service because they don't feel they have to "perform" and they can just lay back and enjoy. I'm quite outgoing and so I tend to attract a lot of shy people. Opposites attract!

I avoid feet because once I massaged a person's feet and the oil made him almost slip in the shower! But if you ask, and promise to be careful lol, a foot massage can be great!

Spfan69 - I agree with you. Another thing I've learned is that no matter how hard you try to hide it, the guys will sense if you're having a bad day or just not into it. Posted via Mobile Device

Mod, I'm sure you're forgiven. I've admined a board and all the controls can be quite overwhelming! We appreciate all you do.

Could you please remove me from the directory? I'm pretty limited in my advertising and I'd like to keep it that way. Thanks! It could be a great idea, but I think it would be better to ask ladies if they would like to be included or not.

I've been reflecting what I've learned being in the sex industry for 3 years now. I thought it would be interesting to share my insight, and encourage others to do the same, both from the provider and hobbiest point of views. -Men do not expect women to be perfect like an airbrushed magazine model. Men love real women. -Despite what the media tells us, men do are not looking for stick-thin women with huge breasts. Men, as a whole, love larger women and love women with small breasts. -Touch is a basic human need, almost as basic as the need to eat and breathe. -It's not true that all men just want to fuck and then leave/fall asleep. Men also love to cuddle, converse, and be intimate. -Confidence is sexy!

I like women who are a healthy weight. I don't find women attractive when they are underweight or overweight to the point that it's a health issue. Posted via Mobile Device

I got my first laugh of the day. I'm booking a hotel to do massage, and they want to know if I'm booking a hotel for business or for pleasure :boobies::butt: I put down "I am in the business of pleasure." Just kidding!

What's in it for me? I don't show my face for discretion and the thought of headless webcamming is just kinda weird. Posted via Mobile Device

How about an hour long encounter for you and her with her favorite CERB SP? Hey, I can dream can't I? Posted via Mobile Device

Cato, you make me feel so old! :butt:

This is my 1000th post. Can't believe it! I should have never gotten that iPhone.........

I am a teacher so I feel very much like I'm living a double life. To be honest, I kind of get a thrill out of it. I don't worry too much about being discovered. I want to avoid it because it would be a huge pain, but I honestly think my students and their parents would stick by me because I'm a fabulous teacher and they've known me for years. Posted via Mobile Device When I worked as a stripper I responded cheeky like this: Them: What do you do for work? Me: I work in sales Them: What do you sell? Me: Lapdances

I prefer amateur photos for myself, although I do enjoy professional ones for personal use. I think of myself as that hot university student you would sit next to in class, not a flawless glamour model. I wouldn't want guys to get the wrong impression.

I was using drinking as one thing the holiday could be used for. Other things include Christmas shopping, last trip to the cottage, catching up on homework, etc. My point wasn't that everyone would go out in drink, but that the overwhelming majority of Canadians would not use Rememberance Day as a day off of work/school to reflect, but rather treat it as a day off like Labour Day or "Family" Day.

As a young person just out of university, I disagree with this. I wouldn't want Rememberance Day to become another all-night-party drinking day. I sincerely doubt the majority of Canadians would use the day to reflect and respect those who have fought and died for us. On the other hand, I know that employers have an obligation to gives employees sufficient time off to vote during an election. It would be nice if something similar were in place for Rememberance Day where an employee could take time off work to attend a service, without being penalized.

That's kind of late for me lol Posted via Mobile Device