Megan'sTouch

That is really beautiful, November! Thank you for sharing.

It absolutely shocks me how many people think it's perfectly acceptable to film others in a state of undress, or during a sexual encounter, without their consent. With the shift in attitudes over the last 15 years or so, I think I can only blame internet pornography.

I love the idea of a legal forum!

I've seen many clients with the same name as my father and my brother. It's no big deal to me. A rose by any other name....

You can't pay tuition with a credit card, but you can take out a cash advance on your credit card and then deposit it into your bank account to pay your tuition.

I think a lot of the stigma about clients comes from stigma about sex workers. "Sex workers are nasty, low-life people, so obviously the men who would want to have sex and give them money must be nasty, low-life people too." When people ask me what "type" of men come to see me (stripping and massage), I always reply "heterosexual men" although there have been 2 exceptions even to that.

Thank you for posting about your experiences.

I'm in my seventh year of post-secondary education (graduated from university in 2007) and I while it gave me knowledge and certain skills, I can't say it increased my confidence. On the other hand, stripping certainly did!

I agree with Cleo Catra. Nice people have been raised by two-parent families, single mothers, singles fathers, gay couples, aunts or uncles or grandparents, etc. To suggest otherwise is quite offensive in my view.

My maintenance is quite high because I rent an apartment solely for massage. The other stuff (makeup, candles, oil) is very low in comparison to the rent.

I agree with this. Why not check out the SPs who advertise that they do erotic massage? I often get requests like this and the majority of the time it's because they want an SP service at the MA rate (which is usually lower than an SP).

I don't think this is necessarily accurate, but the "boyfriend" is a common excuse to not do something you don't want to do. I find a lot of providers find it hard to just say "no I don't want to" and they feel the need to have an excuse. The boyfriend excuse gets guys to back off pretty quickly. I'll admit I've used it myself with some persistent gentlemen, but truthfully, my martial/partner status has nothing to do with the services I provide.

She was a bisexual single mother of 4 children, one who has a disability, so coming to see me at the strip club was her only "me" time of the week. If she were to have a relationship, it would have to be with a very understanding man. I think that Tim may be that guy because he has a disability himself, so he could relate to her child.

Damn, I'd go, to work or not, but I already have appointments booked. I miss strip clubs! Well some days I do......... lol.

Meg, I hate you so much! :bddog:

My nipples and breasts love the cold rain:

This is a true story. In 2008, I was dancing at a strip club in Ottawa. I had two regulars who came to see me every Sunday when the club opened at 5pm. One was a man, I'll call him Tim, in his early 40s, the other a woman, I'll call her Jessie, (yes, a woman) in her mid 30s. Because the club was virtually dead at this time, I would take turns hanging out with them, and doing the dances. Tim thought it was silly I was bouncing back and forth between the two of them so he introduced himself to Jessie and we all sat together. Tim continued to get dances from me and he also wooed Jessie by buying her dances from me! This continued on for several weeks. I really enjoyed their company and their business, but at the same time, they stopped seeing me. I found out that they were now dating each other. I have no idea if they are still together today but I'm proud to have been a part of the story and helped "set them up." Now that's an amazing "how we met" story if I've ever heard one. Thanks for listening, Megan

I've only had 5 no-shows ever in 10 months as an MA, and I recently beefed up my screening so I expect it to be even less than that. The main thing I think is that I require people to fill out a screening questionnaire. People who take the sit to sit down and answer my questions thoughtfully are more likely to actually book and show up. Why? Because they've invested something (their time) in the appointment. Of the 5 no-shows I had, I noticed they were first-time clients, last-minute bookers, and generally later in the day (5-8pm). I created a new policy that new clients must book at least one day in advance and only repeat clients can book in the evening. Yes, this may seem strict but it's working well for me. I have not had a no-show in quite a while, and I'm able to stay loyal to repeat clients by reserving last-minute bookings and evenings for them only.

That's funny because I consider cigarettes to be more of the "bad girl" image and pot to be the "good girl" image. I guess that's because all the bad girls in high school smoked cigarettes, and when I got to university all the smart studious girls smoked pot. Best of luck and congrats on making a move towards a healthier lifestyle!

I enjoy threads like this when they are somehow related to CERB, like prostitution and the law, or sex workers rights. I'm not sure how I feel about threads that aren't related, but I certainly don't think we're being spammed at this point.

I have noticed a pattern of you trying to absolve all responsibility by claiming that the women are independent. The fact is, when an agent chooses to represent someone be it a model, an author, or an escort, he believes in them and stands behind them 100%. Obviously you do not. If you can't believe in the women who work with you 100% and you are against their choices in advertisement among other things, why represent them? It's obviously not a good fit.

I think you're very right to point this out. I recall several months ago, one of the PK girls was advertised as an "animal in bed" and "a breed of her own." This is dehumanizing language. I suggested, why not say she's "in a class of her own"? One PK provider was also described as "the dirtiest slut around" on CL. So how is it okay to say "the dirtiest slut around" but it's objectifying women to say "she's like fine wine"? Give me a break.

I don't think it's the subject being discussed, it's some of your comments that we have found offensive.

I really like the concept. It sounds very interesting, but rather expensive to TOFTT. I do hope you get some reliable feedback, Cato.

I would go for it. I would just make sure the SP is aware of the location and dresses discreetly. I'm not sure how old you are, but it's reasonable that you could have a friend, niece, etc. visiting you.