Megan'sTouch

I should clarified that I meant safely. Incalls = bawdy house. Outcalls = not as safe and you can't even hire a driver or person to help keep you safe because if you do, they're "living off the avails." If you follow the letter of the law, it can be a matter of balancing obeying the law with your own safety. I'd be willing to bet that 90% or more of sex workers here on CERB are breaking some form of the law.

While sex work is not a criminal activity, it is criminalized. It's virtually impossible to be a sex worker without breaking the law.

500 posts already? Oh dear me!! Thank you everyone.

While impressive from an acrobatic point of view, I don't find it particularly sexy or sensual. Her routine is very rhythmic and aggressive.

I have not heard of an independent & solo, low-volume, otherwise legally operating (no drugs, underage, etc.) service provider being arrested in Ottawa in the last several years, and I have looked.

Why don't you ask her for her rates?

Drama sucks. Let's leave it on CL.

One thing I LOVE is when a client brings me a small gift. It doesn't have to be anything expensive, just thoughtful. Recently one guy showed up with a little box of strawberries from the market. My seal of approval! :bddog:

I think this is her: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?ltr=A&t=10623

I had the same trouble as Pete.

There are legitimate reasons why an SP might be a no-show. I've never done it but accidents do happen.

How can you identify who is doing is regularly without posting about SPs who are normally reliable but got sick, etc. ?

Don't compare. Just enjoy.

I don't think CERB should allow posting the no-shows just because of the negative repercussions it would have. If I'm sick and have to cancel, I don't want to be thinking "oh no, is this going to be reported on CERB? Should I just take a pill and work anyways?" I cancelled very last-minute once when my cat was bleeding badly and had to be put to sleep. What purpose would it serve for it to be posted "Megan cancelled last minute on me today." ?? I do believe some negative comments about no-shows would be merited, but it would also cause providers like myself who cancel very occasionally/rarely and with good reason to have bad things posted and that's not fair!

I don't think shaving body hair is just for men. I find touching is more pleasurable when there is no hair in the way and it's just skin-to-skin contact. Interesting to note - I once read an anthropologists report that the amount of body hair that is socially acceptable indicates the level of nudity accepted by the culture. Body hair = nudity is acceptable. Shave body hair = Not acceptable. From my experiences, this is correct. If you look at nudist colonies, they all seem to have bushes. I used to be very involved in the Muslim community in Ottawa (for academic reasons) and I learned that you were expected to remove all pubic hair. Also, interestingly, when I was a stripper I found that the girls who were most likely to leave some pubic hair were French women and the French are, of course, more open in terms of nudity.

Caroline formerly of Nu Den and now at Bare Fax is a good friend of mine!

Another thing to consider is the nature of the work. I've had two episodes of sickness where I cancelled all my clients over a period of 3-4 days. In both cases, I had a mild cold and felt generally okay and continued to do my day job and other activities. However, erotic massage is very intimate. Unlike people I come into contact with at an office job or the university, I am rubbing my body all over my client and practically breathing down his throat. This is some serious risk for passing along germs. While it's okay for me to sniffle/sneeze/cough occasionally and then put on hand sanitizer at the office, I can't imagine a client being too impressed with me sniffling/sneezing/coughing on him! I refuse to work without being 100% healthy because I don't want to put my clients at risk. I have never had any complaints and only appreciation from clients. I have also had quite a few clients cancel due to illness, even mild illnesses, and this is always appreciated on my part.

I haven't seen couples as an escort, but I have lapdanced for 10 or 15 couples. I charged double for couples. Some charge double and a half. Yes, it is twice as much work (sometimes more!). Sadly, a much higher percentage of women in strip clubs are rude to the dancers in comparison to the men.

If you're a regular (meaning you've seen her numerous times before) and she's only cancelled once or twice, I don't think that's too bad.

Were you trying to book last minute? I suspect late night/early morning hours may need to be booked in advance. I don't think most ladies are up at 4am waiting for calls, but I could be wrong.

For me it was probably 2+ years of erotic dancing in strip clubs. That's indiscretion at its highest! I love massage.

When the time comes, just ask her "how do you like to be massaged?" Periodically, you can ask her, "how does this feel?" Communication is key to a great encounter! You can't be expected to read minds.

Superlift - I think the only really important thing is that both ladies have met each other and like each other.

Great question!

Your SP might not be.