Megan'sTouch

I would say that about half the appointments I book are for longer sessions so it's quite common, at least from my view. It's nice to relax and not feel rushed. I usually offer a break together of a drink/snack for 2 hour sessions and I do offer MSOG, althought I always appreciate the client communicating his stamina levels to me :) Believe it or not, I've also done 4 and 5 hour sessions! These can be wonderful, but it's absolutely imperative that we have the right chemistry so I will only offer them to clients I've seen in the past and whose company I enjoy very much.

Or even worse, it's the guys who are looking for a "non-pro". They want to pay for sex, but they think they are "too good" to sleep with a woman who will have sex for money.

This reminds me of a chapter in "Freaknomics" whereby they rate the names of boys and girls by socioeconomic class.

In terms of fetishes, I think this one is rather tame. Maybe I've just been desensitized.

I agree with you Meg, and CERB is definitely the "safest" option. I also think a lot of people are sexually thrilled by the unknown and by taking risks and thus attracted to the evil site. I would say it's along the same lines of why casual sex and sex in public can be so popular.

Her recommendation thread is here: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=26115

Sorry to hear this ulixestrojan :( My partner just went through a nasty divorce/custody/support battle that lasted almost a decade. I would recommend doing as much research as possible and seeing a lawyer so you know your rights, and then trying to settle things with a mediator. It really is the best option if you can make it work. Also, ottawadivorce.com is a great website and has a great forum too! Best of luck.

Just a reminder: This is TOMORROW!! :) PM me if you to come! Megan

If she's doing it because she things an uncut dick is unclean, then I agree she is uninformed. But that may not be her reason. When I was a dancer, I would never ask pale-skinned, blue eyed, blonde-haired guys if they wanted a dance because my family is pale-skinned, blue-eyed, blond-haired and it creeped me out a bit. Yes it was discriminatory, but it was a personal preference. Maybe her preference is for cut dicks. That's her choice.

Nobody should be forced/pressured to have sex with someone they don't want to, no matter what their reason. Being a sex worker doesn't mean you give up your right to choose who to have sex with. Many SP's choose not to see women. We could all cry sexism, but that would be a bit ridiculous. We aren't talking about a product. We are talking about an intimate service being performed by a real human being. That being said, my slight preference is for uncut but my partner is cut and that's fine too. When deciding if I like a man or not, it's quite low on my list of priorities.

Hi theliquor, It sounds like you do great work! Thank you for the offer, but for everyone's comfort, this is for and by sex workers. Any presentations that may be given will be by sex workers. Cheers, Megan

Greeting Ottawa Sex Workers, It's that time of the month again (lol) and POWER is having its monthly sex worker social. For those of you who don't know, POWER is the sex worker's rights movement in Ottawa. Members are comprised of current/former sex workers of all sectors and we support a person's right to sell sexual services free from harrassment, criminalization, judgment, etc. May's social will be held Tuesday May 11th from 7-9pm at a local restaurant. This restaurant is also a bar, so if you just want to come for a drink, that is perfectly fine! The location is in Chinatown and is accessible by buses 85 and 2. The social is very informal. We can chat about our work, personal things, whatever! Please PM me for the super-secret location. I will only give out the location to established sex workers on this board. Please note this social is open to sex workers of any gender. I really hope to meet new people :) Megan

I've seen many massage clients who've "been around the neighbourhood" and no one has ever mentioned this to me.

That's not the point. I don't care if a client googles my email address or phone number. What I care about is someone I know from my personal life googling my email address/phone number and finding an advertisement offering erotic services.

I also find I connect well with clients who are dis-abled/differently abled. I even put someting up on my website about it. Erin, will I see you today? I have a really good book I can recommend.

Actual women? As opposed to non-actual women? I can assure you the SP's I know are "actual women," well save a few here and there ;)

I agree with what Annessa is saying, but I also see Cato's point. It's so easy for us ladies to say "Just ask us" but a lot of gentlemen are very shy to do just that! Nothing wrong with a little advice from a vet before approaching the lady of his choice.

I also get annoyed at "What are your rates?"............ .......but I'm always perfectly happy with something along the lines of "Can you confirm your rate is $220 for 90 minutes? Does this include full nudity and release?" etc. It shows they've read my website and just want clarification.

I fully agree with everything that has been said. It's best to avoid the middle man whenever possible :)

I just spoke on the phone with this young woman. I invited her to CERB. I think she may join.

It makes no sense for an agency to randomly target one independent. I'm not questioning the validity of what happened, but there has got to be more to this story. Did she used to work for them? Are other women being targetted?

Compare it to a threat of violence: "If you don't have sex with me, I will stab you with this knife." Surely that's rape? Yes, he could still stab you even if you have sex with him. The point is that when a person threatens and intimidates another into sex, there is no consent and it is rape. I also agree in educating people and doing what you can to minimize the risk. This is what I meant by support rather than judgment.

I don't think problems like rape and hunger will ever go away. But I think we can do what we can to make them as minimal as possible.

This is exactly the point. Women in desperate situations (drug users, etc.) deserve our support, not our judgment. When a big, strong man comes into your home and tells you “have sex with me or I’m going to report you to ODSP and have your children taken away” that is rape or at least attempted rape. There is no consent. Threats and intimidation = rape. Actually, what would minimize rape is if people stopped raping others. We could go on forever blaming women…….. if women didn’t wear short skirts, if women didn’t act provocative, if women didn’t go out alone at night, if women didn’t escort, if women didn't accept blocked calls, etc. but ultimately 100% of the responsibility rests in the hands of the rapist. *Rape victims are not responsible for their own rape*.

I'll admit I've had toothpaste down there in the past =oD