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I'm sure they exist, but I'm not into that sort of thing. I prefer to just be myself and be genuine. It's a lot easier! Posted via Mobile Device

I find it very scary that you are suggesting that when a woman becomes a sex worker, she gives up her right to consent. You can't compare the services of sex workers to Home Depot. We are sharing a very intimate part of ourselves with you and often even letting you inside our bodies. Women have the right to say no, and it's not up to you or anyone else to determine when it's okay or not okay to say no. Her body, her choice! I'll admit I discriminate and for very good reasons. I tend to avoid people my age, mainly because I don't want to bump into people I know. I also discriminate based on language. I only take clients who can speak English comfortably and I do not care what their first language is. Communication is extremely important to a good encounter together. In the past, I've seen clients whose English is questionable and there was confusion about rates and boundaries. It can be quite scary when you try to communicate your boundaries, but they don't understand! I won't deny it's discrimination BUT (don't be too shocked) people (and yes sex workers and women are people too) have the right to discriminate when choosing who to be sexually intimate with! Would you hold hobbiests to the same standard? Many hobbiests are attracted to one race over another, to a particular age group, and I've noticed that some Francophones prefer escorts that are also Francophone. Would you criticize, for example, a man who has a preference for women with an "exotic" look for booking sessions with women who match his preference? Would you criticize an English-speaking man for preferring women whose first language is English? If a man prefers mature women, should he be forced to see younger SP's or MA's, just so he doesn't "discriminate"??

Haha, I wish. With my experience with teenagers, getting them to do a job (eg. cleaning the bathroom) takes you 2x as long to coach them and nag them than it would to just do the damn job yourself!!

Megan's Weird Thread of the Week: Not meant to be taken too seriously I'm 26 so I'm at the age where many of my friends/peers are making babies. It's very strange to me to see my newsfeed on facebook filled with comments about the little guy (or girl's) bowel movements and whatnot. Their lives seem to revolve around obscure sleep cycles, feeding baby, bowel movements, vomiting and spitting up, and pediatrician visits. I absolutely love children, but there is something about babies that creeps me out a bit. When they are first born, they look like aliens to me. I'm also put off by the fact that they you have to clean up their poo/pee/vomit, carry them everywhere, and you can't have a conversation with them or play real games with them. I'm not sure if my maternal instincts will ever kick in. Does not liking babies make me an evil person? How do you feel about babies?

How paternalistic! Yes women are just delusional and they need a man to tell them like it is. Right because women are just victims that need a man to rescue them. Dr. Phil, you are incredibly paternalistic to suggest that you know what's best for women who are sex workers, negating their experiences. To suggests that decisions about women's bodies, sexualities, and lives are best "left to others" is incredibly sexist!

I had a gentleman recently contact me, and he mentioned that he was cross-referencing me on another site. The site is one of many fake sites where they steal contact and much of it is outdated or inaccurate. For me personally, my age was wrong, my ethnicity was wrong, and they said to contact me for my half hour rate. I do not offer half hours. Perhaps most disturbing, they said I offer full service which I don't! For my personal safety, it scares me that this inaccurate information is out there. I just wanted to post this to gentlemen to remind them to be careful of their sources, and to ladies to be conscious of what is out there about us online.

I would just mention it casually to her "Hey looking forward to meeting you! Just wanted to mention one thing I neglected to point out......." I'm happy to see people with differences, and maybe this is shallow of me, but I like to know in advance. I find it slightly uncomfortable when someone shows up, for example, in a wheelchair and I was not informed in advance so I could be prepared and accommodate them.

I don't think anyone is blaming the victim here. We are just recognizing the fact that what Nightflight did was a high risk activity. This does not mean in any way that what she did was ok or that he is responsible for her actions. The chances of being ripped off by a reputable SP who has been around for awhile and has consistent positive feedback are very low. In fact, in my 2 years in this industry I've never heard of it happening. The chances of being ripped off by a stripper are, unfortunately, reasonably high. I remember as a dancer the women would talk about shit they pulled and laugh about it. It disgusted me! But in the end I was rewarded with amazing regulars that treated me well, whereas they could not keep a client.

[url]http://www.ottawacitizen.com/life/Free+massage+offer+came+with+unexpected+cost+tells+Ottawa+court/5496171/story.html?cid=megadrop_story[/url] OTTAWA â?? An attempt to save a few dollars by accepting a free massage from a stranger on Facebook ended instead with a spa owner trying to perform oral sex, a man testified in Ottawa court Monday. The 29-year-old said he had gone to the Elee Salon and Spa on Bank Street on the evening of Nov. 19, 2008, after chatting with Elias Elhitti online. The man testified he had no idea who Elhitti was before a message landed in his Facebook account, but took him up on the offer because massages were expensive and Elhitti told him he needed the practise hours to qualify as a certified therapist. The man testified he felt comfortable after Elhitti met him at the door and showed him around the â??beautifulâ? spa. He said he started feeling uneasy when Elhitti told him to take off all his clothes. The man, who said he covered himself with a sheet, said Elhitti had first massaged his back then he flipped over. Elhitti then began massaging his chest, shoulders and neck after fitting him with a bed mask and complimenting him on his body, he said. The man testified Elhitti then brushed against his penis while massaging his right leg. About 30 seconds later, he felt a moist â??sensationâ? that he believed to be Elhittiâ??s mouth on his penis. The man said he â??popped upâ? from the table and confronted Elhitti. Elhitti apologized profusely, according to the man. â??He called it a tension release,â? the man said. Enraged, the man said he got dressed and angrily confronted a crying Elhitti before storming out of the spa, which burned down about two months after Elhitti was charged. Elhitti, 41, has pleaded not guilty to sexual assault. The man called police right away, but didnâ??t tell them about the oral sex until nearly two weeks later. Elhittiâ??s lawyer, Michael Smith, suggested Elhitti told the man he had only invited him to the spa as a prank to find out if he was gay. Smith suggested the man became angry, calling Elhitti names and threatening to â??make him pay.â? When Elhitti threatened to call police, the man said heâ??d call the police. The man denied the allegations. He has since filed a nearly million-dollar lawsuit against Elhitti. The trial continues.

Great, thank you for the confirmation!

In my previous studies, I cited sources via footnotes. Now I'm in the social sciences and they are asking for MLA. I've been able to google it to follow the guidelines but I have one question that I could not find the answer to. If I have 3 sentences that contain information from the same section of a book, do I cite each sentence or do I put one citation at the end of the three sentences to cite them all? I'm pretty sure it would just be one citation, but I don't want to get this wrong. Thanks for any help!

If you're wife needs to call to verify where you are, why are you still married? Posted via Mobile Device

Honestly, I don't think I would change much. The biggest difference in my life would be I would own my own house or condo downtown or in the glebe.

Reducing my sugar intake and increasing my protein intake seems to help my immune system. Also hand washing and using hand sanitizer when soap and water are not available.

Most of my clients see me before work or on their lunch hour so no excuse is needed, at least to my knowledge. Posted via Mobile Device

I'm very happy to hear this!! Posted via Mobile Device

I normally agree with you, Berlin, but I have to disagree with you here. What two consenting adults do in private is none of our business and not up to us to judge as a "problem." The only people they are putting at risk are themselves. It's not reasonable to say that sex workers can't engage in certain behaviours that civilians engage in because "we need to counter stigma." The responsibility of stigma is placed on the shoulders of those who perpetuate stigma. Would it be reasonable to say you can't smoke weed or any other drugs because you are perpetuating the stigma that all sex workers are junkies/druggies? I don't want this post to be seen as promoting bbfs. What I believe in is education, and adults making decisions for themselves. We can and should educate people on the risks of bbfs, but we can't extend that to judge them when they don't behave as we think they should. To do so is paternalistic. I've done my education and I'm personally not comfortable with cfs/cbj and definitely not bbbj with a stranger or many partners. I would be terrified of a condom breaking, and everytime I would give bbbj I would be afraid I caught something. I am comfortable with the low risk of a hand job. This is my personal comfort level and I don't judge others who have a different comfort level. What you do with your body is your choice and not to be judged by others. Additional Comments: One more thing I'd like to say is that money does not transmit STDs or STIs. Sex workers shouldn't be held to a different standard than the general population. Posted via Mobile Device

It's been some time now since I surpassed my "poor students" days and I think it's time I start giving back to a community that has given me so much. I'm just curious to hear from people who donate money to charity. What charities do you donate to? Do you have a budget or system for how much you donate? How do you decide who to donate to?

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Monogamy is overrated. Sex workers have a lot to offer when it comes to relationships. Posted via Mobile Device

face2face - It's all extremely subjective. Some people's schedules suit a retainer and regular schedule, others don't. With regard to the 'annoyance' of a payback, speaking for myself I've only done retainers in the case where I have an amazing rapport with the gent and I look forward to our time together. Retainers are very rare to me but suit unique circumstances. Posted via Mobile Device

When I've done retainers, we scheduled our appointments in advance. eg. "The 2nd and 4th Saturdays of every month from 5-10pm." I'm guaranteed an appointment, and he's guaranteed I'll be available for him. I've never done it on a "call when you want your appointments" basis.

What about discrimination on gender? Why is it okay to discriminate based on gender, but not religion, race or sexuality?

I'm speaking from my experiences only and I have three points: 1. Generally when a retainer is put in place, we know each other very well and there is a strong mutual trust. In my opinion, it would be foolish to enter a retainer with someone you don't trust. 2. If I enter into a retainer, I'm giving a slight discount. If I'm prepared to give someone a loyalty discount, it's because I enjoy their company and wouldn't want to out of my terms of the contract, because I genuinely enjoy his company. If I didn't enjoy his company, why would I offer a discount? 3. I ask for money upfront at the beginning of the month, so I won't fall victim to a scam. Why should he trust me, besides the above? Because if I screw up, I've lost a very valuable client. Why lose many months or even many years of income just so I can get one month of income free? That would be very stupid! I think the first point is the most important one. These relationships are built on trust. If a client thought I was untrustworthy and lacked integrity, I would not be interested in entering a retainer relationship with him. Additional Comments: I think any judge or court would laugh at "I paid her for sex and she didn't deliver!!!" Sex work is not viewed as legitimate work, and I don't believe sexual services are viewed as a legitimate service.

This should have been sorted out well before she got pregnant. Did he not sign a paper at his donation terminating all parental rights (and responsibilities)?? I'd suggest he get in contact with a lawyer ASAP.