MiaBella

Oh I LOVE having a man cook for me. There's very few things that turn me on more than a man who knows his way around a kitchen. But I know what I'm doing in there, so if you can't keep up, I'll just show you the chair and give you some wine to sip while you watch lol I have to say though, If you can teach me a thing or two, I'm a happy and willing student....:icon_wink:

I'm super laid back and easy going, but when it comes to cleanliness and being tidy, I have certain things that need to be done just so. Towels and sheets have to be folded all the same specific way and stacked uniformly, or I redo them (but I don't care how my clothes are folded or organized lol). The dishwasher should be loaded a certain way, if not I redo it before running it. My bed sheets face a specific way and have to be even on all sides when I make my bed (though I rarely make it). In the kitchen, I either cook everything, or not at all. Don't expect me to help you out with 1 task or I'll take over the whole kitchen and kick you out lol. Yes, there is a right and wrong way to dust, wipe, and vacuum. I often do a second run in the house after my roommates are done cleaning it their way. Silly and a bit neurotic, I know. But I guess we all have our little things that makes us who we are (a bit weird) hehehe

Happy Birthday Handsome! I hope you have an Amazing Day and all your wishes come true! xoxox Mia

I just wanted to say, and this isn't pointed at anyone directly, that a lot of people seem to be pointing to "hobbying", this "lifestyle", and the "industry" as some ugly, dark, and disgusting underbelly of society. WHY? It makes me really sad. Evry day on this board we push and try to show people in and outside of this "lifestyle" that we are all people. And that most of us are hard working, productive parts of the community. We are caring, and give to the community. Most of us could name at least 1 lady who regularly supports charities through their ads and sites. We are educated and successful. A large amount (probably majority?) of clients, as well as sex workers, are in school, hold degrees, are business owners (that's all the Indy ladies, I might add), and lead a good fullfilling life. So where are all these negative views on us as a group coming from? We know better, so let's stop perpetuating and helping those stereotypes. Sorry, back to the discussion at hand.

At the risk of sounding rude, I have to agree with Sara. There are bad things in life, and good things in life. Yes we can look at life that simply, and place blame on everything and everyone around us for our problems. Or we can look at it this way: There are things in life. Situations, people, etc. They are bad, good, neither, both. But until we make a decision to react or let it effect us, it is meaningless. The only thing that controls your life and the things in it is YOU and the way you perceive them. Being a John or Hooker can have it's good and bad, of course. But even bad situations can be learned from and made into something good. I think in your case, you were in a bad situation with your wife, came here, decided to fool around, and in exchange, paid less attention to your home life. But in the same way, you could have picked another hobby, say ice fishing? In the end, it's not necessarily where you were or what you were doing, But What You Weren't Doing. Taking Care Of Your Family. That's not this sites fault, that's not any SP/MP's fault, that's not the computers fault, or the internets fault. It's Yours. It's a shame you didn't take anything good from this place. In the end, life is what you make it. This place has brought me lots of happiness, information, friends, experiences. I'm thankful for this place, and this life that I choose.

That's called an Italian. It's the equivalent of Russian, but using your derriere.....:butt: Good luck on your search! Mia

Happy Birthday Gorgeous! Best Wishes and Lots of Love!!! XOXOX Mia

Lol where to start?! Women: Just at the small of her back, right above her bum, those two small dimples on each side. I have no idea why, but in jeans, with a tee shirt just too short, you can see them, and it's just so sexy and cute. Men: That wonderful "V to the Valley" as I call it. The curves of muscule on a man's hips that leads you straight down to his .... Lol, Loves That! Oh, and I love all hair types. Long enough to pull, shaved, short and styled. I love it all.

Thank You Everyone for all The Wonderful Birthday Wishes! I had an Awesome long weekend( I took a few extra days off :biggrin: ) and Had a Great time. Thanks for thinking of me! xoxox Mia

Happy Birthday Gorgeous! I hope you have an amazing day! Wishing you Peace, Love, and Happiness! xoxox Mia

Happy B-Day Handsome! Best Wishes xox Mia Posted via Mobile Device

Congrats Sweetie Pie! xoxo

Happy Birthday and Best Wishes Gorgeous! xoxo

I have to say I'm with Ms. Emma on this one. Sometimes, friends is what is meant to be, sometimes not. You never know what the future will bring. People change their minds, grow. If she feels that friends is a better fit, it must be for a reason. And I wouldn't necessarily say it's because she is dating someone else, or that she really isn't interested in you at all, especially if you two are still hanging out. I would be up front, but I would avoid putting any pressure on her to make a decision. I would simply let her know, you are interested, and if friends is what she wants, that's fine. But if you feel you can't be friends with her, because all you can think of is ripping her clothes off, then maybe that's your sign to move on. There's no right answer. The best thing you can do is listen to your heart. Best of luck! xoxox