MiaBella

I have found throughout my life that regardless of physical age, men have the tendency to be "young at heart". Ex. They love playing with their toys(which change over time from legos and game systems, to cars and boats, etc.) That's one of the reasons I appreciate and love the male sex. Age means nothing and is never what attracts me to a client. Personality, sense of humor, and a passion for life are what I find truly attractive.

Happy Birthday Gorgeous! Hope your day is filled with Family and Friends, Laughs and Smiles, and most of all Happiness. xoxo

I think that's exactly the point! If a lady feesl that that is the only way she will feel comfortable with you, and no other methods are an option any more, it was probably her gut telling her she NEEDS this info. Otherwise she could be at risk. I think gents should look at it the same way. If you feel the situation is sketchy and you aren't comfortable, then don't do it. your gut is telling you something. Safety first for everyone.

I think fun active things are a great way to get to know a person. Hiking through a park, or biking. If your a dog owner, going to a dog park can be fun. I've even had a first date doing a yoga class and then grabing a protein smoothie after. It's good to pick something where you can talk, but can still get preoccupied doing something else (In case it's not going too well! :icon_eek:)

I LOVE dressing up! If I have it, or if it's something I like, I'll wear it. I really appreciate when I gent goes out of his way to purchase Exactly what it is He wants. Sometimes in the store I just can't choose! I'll end up buying a couple because I'm so indecisive. Honestly, it's easier if he just shows me what he wants...

Sorry, but this whole "two way Street" argument seems to only be taken as far as you would like it to, to prove your point. Gentlemen: most of you are amazing so please ignore this as it is just to prove my point. Frankly, how do I not know that maybe YOU are mentally unstable and maybe wont take the info you know about me to the extreme? Say you visit me and during the session I dont provide something that you are very insistant on, such as bbbj. Fine. So you leave, unhappy, and lose your shit and flip! You now have my location, which can obviously reveal my REAL FULL name, my website info, my contact info, etc. Who is to say that just because I didn't Blow You without a condom that you wont reveal all my info and slander my name and put me at risk. Because of your UNSTABLE MIND I have just lost MY LIVELYHOOD, all my security of my incall. and I'm put at Extreme risk. You could easily STEAL FROM ME when you visit me(or after), BLACKMAIL ME with the threat of exposing my job, etc. Nice TWO WAY STREET huh? NEVER use mental health as a reason as a way to take it to an extreme and insult someone. It's ugly and uncalled for, as you can now see. We are in the same spot you are. If you can't trust others because of YOUR EXTREME PARANOIA and NARCISSISM, than why in the world would I trust you and invite you into my home? What makes you so important that I would pretty much destroy my whole career just to SPITE you?! It seems to me that you've lost site of the fact that to you, this is a hobby. It provides you with a luxury that you desire. To me, this is my livelyhood, my job. Not something I do for entertainment.

Reading this brightened my day up! It's o true that we need to take time everyday to show ourselves some love and support. We can only be happy if we believe we deserve it. Thanks for the post! xoxo

It's seems to be very easy to forget SP's have feelings and we are people too. If I've seen a gentleman several times, have done my usual above and beyond service to do everything I can to make our time unforgettable and our time spent together is amazing, I Hope for a review, but it's not necessary. BUT If I later see that I didn't get one, but another lady did, I wonder what it is I DID WRONG. It's Personal. Not towards the gentleman, but for myself. Sp's spend countless hours trying to imporve our abilities, and be the best we can be. Reviews give Sp's a chance to see specifics of what we did Right and how we can Improve our Buisness. That is all beneficial to clients in the future. As is finding an SP because you notice she has some nice reviews written. Reviews don't have to be long winded or revealing. But please, Don't Under Estimate the Power of a Review. If a SP is amazing and you truly care for her livelihood and well being, it's just as easy to write a quick review as it is to post on any other part of the board. Laziness should never be the case if you are an active member. As for asking for a review: if the two of you have a report, asking shouldn't be a big deal at all. Ladies should just be tactfull and aware of who they are asking. It isn't always appropriate, but it shouldn't be taboo either. Just my 2 cents.

Happy Birthday!!! Hope your day is full of Fun, Surprises, and Surrounded with the People you Love Most. xoxo

Lol you read my mind!

When I was little I always loved the movie Gigi. It's an older film from 1958. This little girl in Paris that essentially is raised to be a Courtesan. When I was little, that part was not clear to me, but now the underlying parts of the story jump out at me. Great story, very sweet. Very Hollywood though. Oh, and Also Sweet Charity with Shirley MacLaine. Loved this movie. it always makes me laugh.

OMG I'm really thinking about it now.... Shortcake, you're the Madame. Set it on up! lol I'll deal Texas Hold 'Em!!!

Happy B-Day!!! Eat Lots, Drink Lots, Be Spontaneous, Have Lots of Fun, And Do Whatever You Want! It's Your Day, Enjoy It!

Ya know, when I think of Brothels, I have that whole picture of the Westerns in movies. Frankly, if that was the case, and I could wear all those amazing dresses and have my hair all big, a piano playing in the background, and cowboys everywhere gambling. I Totally Would! However, those would not be the circumstances of today's brothels. Sharing my private room and closet with another girl. Having my gentlemen walking in and out in front of others. No Thank you. I see the sisterhood and kum-ba-yah of it all, but it's just not for me. I can;t even live with a room mate. Let alone share my bed with another lady and some stranger.

Of course we all have our separate private lives, and discretion is #1 in this hobby/business. Yes, smile and walk on.... But if we do *bump* into each other walking by ourselves, there's nothing wrong with a Flirty Smile and Wink :icon_wink: .... Just keep walking afterward....

I posted this on the other site and wanted to paste it here as well: You know Gents, I've been sitting back and watching this all unfold while other people comment and say their piece about something they know NOTHING about. After taking time to calm down, think, and be rational I have this to say. First, when honesty is betrayed, there is nothing that says I have to risk my safety, comfort or well being to Protect My Reputation or Please a Client. Not only has Explorer69/Pike or whoever else this gentleman is lie to me about his identity, he also lied to me about being a member of any boards, and that he had NEVER seen me before. I have met him before, and after that meeting, never wanted to see him again. He is quite aware. Don't be fooled. Once I realized he had been lying, which was in fact when he called upon arrival, that is when I decided that since he was not concerned with me and my rights/feelings that I should treat him with the same rude and inconsiderate fashion. As I've said many times, Respect and trust is a two way street. Yes, maybe I should have picked up the phone, said I refuse to see you etc. And for that I was wrong. However, once that trust is lost, do I really Owe Him Anything? Secondly, The whole reason I ask for so much "personal Info" is because I've been put in situations like this Too Many Times. I'm very happy to be low volume, and see the people who love seeing me. If you want to be a new client, I encourage it! I love meeting new interesting people! But I shouldn't feel like I'm asking for too much. Lots of girls give references, and we have No Problem Doing It! It shows that we respect each other and care for one an-others safety, and that we aren't insecure that we'll "lose our client". It's not trashy. It's safety. What personal info do I ask for that others don't, other than the reference? Does the fact that I want your phone number so I know it's you when you arrive bother you? Frankly, good luck finding a girl who doesn't want Any Phone Number. It can be Any Phone Number You Are Comfortable Giving Me. Your choice. Does someone really think I'm going to go out of my way to try and ruin a man's life just because he wrote something negative about me? Really? I'm sorry, but just because this man decided to act childishly does not mean that I am the same. And just because some gentlemen have been unlucky in having a crazy girl out them, does not mean all escorts, including me, are like that. Maybe those gentlemen should have been More Careful themselves in choosing a SP? So maybe being picky isn't so bad after all? Also, my reviews have stemmed back for a few years as well. It's not like they all happened over night. I have been a trusted SP for a while. Oh and by the way, even though it hasn't changed on on the other site, this site noticed and joined your two accounts Pike/explorer69. Funny, I didn't think two different gentlemen would be able to have the exact same experience and write the same post, and 5 minutes apart, on two different sites. Hmmm.... Weird huh? Warmest Regards, Mia

I thought That was the funniest part! I was watching cute kitten videos, thanks to Carrie, and then this video was in the middle of them all! Drinking problems are NEVER funny, but if we find negativity in everything we see instead of just smiling upon silly human behavior, than we're bound to be unhappy people. Best to just laugh and hope he a. is fine now and nothing bad came of it and b. hope he learned his lesson about binge drinking. Poor Store Owner BTW!!!

There's No Other Site Like This One. It goes to show that when people show they have a heart, and actually care about others, Amazing Communities like this one can truly triumph. I post and advertise in many places, but Cerb is the only place I feel I have a Voice, can Share, Learn, and Matter. I Love Cerb and hope it only grows and gets better with time. It's an Awesome place.

Most Determined Drunk Guy I've Ever Seen. I wonder how this guy even got to the store to begin with? http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JqHOE1gD4WQ&feature=relmfu

I would Love to know too!

I'm always happy to provide a reference for another SP, and also recommend another lady if I'm not available for a certain service or date. We, as a community, should always want to look out for each other, Sp or Client. This is a great thread, and I think we should try to use this as a list for reference friendly sp's. Great Idea Megan!

I gotta add a woman or two I've seen pictures of but have never met. Ms. Eva Charms - so sultry and sexy. Her hair, her eyes, a super mischievous smile.... I've been crushing for a while. Victoria Jolie - She's clearly got a brain in that gorgeous head of hers, and it's a super turn on. I totally admire a smart business woman. Boys, Back Off. For the First Time, this is a party Just for the Ladies. No sausages allowed hehe

Happy Birthday Bethany! Be Indulgent, Sexy, and Have Lots of Fun! xoxo

OMG I'm such a slut lol, my list could go on for DAYS! Cat- She's a smart lady. I've never met her, but I feel like once we started talking, my southern accent would come back ya'll! Carrie Moon - I want those Titties!!! Fine Wine Diva- Nothing like a loud Italian Woman. Yummy. Malika - Love that Ass Shortcake - Lol I'm still waiting to come spend the night..... hehe MegforFun - She's just smart and witty, and it's totally sexy. Emma Alexandra - Blonds man..... Cleo - well we've played so that's neither a secret nor a crush anymore hehe OK Wow I could keep going but I doubt it could fit on one page. hehe.... I want you ALL!!!