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I've met with Kendra a couple of times. The first time was back when she was with PK. J had sworn that this new girl would be well worth the time. He was not wrong, she's a gem for sure. The second time we hooked up, there was another SP in the appartment waiting for a duo session to start shortly after mine. Since I'd never had a 3-some, I asked if she wanted to join us - it was easily one of my more memorable appointments. Until very recently, I've been looking for the variety that this hobby has to offer and I haven't repeated with anyone in 2 years, except Kendra. Suffices to say she stood out....

In all honesty, the first time I contacted an SP (a couple of years ago) I asked if we could get together for coffee first... of course, I got the standard "that's not how this works" line, but at the time I thought it was totally legit. I was in my late 20's, good job and no financial issues, I just wanted to make sure that I was going to meet someone worth paying, and that I was easing into the whole thing. Obviously, over the last few years I've figured out the profession and I totally agree, you should be paid for your time. I'm not trying to defending the 21 year olds that are trying to get cheap services, or the punks that think they're god's gift and think you should be appreciative of them, I'm just saying that it's not always some guy trying to scam you. In my case, it was really just a newby trying to be cautious - getting into this hobby can be a bit intimidating for the younger first timers.

Emily, I like your style. Being new to CERB, but not new to the hobby biz in general, I hope you can all appreciate this perspective. Before I joined CERB, I would find SPs on various sites, most of them brutally overrun by bait and switch and scams. So after being burned, I figured I should start making sure that the SP was genuine and that I wasn't going to get caught with my pants down again :wink: I would spend all kinds of time researching posts and recommendations (on this site included, but as a guest) just trying to make sure I'm not walking into a situation that is, well, less than desireable. Yeah, I'm married with a family. Yeah, my job might be on the line if things went south legally. I potentially have a lot to lose and the risks I take in this hobby are clearly worth what I get out of it... Why should I expect anything less from the ladies? The risk they take has to be worth the donation they're getting - so I ask all of you who don't want to provide references, is your safety worth a couple of bills? I can totally understand providing services for that kind of compensation, and I've even contemplated doing it myself, but my safety is worth way more than that. I applaud those who would respect themselves enough to ask for references - even if it means turning away some business... To Emily and everyone else out there looking out for themselves while providing us crazed enthusiasts great services, Bravo! And I hope to meet you someday soon... :-P

http://www.charlisangels.com/index2.htm You've got me interested... thanks for the idea!