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Lexy Grace

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  1. I usually try to stay away from these threads for the reasons that they become hostile, judgemental and each city stats are quite different. I think because of certain stigmas, it's not wise for me to respond but I deserve to have a voice in this being an ebony/native companion. I do receive enough hate mail and prank calls due to my race daily, weekly or whenever an actual racist chooses to harass me, so I am always hesitant to even read these threads and respond. When I see ads on other sites the first thing that comes to my mind is, when will I see a new thread appear. In Halifax, I can understand a local lady putting such a disclaimer up but that is hopefully her choice and Halifax/Nova Scotia is not that big, someone knows a friend of a friend or cousin or family member. I never see these types of disclaimers as racist, unless you can read minds you will never know 100% why a lady has put this in their ad. The lady is entitled to see whomever she chooses. I pick and choose who I meet and not just because I was contacted, I have the final say. Now on the other hand, I have been told that some clients enjoy seeing such disclaimers due to their "so called preferences" and know said companion does not see a certain race. Many providers can tell by posting history, there is more to it besides a clients "preference". As we can read between lines and have been for a long time. I have no race or major preference besides being 19+, be respectful, kind and everything a companion seeks in a great client(s). I put my real age in my ads/website for my own client preference and that has nothing to do with race, I want to know who is contacting me is seeking a youthful, mature companion in her early 30's. I have been ID'd on a number of occasions. I don't have a personal race preference in my personal life but have dated more white, native, bi-racial (black & white) and a mix of all three. Do I think black/brown men are any less attractive or less greater partners than white men? NO. No matter the race, when we get cut we all bleed the same colour. I just haven't met a black/brown man who is not from Halifax and either a family member or knows my family and the list goes on. Honestly, I'm loving being single after being with and then married to a white man for half my life. I can state that I have never met a client who was brown/black ask for BBFS, negotiate or try/attempt to put me in harms way. I can not say this to be the case for anyone I have not met. That is my contribution to this dead beaten horse thread #3 on the same topic. I try my best not to put myself in such threads with such negativity and judgement. I'm far from new to the industry and have years of experience and I certainly did not respond to argue or be drawn in to any of this negative, judgmental drama. The bottom line is, the lady is entitle to pick and chose who she meets and doesn't. It's her body and her rules. All my love and support to all, Lexy
  2. Happy Birthday my Friend! I hope it was just as great as you:icon_wink:....If that's possible! My heart and thoughts are always with you, my naughty birthday Friend!!:whipping: Birthday Spanks, Kisses, Hugs and Lots of Licks, Lexy
  3. In my experience, the client asks the lady for a reference first and then he supplies you with her name, number, email, link to their ad and possible website. The client is IMHO suppose to get permission and supply you with the contact information. I don't ever cross my fingers, my gut is always top and then my other procedures. Stay Safe and Smart! Hugs, Lexy
  4. Oh I have, thoroughly since I have been back after it was posted in the Warnings Section!! They just changed the number today to 902-293-8404 on their site and BP, before today it was originally on the site and BP as 902-209-9575. The net has eyes!!
  5. Thanks for the mention Angela:redface: but I'm currently not offering web-cam dates at the moment or should I say just not right now:icon_wink:. The ladies you have suggested are amazingly awesome, beautiful and I doubt distance with web-cam should be an issue but the OP would have to check and verify this with those wonderful ladies. Hugs, Lexy
  6. Earlier they removed the web link but now it is back with a different phone number on BP and the site 902-293-8404 and same services offered on the site. Who knows how many numbers they are using.
  7. Are we going to compile a list of words/acronym's we are NOT allowed to use and that can be use? NOT Use For example: GFE, PSE, Greek/Greece, MSOG. Use For Example: Escort, date, time & companionship. Please add to the list of allowed to USE and NOT USE. Thanks and all my love and support, Lexy
  8. My question Mod, Should FS companions remove links to our Cerb recommendations and/or other reviews on our websites so that it does not show that each FS companion was a previous FS companion and we are now just a "time and companionship" escort to ensure cerb is legal and for LE not to have any reason to accuse cerb of anything illegal? Thanks in advance, Lexy
  9. Added the link to my Twitter and elsewhere, I also signed the petition.
  10. FUN FUN FUN! I have had MMF, MMFF and MFF (along with other combinations but I will leave that to your imaginations :icon_wink:, I still have a few on my list that I have yet to experience) in my personal and companion life. It's an experience that is so mind blowing and you just need to go with the flow, feel safe first and foremost and enjoy! Hell, I'm a sweet, fun freak with an open mind. Hugs, Lexy
  11. Firstly I'd like to say, I hope I'm posting in the proper area. Many of you have noticed I have been gone since the end of August and I want to thank those who sent emails/PM's/text messages of concern and care. I had to leave NS very quickly to get to my eldest Sister's side once I received a call that she was in hospital and passed 10 days after I arrived. She passed from cancer at the rare tender young age of 37. I really don't want to get in to all the details in the general forum or the type of cancer it was but I will say it was spread through her entire lady area regions and untreatable. My message to the ladies and gents, please don't just brush weird pains and symptoms off, get checked regardless if it is a false alarm. I'm taking it one day at a time and I have suffered much lose due to this evil disease in many forms over the years and for me it doesn't get better only easier to deal with each day. I'm happy to be back and I have missed you all greatly. All My Love and Hugs, Lexy
  12. Happy Birthday My Sweet Friend! I Hope You Have an Amazing One!! Huge Birthday Hugs, Lexy
  13. It is quite fun! Kisses, Lexy
  14. Looking for a new place sucks! I've seen 4 all dumps and for the money they want LMFAO! I have a list of criteria, location and standards.
  15. This link has some great/lots of information on how the whole system works after it goes to Senate and is passed or not and so much more. https://drive.google.com/folderview?id=0B3mqMOhRg5FeWEZ4VTFRb3R0V2M&usp=sharing&tid=0B3mqMOhRg5FeNlY4ZkxFb2pLaWM I still have yet to find out when the bullshit bill goes to Senate, anyone know the date? As individual companions we are from what I'm reading from the bullshit bill it will be legal to sell our sexual services, I'm sure we will need to change the language but it is the "client" who it will be illegal for them to communicate for said sexual services. It's just so F*cking STUPID!! All My Love, Support, Hugs and Kisses, Lexy
  16. When is the day the bullshit bill goes to Senate and then after Senate is that it? I've looked everywhere and admit I was getting quite frustrated and upset re-reading everything so I will just ask. Hobbyists of all genders: Start your lists of all the Companions you have seen and would like to see. Obviously the established, reputable and trusted companions are not LE. Keep as much info as you can gather, Names, Phone numbers, Emails, Websites and a Notes Section/Column (read their reco thread or had good discussions etc.). Put it in an Excel Spread sheet and email it to your hobby email or put it on a USB and in a safe spot. It's always good to have a Plan B if this bullshit bill passes!! No hobbyist needs to stop hobbying, just do your research and don't wait until the last minute/night before. All My Love, Support, Hugs and Kisses, Lexy
  17. Ask questions if you are seeking to book ladies that offer duos, be polite and let the lady you are contacting know what you seek, if this is your first time, asked and done respectfully, I can't see a question you have not getting answered in full detail. I have no issue answering anything that I'm asked. I explain in the first PM that we are fully interactive along with each ladies restrictions/roles are and what they are open to provide the gentleman, as every action is at the ladies discretion. Not a menu, we are ladies not restaurants but I will say what we are open to and not. One may provide BBBJ and the other CBJ, each lady takes a turn with some DATY while one lady is doing the BJ and no one gets left out.:icon_wink: The possibilities are endless, go with flow, be open prior to booking and confirming and have a freaking freaky wild blast. I was just lucky to reconnect with a friend I had grown up with and we actually do fancy one another, there is real chemistry and it is quite evident.:makeout: Duos for us to are very fun but we also would never let business ruin our true friendship.
  18. Over the last two days I have been having family arrive back home to Halifax from where they all have moved either out West and Ottawa for our first family reunion since my Nan (The Rock of Family) passed over a decade ago. It's going to be so wonderful, I haven't seen most of them in over 10yrs. Today will be a good day with family, food and love.
  19. I have no issue with it at all, I see married, single and couples so wear it. Like Angela said "In fact, if someone does sport their wedding ring, that tells me that they are confident that our arrangement is just that - an arrangement and by default trusting that I acknowledge their situation and that I will keep up my end of the bargain by remaining discrete." My role as a Companion is not to judge or try to take things further beyond our arrangement, I'm not out to try and take someone's husband. I do see it of course most times but I don't ask and if it is brought up in conversation about being married or the ring, I'm honest and say it doesn't bother me and what is said during our time stays between that gentleman and myself. Half the time I don't notice it anymore because I'm not looking for it. That's actually none of my business, it only becomes acknowledged if the gentleman brings it up and we have a conversation about real life issues and it does happen.
  20. I've been quite quiet about this bullshit bill but I am so sick and tired of the fear it's creating for the hobbyists, it's literally making me sick. I get PM's "You are on my wish list, I need see you before the bill passes", I'm starting to find these PM's insulting, I as many other Companions are established and safe to see no matter what and I'm upset that the hobbyists are in such a frenzy of manic panic and that is what they want. Screw the bill if it passes, we will need to change the language when communicating but how hard is that. I and many Companions have established businesses as Companions, we are reputable and legit Companions. From Coast to Coast there are hundreds of reputable Companions like myself that are safe to contact and you know we are not LE. Just a suggestion. Make a list, possibly an Excel sheet with the established, reputable and trusted Companions you see and want to see with all their contact information (Name, email, phone # and website), password protect it and either put it on a USB or email it to yourself or whatever but put it in a safe spot. Anyways, I see it like this. I Lexy Grace am an Elite Courtesan Companion, the donation I receive is for my time and companionship only. Whomever I am spending time with we could be watching a movie or having dinner. That person just wanted companionship and company. I am not selling sex, I am selling time for someone to spend with me. I have many encounters options that don't involve anything physical, if we happen to have sex, that was free. They paid for my Time and Companionship Only. I have something in motion if the bill passes to ensure my safety and that of the person I am spending quality time with as a companion for time and companionship only. What I have in motion will be available soon. Just some tweaking and word play but I have been working hard on this. These are just my thoughts and what I have been holding in way too long, I'm sure some will disagree but there is no need to start a negative debate over something that is just so wrong and negative already IMHO. All My Love, Hugs and Support, Lexy
  21. Semi-packing, needing to leave out the essentials for sexy time before I depart SJ and finish packing in the morning before I depart. Only the semi-packing SUCKS!!
  22. I'm not a coffee drinker unless preparing and/on tour or doing incalls. I was cleaning my suite coffee pot and I accidently touched the burner where the pot sits! My pour pinky finger is burned but has not blistered yet. Boy does it hurt and burn like a flipping b*tch OUCH!!:icon_sad: Additional Comments: Tracie it was still literally burning and I did have it in cold ice water but then had to get ready for sexy time! When I got in the bath, WOW did it burn but it's fine now, no blister or even a sign I burnt it. Thank you for your advice and concern. Hugs, Lexy
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