Lexy Grace

It's been awhile since this thread has had any activity and I believe with some recent issue I have been dealing with it needs to be brought up and as much attention given as possible. This is a very important and serious matter and issue for all the providers. In my ads I feel like they have turned in to a how to manual and losing what I want to express about me. Half the page is instructions when contacting me and what I require because of the question I receive and the instructions are all on my website, so I am constantly duplicating my instructions. Some read and follow instructions very well but others WOW, I feel like not even responding and it is upsetting because the ones I do have to walk through simple to the point instructions turn out to be complete gentleman. I don't mind communicating prior to an encounter, I actually love it. I despise having my time and effort getting to know someone, screening and simple method of contact instructions disregarded and the interaction a complete waste of my time, when I could be focusing more on someone who is actually serious. I find it disrespectful and if someone doesn't follow very simple instructions, what type of impression do you think that makes? Yes this is in the "newbie" section but this issue applies to all who disregard our instructions regardless of how long someone has been in the lifestyle. In short form, if a ladies instructions are too hard to follow and you just want to bypass and disregard our request in my opinion, just move on and stop wasting our time. We put a lot of time and effort in to developing our business policies and processes and taking our businesses very serious, professional and deserve our businesses to be respected as if they are any other and you are going to any other type of professional. I will leave it at that and I do hope that more respect and fully reading and following our instructions improves tremendously. Lexy

Ablutomania Mania for washing oneself Agathism belief in ultimate triumph of good despite evil means Unclubbable Anti-social and solitary Flibbertigibbety This crazy-sounding word means flighty and a bit silly & wacky. Recumbentibus A knockout punch, either verbal or physical. Tarantism A disorder characterized by an uncontrollable urge to dance.

You are so right. The movie does do a disservice to the providers. Anyone who writes/creates these movies should have a real hobbyist and provider on staff to squash all the stereotypes but then the real deal may not make for good box office sales. I too like things during an encounter to just flow but if you have no idea of what someone may like or dislike it can make for an awkward moment, so I ask what someone seeks during an encounter for new "special friends", it also makes for great communicating, getting to know someone a little better leading up to the encounter and then there is no guess work and things can just unfold and flow and I know what they are comfortable with and they know the same for me, especially if someone is looking for something specific. The more I know makes for a more comfortable, better, intense and open to trying things I never usually try or do during an encounter:icon_wink:. Nothing stupid or life threatening. For example: I never use to have soapy shower fun or bubble bath/jacuzzi fun, that has since changed. Speaking of awkward moment, a new now regular "special friend" with a foot fetish which was unknown to me at the time upon my arrival they took my coat and as I bent down to unzip my heels they did as well and clunk, there was that awkward moment. We laughed and rubbed our heads but had I known, I would have waited or either asked for assistance with removing my heels. Lexy

What is with the sinkholes?? There was one in Halifax on September 5th. "UPDATED 5:52 p.m. Traffic is back to normal in downtown Halifax after a sinkhole developed at the intersection of Barrington, Upper Water Street and Cornwallis streets shortly after 2 p.m. Halifax Water believes the two-foot by two-foot depression was caused by a broken sewer line, said spokesman James Campbell. Whether the line was active will not be known until the weather clears and workers are able to examine the pipe, he said. In the meantime, a steel plate has been placed over the sinkhole as a temporary measure to allow traffic to continue. During the mid-afternoon, Barrington Street northbound was reduced to one lane and drivers approaching the intersection from Upper Water Street had to turn right on to Barrington." Chronicle Herald http://thechronicleherald.ca/metro/132961-downtown-halifax-sinkhole-covered-traffic-back-to-normal

Welcome Back and Home Chanel!! Happy to hear you are home and in your own bed, hopefully you're well enough to get back to having that good ole sexy fun very soon!! All my best to you, Lexy

Aubrey I totally understand what you are saying and I love the purple.:icon_wink: Although I am in Halifax many "special friends" I see are not CERB members (many I have got to join), some are use to using agencies, some are old school and don't want anything to do with the net and prefer to speak with a lady and don't deal with email or are not in to or know about the whole GFE or PSE. I don't feel I have to offer the different experiences I do, I choose to but I chose to do so by what was being requested and what I am comfortable with and everything and anything is at my discretion, just as my "special friends" have a choice, so do I. By me offering 3 experiences to accommodate the "special friends" I have and new ones I am currently accepting, everyone is happy. Regardless of the experience, they are all unique and very much intimate. It's all in what you make the encounter and I doubt that I will ever just offer one experience, I never have in the last 4-5 years as an independent. Choice is good. You also give someone who may not have much extra cash but really wants to see you the opportunity because the donations are different and I designed my experiences to suit all needs, comfort levels and financial abilities and new, semi and experienced hobbyist sometimes like to just get their toes wet, while others jump right in and I see no problem with offering Basic Full Service, SGFE and GFE with a Splash of PSE among a number of other things to explore together. Some gents in Halifax still don't know that some ladies will kiss and when they find that out and everything is not extra for this and that, it's usually only 10% or less that request Basic Full Service. I think the gents that are mainly hesitant to ask about kissing have watched Pretty Woman because that was what the #1 rule "Don't Kiss A Client". Times have changed and if I am going to share a part of myself with anyone intimately, I prefer to kiss and connect on another level.:makeout: Lexy

Happy Birthday Chantal!! Hope you had a great one! Big Birthday Hugs, Lexy

Get well soon Old Dog. My thoughts and prayers are with you and do take it easy, slow and steady wins the race.. We will all be here waiting for your healthy and strong return. Thank you to Angela for letting us know and Luxe for the update. This is truly an amazing community and I hope more members can pop in to see him and brighten up his day. All the best and my Love, Lexy

I have to agree with all you big ass lovers. There's nothing like a nice juicy ass!! Many of the CERB ladies have some seriously nice juicy asses on them.

First Day Back to School in NS. One of my boys is starting Junior High (Grade 7) and the youngest (Grade 4). They just have boobies and girls on the mind "I wonder who grew some over Summer?"..OYE!! I can't chastise them for liking and talking about boobies, I like them too!! Yes!! I'm one if not the hottest Mama/MILF on the PTA!!:shehot:

I can see why it would. A number of "special friends" of my mine are single and attached and just delicious and not arrogant. Those ones never see me again. You can look good, know it but don't make it the whole topic of conversation. Everyone I see has something yummy about them that I adore, right down to a cute belly button. Nothing like a blue or green eyed delectable yummy bandit to get the panties moist and the list goes on and but I need to stop lol, my heads feeling hot. With me/us providers there's no drama, fighting or constant nagging that can eventually sneak its evil little way in to a relationship and then all hell breaks loose but you love each other still possibly (in some cases there's children, your comfortable, or are together because sometimes it's just cheaper to keep her or him) YES I said IT and made it bold too. I'd be a smart ass and probably say. "This is why I see providers to avoid stupid, silly questions like this. I may be handsome but I'm not a piece of meat" and would have flipped the script on her.

I would send a very professional email using legal terminology, which means you will need to research a little about the legalities of this situation. I myself have been blessed with a few high profiled lawyers, police officers and the best head computer techs in NS in my family. When I had pictures stolen, ad texts stolen that was dealt with by me but I had them in my corner just in case. Just a few months ago I was the victim of cyber bullying, harassment, defamation of character and basically made out to be the worst possible person to ever live and was basically told I shouldn't be alive or won't be living for long. This was done for reasons I won't say, with keeping the spirit of CERB among other reasons. I'm just telling my story and things can be done about anything done to you online with or without your permission. My lawyers have all communication between said person and myself as proof, evidence and what was posted publicly online. I can only give some advice and that things can actually be done when it comes to online and having things removed or getting a lawyer involved. No one owns your material but you. I pulled in my big boys. I know said persons real full legal name and more details that I am not willing to share, along all their online activity. Nothing illegal was done to obtain any of this information, all obtained exactly by the book. T's crossed and I's dotted. Everything my officer family members could find on this person along with my tech cousins they found. Now my lawyers who I will never have to pay thank goodness are just waiting for my word. Everything is ready to go for legal action, which can happen when I give the green light. I'm just trying to put this behind me and be positive because we all know misery loves company but I have a back-up plan, just in case said person for lack of better words "gets their dirties on again". You may even be able to find a member who is a lawyer that will out of the kindness of their heart draft you a legal document (letter/email) for you to send. I'm not talking bartering crap, just an act of kindness. What you give out you get back and kindness is free! All my support from a lady who was underestimated, Lexy

Rexx, I can and do understand where you are coming from regarding condescending remarks but it does happen all over the board and sometimes people don't realize they are coming off that way but I do make that statement with great caution...I can see where such comments are not helpful at all. Some gents like to brag up their "territory" but trust me, being stood up by providers can and does happen in every province. Being stood up with no call, email, text or what have you is disgraceful and by 50% that totally sucks the big one and it's not like you didn't have to take the time to prepare, schedule and all those good things, providers deal with so much crap so much that it is the norm and part of being a provider and you just learn to deal, screen and adapt. I'm just baffled at the lack of professionalism that you are receiving, I totally don't understand it. I can see if they are fly-by-night providers but if they are suppose to be "reputable providers" well that's a whole different ball game. I can feel the frustration in your post and I feel for you because no one deserves this type of treatment and being stood up if you are a complete gentleman and upstanding client. I wasn't being a defensive lady, I was trying to help you figure out what is going on and how to deal and fix it. I'm 100% guilty of posting something in the heat of the moment about the crap providers go through and was like OYE!! after taking a breather and coming back to what I've written in those posts:icon_eek:. I hear such great things about the ladies in your area and the ladies who visit so like I said I'm quite baffled and there must be something that can be done. May be some of the local or touring ladies can weigh in on this, I have no idea what it is like to work in your area. I was really only trying to help and give some advice and it so backfired but I'm a tough little cookie and it's not the first and I can guarantee not the last. I got the idea that you don't follow ladies instructions by your statement below in bold, especially "try someone else if we can't work something out" but there are some providers that will let the client decide on their safety and booking process, just for the appointment. Everyone is entitled to their own business practices and I am not saying you are not a safe or sane client. I don't know you, it's just a general statement: Originally Posted by rexx Ahh yes thank you another poster from Ottawa with such wonderful advice. Why is it only people from Ottawa that do this?? My point was my experience in Winnipeg lately has been that the ladies don't regard this as an appointment that they have to keep its like they use it as a fall back if they aren't busy. I have no problem understanding the purpose of it and I used to be willing to follow all instructions but as I said my experience has been that 50% of the time I get stood up. That includes driving to the designated location and calling from there. So now I politely decline and try someone else if we can't work something out. I really hope you find a good 1-3 real special and professional ladies and put this crap behind you. I'm not saying it will be easy, it sure as hell won't by the looks/sounds of things but it is attainable. Try to stay positive and keep your head up Rexx:icon_smile:. All the best and some Big Scotian Hugs, Lexy Back to Sophia???

Happy Birthday Touch. Hope your day was filled with lots of Touching!! Big Birthday Hugs, Lexy

No. I'm not concerned or anything, just curious. It may have had something to with the surge of users/guests thing the other day but the account was shut down mega quick. Thanks for asking sweetie, Lexy

Happy Birthday! Naughty Gurl..... BIG BIRTHDAY HUGS!! LEXY

Fascinating!! Here you have members from across the country trying to help and give advice and what not and you blatantly are not too kind when someone is trying to help and show kindness to you and I quote "Ahh yes thank you another poster from Ottawa with such wonderful advice. Why is it only people from Ottawa that do this?? My point was my experience in Winnipeg". This is not just a Winnipeg issue, gents and ladies deal with this issue daily and that is why your fellow gents and ladies are replying and communicating with you, main word here Community and that is what most of us see CERB as. From what I'm reading and your tone, possibly due to frustration but only you know that. May be it's not the ladies you are booking and possibly you. We never like to look at the most obvious reason staring right back at us in the mirror or do some self reflection, especially is we are upset and want to blame everyone but ourselves. If it is the ladies, do as much research as humanly possible. This type of business practices are disgusting and shameful. Not following a ladies instructions that she has put in place for her safety is a major NO NO. Or move to another age bracket if you think age/younger ladies are the issue. These are things to consider or say whatever to. I don't lose sleep over trying to be helpful and kind. Best of luck and shunning the community is just not the CERB way, we are all here to help!! All my best, Lexy

Lee you're awesome!! 31yrs old on November 11th!! I'm so serious and it's so true, shocking, funny and only members have asked LMAO. Do you mean these jeans???:icon_wink: We can always pretend I'm 31 and you can spank me for saying I'm younger until November 11th!:spank: Kisses, Lexy

If an encounter has gone great and the person is safe and all the great, respectful and whatnot things for me to accept and experience that person up close and personal:icon_wink:. I think the ladies would like to know, I offer to be a reference and also put a nice note in that persons user notes and ask/welcome the ladies to contact me for a more thorough reference if they like. I certainly don't offer this to just anyone/everyone. Lexy

I'm not sure if I am posting in the correct place but I have a question and I know someone has an idea, clue or answer. I received a PM September 1st at 1:00a.m., they had an account for one day and their handle and I responded. I look now and the PM says Guest, no join date but the handle is still there. When I click the handle it says "Invalid User specified. If you followed a link chances are that member has closed his/her account and forgot to delete his/her photos or it may be a suspended or banned member". Can guest accounts send PM's, was it a glitch? What is up with Guest accounts and what are they able to do on the site? A very confused Lexy:? Additional Comments: Not a soul?? MOD will know. I miss WIT with such a great passion. His retirement/presence is surely noticed. Thanks for reading my post anyways my lovelies!!

1) Can I see your ID? Sure.. "WOW! You look much younger". I always tell my real age, it's all in the genes baby!! I don't mind it but come on, I'm 30. What is 30 suppose to look like? 2) Can you be here in 15 minutes? I'm sweet as an angel but have no wings and my car certainly doesn't either. 3) Can I be your first of the day? Sure if you pre-book. I'm low volume and you may be my only of the day, if I choose. I bath before & after every encounter but I do make special exceptions and on the weekends it is 100% possible if you pre-book/confirm to be the first and only with a 2+hr encounter. I like the weekends for me and my family and a splash of some freaky sexy fun time!! 4) Why are your hours so long? I have a regular life and work within those hours but when I'm done, I'm done. Until the next day. 5) Questions that my ads or website answer. Read them and then ask any questions you may have. My ads have turned in to a how to guide more than an ad because of the questions I get but I still get them. OYE!!

Believe in yourself! Have faith in your abilities! Without a humble but reasonable confidence in your own powers you cannot be successful or happy. Norman Vincent Peale I don't believe you have to be better than everybody else. I believe you have to be better than you ever thought you could be. Ken Venturi The key is to keep company only with people who uplift you, whose presence calls forth your best. Epictetus When you reach the end of your rope, tie a knot in it and hang on. Thomas Jefferson Forgive your enemies, but never forget their names. John F. Kennedy

Major Hugs and Love to my dear friend Cathy. I'm always here and only a hop, skip and jump away. Sending only strong positive thoughts your way. All my Love, Lexy

Strikhedonia: The pleasure of being able to say to hell with it!! Vesthibitionism: The flirtatious display of undergarments by a woman