Lexy Grace

I have to give special thanks to mrnice2 for all that he has done and endured putting this event together and to Katherine my dear friend for assisting. It amazing to see the amount of members from away that will be attending and many that I have waited so long to finally meet, I look forward to seeing and reconnecting with the members that I have met. This is going to be a great evening and surely a night to remember! The Count Down is On!!:icon_biggrin: All My Love, Lexy

Congratulations! I love to read your posts, you are truly a great contributor. Big Hugs, Lexy

Awesome and congratulations Shortcake!!

Here is the link: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=91730 Lexy

Congratulations Angels! Well Deserved...

Happy Birthday castle!! Big Birthday Hugs, Lexy

That is so awesome and amazing all in one WIT. I always enjoy and learn from reading your posts and this is so well deserved and most certainly earned. Big Hugs, Lexy

You are correct, I responded to your PM with the link to the new thread. Lexy

Today I truly felt 100% appreciated.

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Congratulations Nathalie!! Welcome to the group of Goddesses!

I was happily surprised at the numbers as well, this will be a great time!!

I do agree the OP did not ask for an exact location or street name but also did not specify if they were looking for an SP or MA/MP that is providing such services and asked for a specific area only. SP or MA/MP all use this same area to say that they offer massage or are discussed in this one area. You say you are aware of the safety reasons why a provider would decline to publish such information and no the OP did not ask for it, just an area but knowing ladies who's addresses and locations that have been posted online by others is a real and major safety concern that only the SP themselves would know and feel the fear for their safety. That is why I said "For the safety of any SP I'm sure no one will willing offer there location in public. An SP may say Downtown Halifax or something like that but a specific area/location, as you have seen from getting no public responses I think my thoughts on this are right but that is just my opinion, may be you have received some PM's and that would be more private and comfortable for some SP's. If you see a lady that interests you, just politely send a PM and ask I'm looking for a lady in the general area of Clayton Park or Clayton Park, are you near there, if you don't mind me asking? You may get a response with I'm near by or possibly a street name but it's all in how you ask." The OP's original question was very generic and did not contain much information, so it was left wide open to different interpretations. I don't see any reason to continue on with this discussion because there is really no real concrete information besides Clayton Park in the OP's original question and many SP's provide massage services and offered my advice on how to contact a lady as it was not specified if the OP was looking for a SP or MA/MP for such service and that the lady may reply with "I'm near by or possibly a street name". Have a wonderful day, Lexy Additional Comments: In Halifax we have one area to discuss massage whether it is offered by an SP/MA/MP and that was not specified so it is left wide open for any lady that provides massage to respond. I said the OP may have received some PM's as they did not specify what type of provider they were seeking and gave little information only an area. I gave my advice on how to contact a lady of interest and ask politely "I'm looking for a lady in the general area of Clayton Park or Clayton Park, are you near there, if you don't mind me asking? You may get a response with I'm near by or possibly a street name but it's all in how you ask." No harm in a gentleman sending a polite PM asking for information IMHO. Halifax is certainly very different from Ottawa and how the sections for specific services and providers are as well. I'm guessing it's due to our size. Lexy

You would be highly shocked and possibly sickened at the length some people will go to find a ladies exact location and what they do when they have that information. I myself am well aware of the area my sons attend school up in the newest part of the area. The SP's know why we protect our exact locations and the huge reasons for safety. I said "If you see a lady that interests you, just politely send a PM and ask I'm looking for a lady in the general area of Clayton Park or Clayton Park, are you near there, if you don't mind me asking? You may get a response with I'm near by or possibly a street name but it's all in how you ask."

i am me "My Declaration of Self-esteem" In all the world, there is no one else exactly like me - everything that comes out of me is authentically mine, because I alone choose it - I own everything about me - my body, my feelings, my mouth, my voice, all my actions, whether they be to others or to myself - I own my fantasies, my dreams, my hopes, my fears - I own all my triumphs and successes, all my failures and mistakes. Because I own all of me, I can become intimately acquainted with me - by so doing I can love me and be friendly with me in all my parts - I know there are aspects about myself that puzzle me, and other aspects that I do not know - but as long as I am friendly and loving to myself, I can courageously and hopefully look for solutions to the puzzles and for ways to find out more about me - However I look and sound, whatever I say and do, and whatever I think and feel at a given moment in time is authentically me - If later some parts of how I looked, sounded, thought and felt turned out to be unfitting, I can discard that which I feel is unfitting, keep the rest, and invent something new for that which I discarded - I can see, hear, feel, think, say, and do. I have the tools to survive, to be close to others, to be productive, and to make sense and order out of the world of people and things outside of me - I own me, and therefore I can engineer me - I am me & I AM OKAY By: Virginia Satir I hope this poem inspires others as it has me! All my Love, Lexy

I was as well and I thank her silently to myself everyday and I have done in public. Although we have yet to meet, we surely will when our schedules allow. She left Halifax but visits frequently, so we will eventually sit down and chit chat over a lovely glass of wine.

This is a very sensitive subject but not one that should be pushed under the rug, as if it doesn't exist. Everyone has the right to choose who they have an encounter with SP and Hobbyist alike, our choice. I myself a Ebony(Black)/Native Companion was together and married to a white man for many years, we have 2 bi-racial sons. I have never dated a black male, may be because my family is so large and everyone is your cousin or distant cousin. I've always dated white men and that is just the race I'm use to or it may be because I started dated my ex-white husband when I was 15. I have no exact answer to why. I don't see many black males, 2 regulars as a matter of fact. Other races mainly Asian, bi-racial, Native and mainly White contact me. I see it as if someone doesn't want to meet me because of my ethnicity and stereotypes that is their loss and sad. They are missing out on a very nice sweet person but I don't let it bother me, I will admit it use to hurt my feelings and make me wonder what is wrong with me, why am I not good enough. Then I realized, I'm not the problem. For any one person that looks at me with those "racist" thoughts, their not in my books good enough to be even graced with my presence. There are many wonderful people who would and are delighted to spend quality time with me. To be blunt no matter the color on the outside of the SP, a kitty is a kitty and we all have unique personalities, looks, shapes, sizes, hair color and something special to offer. People are entitled to have their preferences but times have and are still changing, so may be it's time to think outside the box and try new things and types. I am open to seeing any race and legal age but it is all in the initial approach and contact, point blank. I have met a 20 year old that was more kind and respectful in person than a 40 year old. In terms of the SP not wanting to see black males, I think there are underlying issues that we will never know and that is her right and choice. SP's don't make these types of decisions for no reason, whether it was their upbringing, bad experience or whatever. She has made this choice for a reason but no two people are a like. IMHO I never base who I see because of a not so great and respectful encounter with Mr. A who is white and just crude and say well I'm not seeing Mr. B who is white because of Mr. A. Everyone is different and no two can and will be the exact same. Just my thoughts. All my Love, Lexy

For the safety of any SP I'm sure no one will willing offer there location in public. An SP may say Downtown Halifax or something like that but a specific area/location, as you have seen from getting no public responses I think my thoughts on this are right but that is just my opinion, may be you have received some PM's and that would be more private and comfortable for some SP's. If you see a lady that interests you, just politely send a PM and ask I'm looking for a lady in the general area of Clayton Park or Clayton Park, are you near there, if you don't mind me asking? You may get a response with I'm near by or possibly a street name but it's all in how you ask. Best of Luck, Lexy

I woke up today to see that I have achieved triple Goddess Status. Thank you all for your love and support.:icon_smile: All my Love, Lexy

Glad I signed up for both accounts prior to having to supply a mobile number. They are surely not getting that, they are pushing the privacy boundaries but we must read that fine print.

This is going to be so much fun! Some of the ladies and I have already been discussing what to wear. I'm such a girly, girl LOL!! Fun, relaxed, happy times in Halifax. Yeah!!! I can't wait..:bigclap:

I have two clients on my personal Facebook both have moved away but visit every so often, I have a companion Facebook but no pictures or anything just full name and email and if a gent wants to add me I have no problem but I don't use it as an advertising tool. I did see people from my personal Facebook in the you may know this person and that was a little creepy and weird, how do they know. I was on a different laptop, I usually have my Mac (Business) and Sony (Personal) on the go at the same time. I need a clone!!

IMHO I would hit that little report button in that PM. I use to show my face and wish that I could but my privacy was compromised and this is a private and discrete business for me as it is for most hobbyist and we should be given the same right to respect, discretion and privacy. I have a huge family here and all over and my business and what I do is just that, my business. My description of myself is 100% accurate and if that is not good enough than I would politely tell someone to seek out another lady. I agree with you that boundaries should and are to be respected. What would happen if every lady started requesting a face picture of every hobbyist, that certainly would not go over well with the hobbyist. CERB is a positive SP friendly recommendation board and no negative "reviews" would be posted here, so you have no worries about that empty threat. Some people will try many tactics that are mean, rude and unethical. Feel free to send me a PM to discuss this because this is so not right for anyone to make such remarks or threats. All my Love and Support, Lexy

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