Lexy Grace

Oh Joji, Where to begin?? I do speak and say for the most part what is on my mind, I never want to ever hurt anyone's feelings or demean anyone and if I have done so I truly apologize. Male or female, we all have needs and if I don't get me some kitty, Mr. Thang or both and I ran out of batteries, look out. Shoppers on Spring Garden Rd. is 24hrs. I know when you enter a location your nerves are going, your excited, she's looking delicious and then you see mess. It is one of the hardest things as a hobbyist you will do besides the lady doing the whole switch and bait BS. I look at the rules almost daily and still don't know all of them, most would agree. I certainly did not mean to offend you with my "when you gotta blow, you gotta blow" but it's so true that it's almost funny and sad at the same time. I will admit that I answered very emotionally about answering personal phones and anyone that knows me surely knows why. My life could change forever any second. Now business/work phones should have the ringer off, the phone doesn't need to be off but no one should hear it ring or vibrate, just my opinion. I love pre-booked encounters IMHO the lady should have all things for play ready and none of this "I forgot it BS". It depends if it's an in or out. personally I pack a special goody bag the night before or in the morning put one together for incalls. My sister calls my goody bag "the bag of wonders" and it is nice but heavy LMAO!! I bring everything in it but the person I'm seeing but you would never guess, I got it from Mary Poppins lol!! I'm speaking for me and some ladies may agree, I still get nervous, very excited, put on some music and get ready for the day to play. When I knock on that door or the knock comes on the door. I take a moment breath and just be me. It takes every inch of courage to walk out or away but some do it with no problem. I guess for some it's easier to be an asshole than a gentleman, it's not like the hobbyist/client hasn't looked at the lady for days. Now for me I have walked away from certain venues. I don't like funk, mess or dirt. It does in away speak to the person you are about to have an encounter with, if they live in filth what is their hygiene regimen. That's me, I hate mess and dirt. Just the thought makes my skin crawl. I know you did not want to come off as an ass and most gents won't and just blow through it and pretend the place is clean and fresh and not walk out or leave right at that point of no return. I would have a very hard time standing up when I'm about or just exploding and walk away. My legs would give out and I'd be on my ass but with that said it is much different for a woman and for me if I was to stay under those conditions, I doubt I could even cum. You are not alone by far. Congrats on quitting!! As for the smoking 2 so far. I can't be told to quit, I never was a quitter. I need to do this 100% when I say I'm done and I take every precaution I can not smell like smoke. I don't smoke in my home, hotel(s) and won't see anyone until my mouth is 100%. It has been brought to my attention twice and I was devastated and will gargle Lysol so my mouth tastes minty fresh. I was so embarrassed and knowing my thoughts and feelings about the smell but I usually always ask and the 2 times the non-smoker(s) were honest and I commend them for that. What next? Want to see if my mouth taste like a smoker, I'm teasing. Here's a little something to ease the tension!! You like that tushy!! Spank it :spank:. I love it!!!!! This is in no way shape or form of advertising, just stating my point of view on the issue at hand.

Thank you! I better see your sexy ass there!! You are one of a kind and true gentleman!!! Kisses, Lexy

Sucks that you experienced this but should all SP's assume all clients are smokers, stinky and whatever else may be a turn off? As for not noticing a member is "Suspended" it says it under their name and I would take a look at the rules as I am not 100% sure if she is on the Don't Discuss List or whatever the name of it is. I have many pet peeves but will remain and keep them to myself for the most part. With regards to ladies answering their work phone, I shake my head but for me my family comes before anyone and if my personal phone vibrates I'm checking. All I have in this world is my family and any material crap stays here when we depart so, I have an amazing and very strong family background and that has shaped the person I am today. I myself am considered now an occasional smoker now. One day at a time, I smoke a max of 4 a day and never book smoking hotels, only smoke free ones. I find I only smoke when I'm stressed or nervous and never right before an encounter but it's a work in process not progress. This takes time for me and I have gotten welcomed feedback on how to deal with this evil, disease causing killer. Yes, smoking is a personal matter for me. I myself always hated the smell and was a full-time smoker for years. If a gent/female/couple visits I have everything in the washroom facilities to freshen up (smoker(s) or not), so they don't even need to ask or I say there's a care package or have one ready and waiting. Something to that effect. I'm sorry joji but you seen this lady before and the place was a dirty hole not to mention the other things we have all read and you still went/stayed?? WOW!! Why are you complaining, it was all good at the time? Sorry but when I read someone say one thing, rag on a lady and still have the encounter that certainly makes an impression and that may not mean anything to you coming from me but trust me many have read this and it has made a certain impression. I guess when you gotta blow, you gotta blow. Please correct me if I was wrong with anything I've constructively said. I own anything I say. I will engage in a useful, constructive and any type of conversation I feel worth speaking to.

Wow Sandi, I never expected this or to be mentioned in this thread, it's just not something I come to look for or expect anymore but I will remember and cherish what you have done and said forever. This past month has been a serious cross road for me and my place as a member of the board but your words and kindness has changed what may have been something I would of come to regret. I must thank you. You have no idea what this and your words have done for me and the impact that you have made. Thank you Sandi All My Love, Lexy

Meg, Your thread is by far one of my favorites and one of the best threads ever. It actually features, shows and speaks only of us CERB ladies. The ladies that make and create the real fantasy and ladies the gents actually get to meet, read what we have to say and see who we are as Goddesses. I never expected to be mentioned in the thread, it's just not something I come to look for or expect anymore but I will remember and cherish what you have done. This past month has been a serious cross road for me and my place as a member of the board but your thread and Sandi combined have changed what may have been something I would of come to regret. I must thank you both. With All My Love, Lexy

My business phone gets turned off but for anyone that knows me and obvious reasons, family and such my personal phone must stay on vibrate in case of a family emergency, it is rare that it ever vibrates as I send a text busy for such and such a time but has happened once during an encounter thus far in 2012. I always tell the person that I am enjoying some time with that this phone must remain on vibrate because of personal family reasons, I am very honest and tell them why. They never have an issue because of my honesty and if they must leave their cell on for the same reason I totally understand and have no issue with it. I have no need to set my phone alarms or check the time or ask what time it is, I find that IMHO tacky and encounters should be book accordingly, if we go over by a number of minutes that's life especially if one of your business practices is based on not being a clock watcher a priority. No one likes to be rushed or feel rushed. My instincts tell me when time is close and to allow for clean up and/or shower. Tips for going over time are never expected by me but are nice and always appreciated. This is in no way shape or form of advertising, just stating my point of view on the issue at hand.

I made you blush!! That's just the beginning, hold on tight Mikeyboy!!:bddog:

Thanks Mikeyboy! I love that heavy machinery between my thighs but I'm sure we can come up with a less dangerous place to go wild and lose ourselves. I have a number of ideas!! I'd rather take you for a ride anyways:redface:!! Just being a naughty flirt and not advertising in any way shape or form. Kisses, Lexy

Happy Sex Me Saturday!! Mikeyboy I want to come for a ride (on the bike:icon_wink:)!! I've been told I look very hot and sexy on a bike and as a bike accessory. It may be just too much for onlookers and others on the road to handle:shehot: A serious safety hazard for the other motorists!!!! Kisses and Sexilicious Hugs, Lexy

You're just so sweet and have such gentlemen qualities from what I have read from you. I was talking about you being a hobbyist researching a well respected and reputable lady from CERB, contacting her, see if she is willing to accept an encounter and spending some real quality conversation and play time time with her and having an actual encounter. There may just be a well respected and reputable lady from CERB that will meet with you for no compensation for her time but obviously for longer than 10 minutes, as a real good conversation and gaining someones trust at least from the female perspective takes much longer and also for a well respected and reputable lady from CERB to put her name on the line and vouch for you. I don't mean to put you on the spot at all and I apologize if you feel that I have but you not meeting or discussing that you have met any of us well respected and reputable ladies has been one of the major concerns from the well respected and reputable ladies from CERB, as we view our safety, trust, discretion and privacy as a huge part when attending an event such as this and I am sure the gents feel the same way in regards to trust, discretion and privacy. Like I previously mentioned prior, hearing from the gents is great but from a well respected and reputable lady from CERB, I'm certain IMHO it will increase your credibility and that is certainly no way taking from the wonderful gents that you have met and have spoken to your character. A well respected and reputable lady from CERB is certainly not the same but can be a lady with many but not all or only recommendations and no real contribution or participation in the board. I truly believe the type of lady I am describing to you would have gained more trust and credibility as member to speak on your behalf. Just my thoughts!! Big Hugs and Kisses, Lexy

Hello taloon, I know you've had some of the gents speak to your character and there are some concerns as you know from the ladies as well as males regarding you organizing the social. Just as some advice, may be it's time you contact and see one of the well respected and reputable CERB ladies. Have her speak to your character, assuming she accepts and can/will vouch for you. Hearing from the gents is great but from a lady, I'm certain IMHO it will increase your credibility and that is certainly no way taking from the wonderful gents that you have met and have spoken to your character. Just my thoughts!! Big Hugs and Kisses, Lexy

I joined and love the group. The wild, freakier the better. Grateful for invitation!!

Thank you sweetie! I tried to give you rep. points for being so respectful and kind with your words but I've spread so much love around already!! Big Hugs and Kisses, Lexy

I do have to agree with Emma. I certainly am way more comfortable attending and I'm so excited and can't wait. Good times in Halifax!! Thank you wonderful gents for speaking up about your personal face-to-face meeting with taloon. All my Love, Lexy

I did read your apology and every hobbyist is entitled to their preference. I was a swimsuit model, gymnast and runner. I am certainly far from perfect and believe in showing the assets of my body that are sexy, yummy and well proportioned for my size. I see no reason in a full on tummy photo, when I show enough for my comfort level. We as the ladies who see the gents don't judge or turn someone away at the door because they don't look like a GQ model. We choose to see a gentleman because of the way they speak to us, treat us and sometimes their contributions and presence on the board. We ladies do have our preferences as well but as long as you are clean, respectful and kind, many of us would never turn someone way at the door if they were 500+lbs and not a GQ model. Like I said before when we accept to see someone "We choose to see a gentleman because of the way they speak to us, treat us and sometimes their contributions and presence on the board". A hobbyist may contact us but it is up to the lady to accept. All my Love, Lexy

Thank you beautiful!!:icon_wink: Big Hugs, Lexy Additional Comments: Thank you Sexy!!:icon_wink: Big Hugs, Lexy

I reached double Goddess (God) Status yesterday. I'm very proud of my accomplishment, contribution to the board and being part of this community!!:bigclap: Ya!! For Me!! All my love, Hugs and Kisses, Lexy

I certainly didn't mean you were being negative in anyway and based your post on facts. I know people read more in to the whole "PM me for info" and it does sound so negative. Most know your intentions were not to be mean spirited and I agree that you were not attacking the SP or even thought that. You simply stated how unprofessional the booking process was and like I said before and stand by what I said. The professionalism obviously sucks and surely not in a good way from your experience. Better for the gents to know the real scoop. Obviously this has been an issue with and discussed among other gents as well. On to the next babe. Lots of wonderful ladies for you to have fun with!! You just sometimes see the somewhat new or fairly new to CERB SP's getting a lot of flack but in this case, your words speak volumes but with time the SP will hopefully learn proper booking etiquette. I do hope the SP knows she can contact the ladies for advice and support. Big hugs and I apologize for any misunderstanding, Lexy

I know you are ticked and rightfully so. Positive/neutral comments sweetie, to the best of your/anyone's ability in this case. The professionalism obviously sucks and surely not in a good way from your experience. Better for the gents to know the real scoop. Big Hugs, Lexy

I and a number of members were/are just curious as to if and why taloon is the only organizer?

My question was very simple as many ladies and gents would like to know; What members are all organizing Halifax's 1st Ever Social?? To respond to your comment in a very neutral and positive way and IMHO; I love and welcome all touring ladies but what will happen when all the locals leave, tour more because of comments like this. Note the bold comment.. May be we need more traveling gentlemen to visit. We all love the travelers. I certainly do!! Suspensions and such have nothing to do with my original question regarding the organization of the social at hand.

Congrats Peachy! Welcome to the club of Goddesses:bigclap: