Lexy Grace

You're welcome. I got sucked in an it was such a disappointment.

I bought the Carmen Electra Pole. It's junk. Good for prancing around but no tricks. Professional pole it says. I couldn't take it back so in the garbage it went. A friend of mine found a store here in Halifax out the Spryfield way I think that's where it is. She bought a real professional pole and it ran her $400 and it's portable, no gimmick like the junk I bought. I use it every so often and it's amazing.

Congrats RG. I always love reading your posts and seeing certain things through your words!!

Very happy to hear this as it will create many different types of jobs. Just not trades.:bigclap:

I have to disagree, as I found out today you can get day time rates at one of Halifax's 4 star hotels for $50-$70, not sure about other provinces, I guess you'll have to call around and ask. So that surely does not double the cost by any means and pre-booking, planning and communicating prior always adds to the encounter.

You must do what is right for you Cristy and what you are comfortable with. I haven't found that I have been having any less business or lost any, possibly some that I am not aware of and if I am not aware of it than it's not a loss. I do more pre-bookings which gives time for me and my family and to do regular things, than be stuck on my laptop all day or have my phone in my hand at all times because I have a life to live as well. I found even when I had incall most of my business was for outcalls which are less headaches like you said and much easier to screen. I find the "friends" that I attract are more about a mutual than a one-sided encounter and like to host but I also bring certain things along as well to make the encounter more like a date. I read something about someone seeing 10 people in a day and not changing the sheets or having an unclean incall, if someone chooses to see that many people a day that's their business and I doubt they would not use clean sheets every time or would hope they would but like I said that's their own business. For me I will never see 10 people in a day, I don't want my kitty all beat up and at my incall I did change the sheets after every encounter and did laundry every night, my place was very clean. I'm a neat/clean freak and very hygienic and need to take a fresh bath before/after every encounter. In doing outcalls only I live my own personal life, see who I choose to see and not just anyone and everyone who calls, PM's or emails and I certainly don't jump at the snap of a finger for anyone, if some expects that it shows me that they have no respect for me and will and always politely decline, I have my way of how I conduct my business and this is my life and body. My hours available may seem long but that allows me hours between encounters and to live a regular life. How I do things works just fine for me.

I had 2 places, my family home and play home. On Thanksgiving I woke up to a flooded play home that is fully carpeted and they say it will take a month or so to fix. I had to remove everything to prevent further damage to my belongings. I'm not able to stay there and refuse to pay the amount of rent I was paying just to keep a place I am unable to use. This is why I brought the subject up again because I see many SP's moving to Dartmouth but I am still hesitant to set up a new play home there only because I don't know the good areas and the distance it is from my family home. Where are the good areas in Dartmouth? I'd rather stay in Halifax because that is where I have lived my entire life.

So here I am again at square one, Have Mercy!! I see many SP's moving to Dartmouth but I am still hesitant to set up a new play home there only because I don't know the good areas and the distance it is from my family home. My place DT Halifax was very discrete but not perfect, I made it my own and all about me and it showed the different sides of me. Where are the good areas in Dartmouth? I'd rather stay in Halifax because that is where I have lived my entire life. Big thanks in advance, Lexy

I prefer outcalls as I can verify that the person is who they say they are and I feel much safer, especially if I have never met this person. For the gentleman to host it's not that hard, the room has been cleaned for you, possible a bottle of wine (not too much trouble to chuck it in a bucket of ice), for music, there's the option of bringing your laptop and SP bring a USB drive with a playlist, radio, or music stations on the television. I usually bring the candles and possibly my favorite bottle of wine so it's a mutual effort and something we can do together prior to an encounter. Not everyone has the princess syndrome and needs to be in the best suite in the hotel. As long as the place is clean, comfy and your there. What more could a lady ask for? Incalls are 100% illegal across Canada. For me if I have never met the person I always assume they are LE and that can be very nerve wrecking prior to an encounter feeling so suspicious of someone and it doesn't matter where they located me or their reputation, some LE have desk jobs and that's all I will say about that but I think you can all read between the lines, no matter what screening process you have I'm sure the LE can get past it, sometimes safety can be an issue, when I was providing incall if someone wouldn't supply all the information required, I'd refuse. Just because your in your own space and know your surroundings doesn't make you any safer, I believe that would be called a false sense of security. In a hotel room you start screaming for your life, if you are in that situation that you are screaming for your life and I hope for all that never happens, someone is coming. Ladies don't worry about breaking your nails take some classes to be able to defend yourself against a person of any size.

I'd like some input on what you prefer hobbyist and Sp's please add your thoughts. The reason I am asking this is I see that in some other provinces the hobbyist prefer outcalls and some SP's only provide incall or the opposite. I just think back to years ago and times have changed but it was mainly the "gentleman/couple" who provided the accommodations and took the time to planning their erotic encounters. Please enlighten me on this change and what you prefer.

LMAO. I have a landline at my family home but it's mainly because it came with the bundle and I grew up with one so it's the norm for my family and for my personal life. I use a cell for my SP business and have a personal cell for friends and family. I have been told by hobbyist that they don't have a cell phone to call/text from for my apartment number and such, when I was providing incalls. There are many people that don't have cell phones but you can make other arrangements if you see fit and are comfortable doing so. Cristy is entitled to conduct her business whichever way she likes, you need to remember that you are being invited in to the SP's home/space and the lady if she has never met you and even if she has needs to take as many measures as they so please to ensure their safety comes first.

He owes you the normal rate plus transportation. I wouldn't book with him again unless he had what he owes you and the regular amount upfront. I as well as most ladies get the donation when they or I arrive. Then the business aspect is settled and the fun begins. IMHO

I had to move everything out today because my place was completely carpeted besides the kitchen and bathroom. Everything was basically off the floor besides a couple of things. More hassle with another insurance claim in less than 2 weeks apart. Have Mercy!!! I know I'm not going back, they said it will take over a month or so. The hunt is on!! I tried to stay away from places with the camera right in your face but I may have to suck it up. Most of them are not directed at the elevator which "my closed for fun place" did not have, so I see this as a blessing in disguise. I have to stay positive and not let this bring me down. Thank you all for your kind words and support. Love all around, Lexy

My pipes at my place burst for some unknown reason. I woke up to a flooded apartment and it has carpet. I had been thinking of moving but I guess this was a true sign that it is time, although I love my place. I can't entertain there until the carpet is either dried or ripped out and I have no idea how long that may take. I'm looking for something smaller than the 2 bedroom I have and I like being downtown Halifax but will at this point move from that area, any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.