Lexy Grace

It is sad to see this thread and voting going this way but we are all human with our own opinions and views. This award is suppose to be something positive and go to someone who deserves it and there are so many that do. This is not high school or a popularity contest. It's an award given to a Service Provider who does exactly what the statement below says. Best of luck to all that have been nominated!! Just my thoughts and views on this situation. This is not an award for best service (that is what the recommendations sections are for) this is a award to recognize the service providers who join in the conversations, help answer some questions and give you a little view into the other side of the business! Additional comments: My post was about how negative this thread has become and not about any single person, that just not my style and then to be singled out for what the award is about when I was not the only one to post it and my whole wording on it being sad to see how this thread and voting is going and my positive words were left out. That is fine because I'm a very positive and kind person and was not saying anything mean or wrong. It was an attempt to say stop the negativity and just get on with it. I still stand by my words that "This is not high school or a popularity contest", it's suppose to be a positive thing and award. So best of luck to all!! Positive and Big Hugs All Around, Lexy

May be it's time for her to see a physician, if she already hasn't. I know they are doing testing on women with Viagra but that can be a dangerous drug to some. There could be underlying issues that she may not have shared with you and a sex therapist can also be very helpful. If you only get that one special night make it romantic and memorable. Take her out, turn your bedroom in to a love making nest. Pull out all the tricks flowers, the whole lot. I would suggest on this special night that you leave and ring or knock on the door and have her welcome you in and take her out, come back to the love nest and pamper her, focus on her and what she likes and her needs. Make it all about her.

So basically if I'm getting this correct anyone or lady with Paid Advertiser under their name can't gain access to the SP Only Section because they are not an Independent Service Provider and either own or work for an agency or Spa right?? The SP Only Section is for Independent Service Providers Only. As most of us know some have tried to sneak in or gain access that are not Independent Service Providers and that is violating the rules. "SP ONLY AREA To gain access to the SP ONLY area you need one of the following... 1) Have someone who has access already and knows you personally VOUCH for you. Anyone with SERVICE PROVIDER written under their name has access but they need to have met you personally. 2) Another option is to have an ad on Escorts-Canada.com (A paid Profile ad with photos) and it must be online for at least 14 days with no complaints. If you have a past ad on escorts-canada that is no longer online we can still use that as a reference. You will need to open a support ticket on escorts-canada and ask for access to the SP ONLY area on cerb (Include your CERB alias with this ticket) http://escorts-canada.com/support 3) Substantial post history on cerb (That is not just ALL ads) with at least 50 or more posts over 4 or more months so you can establish a presence on cerb. By this time some members will post recommendations about you and have general discussions about you. Send the MOD a link to your recommendation thread and ask for SP ONLY access. We will review and consider your access. We do not allow agencies (or ladies who work for agencies) access to the SP ONLY area (The current providers have asked to have it this way). You can NOT share information or copy and post information from the SP ONLY area to other sites. If you disclose any information to anyone outside of the SP ONLY area you loose your membership on cerb (including access to this area). We consider this area highly confidential. By asking for access you are agreeing to these terms. If you vouch for someone and they do this within the first 60 days you both loose your account so be sure not to VOUCH for anyone you do not trust. Make sure you know them personally and know that they are not affiliated with an agency."

It's all about providing a great experience and encounter from beginning to the end. While you lay there and relax it allows us to get that and wipe your face for make-up, clean you up and then you can always proceed to the washroom to do your own cleaning procedure. It's great to know that those special touches that we provide are appreciated.

Congrats beautiful on now 1500 plus posts. I always love reading them and I like your style!! Big Hugs, Lexy

I am severely allergic and carry an Epi-Pen with me at all times. You made the right decision to call and go to the hospital. I wish you well and do keep us posted. Big Hugs, Lexy

Happy Birthday and enjoy your special day to the fullest!!

I just wanted to know what the ignore list was all about I've never had to use the option but wanted to know exactly what it did and if you could block someone from viewing or going to your profile. Making the profile private is not something I am concerned about or would consider. I am aware that everyone can see the ads (members and non-members)but only members can see the profiles. Seeing ads wasn't the question I was curious about, as I am aware of this. I just wanted to know if you could block someone from viewing your profile. Thanks a bunch for the input, Big Hugs, Lexy

That's good. Must of been stage fright. Sad to hear Cori was not there but I hope Storm and Pheonix were!!

Curious!! I know there is the Ignore List option but what does that really do? Are they blocked from viewing your profile or just sending you PM's?

I agree and feel the exact same way as Katherine. I love seeing who has visited my profile and I like to thank them for taking the time for doing so. My thank is in no way shape or form ever away of trying to gain business. I would never want anyone to think that me being polite is a form of soliciting. That's just not my style!! To me that is very unprofessional. IMO It's a friendly and polite thank you, that's just who I am and I can't change being a polite and kind person. The misuse is a shame but you don't have to accept the message and you can also delete it from you guestbook.

I love the fact that I have no one to answer to anymore. I can come and go as I please. Hang out with the girlfriends without scheduling having to worry about someones schedule and my own. Don't get me wrong being in a relationship can be nice, if it's the right one and person for you and they can except you for who you are and you can do the same.

IMO it is only polite to say hello and to thank any visitors and I always do when able to. To complain that someone said hello and thank you, no solicitation type posts whatsoever. Is just plain sad. IMO. You do have the option to delete and/or not approve the message. Everyone is entitled to complain, it's human nature. I do hope that a solution that would enable each person to turn on or off this feature will be an option soon.

Discuss, debate but keep it clean and positive. This is a feature that was well liked but an SP's reputation and safety is more important than all this bickering. No need for the cattiness or smart ass replies like I said here: http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=63905&page=2 Keep this discuss positive and about the pros and cons. No need to get all nasty when this was done to help another SP and not done to personally effect anyone but to help. It's not about you or anyone else, this is about protecting one of our fellow SP's. All this negativity is very unproductive, useless, harmful and hurtful!!! IMO Big Positive Hugs All Around, Lexy

Congrats Emily!! Awesome job beautiful. Keep em cumming:icon_wink:!! Big Hugs, Lexy

I can't believe I missed that post by the MOD. There's always gotta be one sick apple in the bunch to ruin things for everyone. I am very upset now and concerned for this lady. Whom ever you are my thoughts and prayers are with you, your safety comes first. Why are some people such nut jobs?? With concerns to our fellow SP. I have to agree that this was the right and quick move by the MOD and much respect is given to the MOD for doing this!! A solution that would enable each person to turn on or off this feature would be awesome!!

We all have our different views on this issue of losing such a wonderful function IMO. Let's keep this conversation clean, nice and positive. Let's learn and discuss why we like and miss it or not :icon_smile:!! Big Positive Hugs All Around, Lexy

As for the ladies safety, well now we don't know who is visiting our profile and checking up on us and that person could have been a bad date, stalker, time-waster, has multiple accounts or emails that they harass us from or someone who is unsafe or lied about being a CERB member because of these reasons. So now unless we have have seen this person we have to do so many more things like checking certain areas thoroughly. Much more extensive screening will take place. IMO it is a hassle and takes lots of time when you need to check certain places thoroughly.

I totally agree with you Angela about the soliciting part and seeming pushy and desperate but a simple hello and thank you for visiting should be fine and it's just a polite thing to do IMO. You can always delete it or in some cases the messages have to be approved by the person. I truly loved and missed this function and never use it to say "Come and see me soon". It's seems to me that this function is wanted back, it's a nice ice breaker to say hello. I too tried to give you rep points but couldn't so I nominated your post!!

Stealing someone's entire ad is just sad and very unprofessional IMO. How can you say or post that you are that exact person and not advertise who you really are. That would be like if I was to do that and put tiny busty DD redhead and didn't realize I forgot to change the hair colour and bust size, what would I say OOPS I stole this entire post and forgot to change somethings YUCK!! You have to be true to yourself and honest about you. As you are advertising yourself. I can see that some ads do have similar words and of course they would we do the same type of work. Get creative and think about what you want people to know about you as a provider. I have had this done to me on certain occasions or certain things taken and switched to look like it was their original idea but I just shake it off, I am usually very descriptive in who I am and if you can only copy and paste it's gonna take sometime to switch it all to suit the text thieves ads.

I hope it is just a malfunction. I love seeing who has visited me. I'm also having an issue when I hit Q-Reply it goes to Quote so I have to always use the "Reply to Thread". Unless I do want to quote and comment on a particular post.:confused0024:

Congratulations WIT! I always love reading your very informative posts.

Happy Birthday Beautiful!! Have an awesome one!! Big Birthday Hugs, Lexy

I truly appreciate your lovely comment but there are many amazing ladies on CERB and I don't believe anyone is any better than the other. You really can't say that I'm the best until you have met every single lady. Yes we did connect very well and had an amazing time and what you say is true, expect for being the best. If I am the best to you than great but there are some encounters that are just not meant to be, ours was. All of the ladies here are unique and special in their own way. Kisses, Lexy