Mutau

Personally the use of either term does not mean anything pejorative or demeaning. It simply denotes a woman of a certain age who is not afraid of her sexuality. ;-) I prefer to use the term cougar.

Dear Angela, Please enjoy your very special day. Although 50 sounds like such such a large number, it is always how you feel within yourself. I just know that you are feeling frisky and like a young 20-30 year old. Have fun Angela.

Love the new avatar OD!

Well now Old Dog, I certainly did not want to ruin your day, but our quite wonderful community is made up of much more than just hard "c"s. In fact I do believe that "c"s or "C"s come in all shapes, sizes and degrees of hardness or softness depending on gender and the moment. At times is it not the hardening of the "c" which causes great pleasure while at other times it is the softening of the "c" which leads to ecstacy. Perhaps it is the swinging of the pendulum, so to speak, and that movement from soft to hard and back again, and perhaps a repitition or more of this movement, which causes such happiness for amorous partners! ;-)

Not necessarily veteran canine. All that is soft does not necessarily become hard, nor the inverse. The intent I believe of our site, with a soft c, is to promote mutual and consensual interactions between individuals, be they of differing genders, or the same gender, or even transgendered. Now these interactions may start with a soft "c", leading to a hard "c" and then to a deflated "c", and this more than once, twice or even many times, depending on the partners, the environment and the mood! At other times, and this again depends on the partners, you may always have soft "C"'s which will remain so during the encounter and yet there are moments of tenderness and bliss. So in conclusion, the hardness or softness of the "c" does not reflect on the enjoyment of the partners! Ah, but then again, I may be proven wrong.

Hi Angela, I am currently out of the country. Does the change of area affect only Ottawa and the surrounding area? Do you have a date when it comes into effect?

Congratulations Amelia, See, all your hard work and efforts have paid off: you have reached the rungs of higher education. No matter what happens, you will always have your Masters degree. As Emma says, perhaps you need to move to the next level of academia! Bonne chance and have fun in the kitchen!

Hi Carrie, May your day be special! May you enjoy doing what you want and may those close to you spoil you! :D