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Fear is a powerful motivator; in fact for all animals, including humans, it is about the most powerful motivator.The reason for this is simple - the preservation of our lives. All animals try their best to avoid death. I suspect all healthy animals would do their best to avoid death rather than do their best to gain some pleasure(even the old, terminally ill person who chooses euthanasia is being motivated by fear - fear of pain, fear of being a burden on others etc) Indeed, our being motivated by fear is also what, to a large extent, makes us more emotional than rational. The caveman saw a lion and fear caused him to flee at once; he did not stand and ponder whether the lion was young or old, weak or strong, even hungry or had just consumed a zebra and so was full. Look where you will, fear is what dictates our actions more than anything else. The law, by threatening sanctions, strikes fear in us and so regulates our behaviour.

MP, you wrote : But I'm certain there are some people who would love to rob banks, but stop only because they don't think they can get away with it. So for them, the same choice is one of simple fear and obedience. How I laughed to tears at this! But seriously, it's very true and we would be surprised to learn the immense proportion of the general population who would do this. Cheers.

The law wins hands down; at least until the day when, as a certain ancient book proclaims : "laws will not be written on stones but in the hearts of people". The world is a very evil place.

@sexman101: you make me recollect the complaint of an escort in perhaps the most cosmopolitan city in the whole world - London, England. The escort was lamenting her slow business and complained that in London, if an escort does not have big boobs or big ass, men don't call her. Funny, for in Canada, some men would have us believe that big bums are an embarrassment for the ladies having them. But wait, not all of Canada for a look through -------- Toronto ( again, a cosmopolitan city, in fact the most cosmopolitan in Canada) shows ladies proudly proclaiming their substantial behinds. Why is there a demand for big butts in cosmopolitan cities? In any case, I wish you the best in your search. I wish I lived in Toronto so that I could have a perpetual feast! Regards.

Please convey my warmest greetings to Maria and tell her that on CERB, she will enjoy the company of people who are not only free thinkers but in the majority, are decent folk.

@Stevecurious: You wrote : "I remember meeting a lady a few years ago and the difference between how she presented herself in her pictures and her appearance when we met was...was... contradictory to say the least us" It must be borne in mind that it is possible for a lady's appearance to change drastically over a few months. I saw a lady (not on this board) early last year whom I picked for her substantial (ha,ha, ha) and round bum, a weakness with me. She came over six months later and everything about her had changed, from length of hair to size of her bum. Her bum had become flat. I joked that the new size of her bum is what white men like (ha, ha ,ha) but not me, a black man. I gave her the donation in full, apologised that I just did not have sexual desire for her and sent her on her way. Of course, this is not to deny that some SPs lie about their appearance. Regards.

Oh, only too real that an intense hatred for one's job can cause severe emotional damage which can translate into physical signs and symptoms. The physical dangers associated with escorting is an occupational hazard , just like how other jobs have theirs. I think escorts who hate their jobs do so more because of society's attitude than the physical dangers. The latter can be minimised through due diligence but the former is a tough nut to crack.

@MNO4,you wrote :"but some sps do this more because they have to and not really because its their first career choice". Please interview "civilians"and find out how many are in the jobs of their first choice. You just might be surprised. It is a mark of wisdom and maturity to realise that, as a certain "bad" boy sang "you can't always get what you want" and then proceed to find what you can actually do next and do it without resentment. So long as you are earning an honest living ( in the eyes of the law, and yes, escorting is a legitimate, honest job), there is no reason to feel less of a human being. Society is so full of hypocrisy. How many civilian women sleep with their bosses to gain promotions? We in Ontario were just witnesses to the ORNGE scandal. And who can forget Jeffrey Skilling of ENRON fame ( or rather INFAMY) who created a position paying 600,000 a year for his girlfriend, an amount 10 times what she was previously earning in the company? Man must survive and there is nothing wrong with surviving on honest employment.

Wynn : not to put you on the spot, but why should the qualities you mention be shown or be shown to an extraordinary extent on that one particular day out of the 365 possible? Please note that I am not dissing you in any way - society as a whole believes as you do in this regard - but it would be far better for society if the people constituting it showed these qualities everyday. Regards.

Mrrnice: you wrote:"In terms of ownership of the land if we go back far enough, to biblical times, the land was Jewish land. Recall Moses and the parting of the Red Sea as they were driven out" So are you implying that modern-day Israelis are the descendants of Moses? Puleeez!. Any proof?

Peace will never come to Palestine. The Israelis don't belong there - according to even some Israelis themselves. Check out the books "The Thirteenth Tribe", by Arthur Koestler and "The Invention of the Jewish Peoples" by Prof Shlomo Sands of Tel Aviv University. This said, the reality is that they are already there. So what for do? The Palestinians were gradually coming round to accepting this reality but the Israelis keep provoking them as for example by expanding settlements on Palestinian land, something even the US opposes. The Israelis too, with some justification, defend their action saying that they were victors in war and so the conquered land is theirs. Consider the fate of Jerusalem too. East Jerusalem,where the Palestinians dominate, is the location of most of the religious and political symbols( Herod's Palace and the Second Temple) of the biblical jews, the supposed ancestors of the modern day Israelis.The Israelis possess the western part, a "desolate" partof no ancient religious or political significance. No wonder they are pushing to take over the entire city and make it their capital. The Israelis are hungry for land. A poignant moment during the Camp David Meetings between then-Israeli PM Menachem Begin and then-Egyptian President Anwar Sadat, was when Sadat lifted a finger and pointed it at Begin, saying, "Mr. Prime Minister, you want land". It really is a hopeless case. Consider the Right of Return too. This is a provision made by various peace accords that would allow the Palestinians and their descendants who were driven from their homes during the 1948 and 1967 wars to return to their homes in Israel. The Israelis balk at this and understandably so as they would be overwhelmed in number. It is my belief that Israel should not have been founded at all- after all is there a national home for other scattered ethnic groups such as the Kurds? The Brits may have had good intentions but they themselves saw that they had made a mistake and so tried in the 1930s and 40s to stop "jewish" immigration to Palestine. They even considered carving out land in present day Kenya and Uganda to serve as a home for the "jews" instead of Palestine!

Phantom : do you know anything about Julie and the frenchman? Are you aware that they may have enjoyed each other's company to the extent of even taking certain liberties with each other? The last clause is pertinent because you make an issue of the fact that frenchman could not possibly have given Julie permission to "broadcast" his name for the whole world to see. Only Julie knows how she was with frenchman. I humbly submit that you follow your own edict to err on the side of caution for you simply do not know either of them. This being so, why wade into the matter at all? As we say back in my native land : cry your own cry. Cheers.

Maybe, just maybe that Sylvain does not mind being known as a hobbiest, like some of us.

Fortunateone : you wrote: "I do have a friend who will get up early or nap THRU THE DAY,...." Well, how many are like your friend? It is possible to find exceptions for just about anything but this does not detract from basing statistical outcomes on a representative sample of SPs and in the situation at hand, I am sure that most SPs will be like most "civilian" women in their sleep patterns.

Even in "civilian" life, I seldom read any piece opining on the best of anything - best universities in Canada, best Canadian province to live in, best country in the world etc etc. In fact when I first came across the original OP ( and before responses to it had become "animated") I did not continue reading the thread the moment I realized that it was dealing with best escorts. I went back to read the entire thread only after billybob's piece had resurrected it. Writers of such "best" pieces can be placed in one of two categories - an innocuous group ( out to provoke light-hearted discussion - as the original OP in this case) and a sinister group (who, at best may be self-serving and at worst, may be out to pursue an evil agenda). The reality is that people are so diverse in their circumstances that there can be no objective standard of "bestness" in anything. My guess is that the responses that were seen as "too serious" could have been precipitated by the writer of the OP or others implying that Cerbites not living in Winnipeg have no business commenting on a Winnipeg issue for I am sure that Cerbites are sophisticated enough to realize that there are very few objective truths in this world. Usually what passes for "truth" are just the views of someone or some group with power. Such ones use their power to persuade or force others to adopt their view as the truth.

@Snowman54: I'm a latin guy and you are totally right: we love a perfect rounded "big ass", and for sure most of latin guys don't care too much with big breasts :boobies:which is the most valuable here in the North. I am black and I concur with this sentiment. Cheers.

I have been and all of them take that as a compliment,I mean, telling them that they have big round asses. But perhaps it is the kind of women that is the issue here - my SOs have been black and latina exclusively. Of course these two "races" of women are naturally endowed and so see nothing hideous and unflattering about big, round behinds. I suspect this is just an urban myth for even white women who have it, flaunt it. At least one cerbite white lady has fearlessly proclaimed that her ass is so large that one could eat dinner off it. I guess it all boils down to what various cultures admire - how come we don't hear: honey, does my shirt make my tits huge? One must never assume that their world view is the only legitimate one. Regards.

"My point isn't what you like, its 99% of the women out there do not like being told they have a big ass" And, pray tell, how do you know this? Is it true simply because you assert it? What research did you do to arrive at the 99%?

"The most dreaded words ANY man can hear from his SO". (caps mine) Please speak for yourself. Any man? Well, I am a great connoisseur of large behinds.

"Ironically enough, it was via BP that I stumbled upon CERB. I randomly clicked on a BP ad which included "well-reviewed girl on CERB", I searched "CERB" thinking it was a hobby-related acronym, and here I am." How you've made me laugh this pleasant afternoon in my corner of Canada. Cheers.

How vague? Because she doesn't show her face?

I don't know why someone suggested that Katy's pictures do not look like her. This erroneous suggestion has the potential to turn clients away from her. If you are not sure of something about someone, please proceed with caution for you may harm that person with your pronouncements. The pictures she currently posts on BP and CERB are defintely of her.

"I guess I've gotten used to the status quo and don't cherish the though of giving up a lot of my independence." My feelings, exactly.