I have no problem with MOD attaining proof of age, in fact it is appreciated by me and i'm sure others, all i suggested is that they be given the chance to do so privately before the issue is aired. You will notice it is in the post after mine where MOD clarrifies that he has indeed contacted these women privately. I am not a mind reader and had no way of knowing this. Perhaps when reading messages you could pay attention to the order they are posted and it will all make more sense to you.