rob_otteast

Thanks. Seems like a good substitute for CL but not enough ads yet, since I gather it's new. It should probably also have categories for "Couples for M" or similar, that is, a more varied personals section. That's what seems to be missing now that CL is gone. I understand that the sites are careful about what they allow because of new american laws, but surely people can still post or respond to personal ads. I fail to see why that's any of the government's business.

It appears as though pros will find other outlets, but I find it irritating that the CL personal ads sections are gone entirely. There was obviously a market, so I'm sure that a replacement will eventually emerge, but it's so silly that the US guvmint would act in this way. I wonder what they think they're accomplishing.

Gone from site, so far as I can tell.

This whole getting together thing should be so much easier. What a pain. Thanks for point it out.

Probably not a one-size fits all. Kink leading to something more intimate between two people can be great, but once you become intimate, it must not be easy to maintain the domme/sub dynamic. If the guy's fetish is to be with someone that he cannot have, for whom he is a plaything, and that the aloofness is part of his fetish, then any "friendly" later intimacy between the two could destroy that illusion. The fetish need not be aggressive or nasty in any way, but it seems to me that the line between who is in charge and who is subservient needs to be kept. That's not to say that the relationship cannot change over time, but it must break the mind game a bit if the lady goes from friend to domme too quickly. I've seen the term "sensation play" used and I can see where if that is the play in question, then perhaps the lady is less a domme in charge and more of a participant in a game. They are different situations, are part of a continuun.

Anyone know what happened to her? Web site seems to be gone. Thnx.

People (guys) are probably more uptight than they need to be. Have you ever wondered why the "money shot" in hetero porn is for the guy to pull out and masturbate himself. Wouldn't it be more fun for him if the woman helped him finish? It's almost as if the audience (mainly male) wants to see the erection. Odd also that large dicks are popular in porn that is mainly targeted at male audiences. Why would that be? I think our culture gives us anxieties that are not very useful. As you get older, worrying about why things turn you on is less and less important. Old saying: if it feels good, do it. Who cares what others think?

+1 It's rare to find anyone advertising this.

A type of photo you don't see often. Business suit, no blouse, seated, crossed legs, no stockings, simple black pumps, taken at knee height as if the photographer is kneeling down when taking the picture. That's the view that makes a sub squirm.

Lady in a business suit with skirt above the knee, no underwear or stockings, simple black pumps, verbally and visually teasing me, but I am not allowed to touch her.

Is there a mf escort couple offering services in the Ottawa area (within 100 km)? The m can be bi-cur or not. Thanks, Rob

I have been thinking of finding a bi-cur escorting couple for a mfm session. It would a second time for me, an itch that needs scratching. I see no ads for such services. Please PM me. Thanks, Rob