OldBuck

God told me to nominate this post!

This is basic stuff! All you guys who question this research: don't you want to know what underlies our behaviour and emotional lives? Maybe you don't have weepy SOs in your lives. Wish I could say the same.

How did you manage? Lying only got me .273 years. When I lied about my age, knocking off 60 years, I am going to die 8.5 years sooner, although the extra 51.5 years and youth will be nice. Advancing my age 20 years gets another 12 years, but I don't feel so good about that, since I'll die sometime in the early new year. Really I do think that it is best for me to lie to myself, which is easy enough since I am more of a half-WIT than a WIT. Additional Comments: My post was meant to follow #10 by Wrinkled-In-Time. This reinforces my claim to being a bit slow or half-WITted.

I am surprised that you took the fotos you have used. They seemed professional. So my guess is that you may not be able to find a professional in Winnipeg who can do a lot better. That said, you may want some help from someone viewing and taking the images at the same time that you pose. It is a tribute to your social skills as well as your photographic ones that that you can envision the end product as its effects so well at a time when you cannot actually see it. Congratulations!

The nomination goes to Birdboy, my mistake - but I do very much welcome RavishingElizabeth reappearing on CERB. Welcome back!

It would be an honor to meet you should return.

It is good to hear from you, Al. Happy 25th!

What a mother! I nver heard on one like her. Thanks, boomer!

Too bad the road to Thunder Bay is so long!

About as funny as it could be. Thanks, Carrie.

I am not sure. She has been a quality provider. In the past, I think she occasionally does de-list on EC for a while.

My experience with Enigma was in a category of its own. She was able to demonstrate ways of enhancing sexual experience and show me how to connect and raise the level of energy between lovers and in myself. I understand she intends to quit being a service provider this December. She will then move on to teaching. I did want and need to do some learning and I am very, very grateful for what she was able to show me.

A very happy birthday to you, Soleil, on this sunny Day in Sunny Manitoba.

Wonderful story, Birdboy, perhaps the finest of your fine stories. I am glad to be reading you again. And thanks.

It will be worth your while to do a search on her name. I haven't seen here, but i have seen posts.

I had the extreme pleasure of visiting Enigma for two hours yesterday. I had hoped to gain more insight into my situation at home and to learn more effective ways to make love with my partner. Of course, I did mean to have a good time?. I was greeted at the door by a tall, strikingly beautiful and radiant woman. Almost immediately, I felt a trust with her. After some affectionate hugs and kisses, she was able to get from me what I was looking for and to understand how to help me along. It may help the reader to know that I am older than most of you, love my life very much, but sex between has gone from infrequent and problematic to worse. Part of it is from ED on my part. Also I hate having sex when my wife is just accommodating me. Working, if I may call it that, with Enigma more than met my goals, it met hers as well, which were to open me up to the energies so very important not only in sex, but in being more fully human. Our encounter was, for me, one of immense value. And I will always be grateful to Enigma for it. Her beauty flows out from here core. I had come with some skepticism and left with enthusiasm, instead. Thanks, Enigma, for a life-changing and life-affirming experience. Long may you prosper.

Hi, Al! Most shampoos contain a laurel sulfate compound. LS is strong enough to de-grease an automobile engine. Try Just soap for a bit and see if that helps.

A slight caution on a possible side effect or Aerius or other decongestants, especially for guys - decongestants like pseudephedrine (in Aerius) can interfere with erections. So for those of who have any problem in that department, use with caution. The old neo-synephrin and pseudoephedrin have been used to bring down unwanted erections back in the old pre-viagra days when relaxants were injected into the side of the penis for aid in E.D. In some cases the erection would get a life of its own. Not so good or safe, the near-permanent boner.

My post was sent to quickly and the Vit D bit should have said that it i sometimes used with auto-immune disorders.

Carrie. All I have not are a few thoughts. Since there is a an effect upon your work, it might be worth trying to see an allergist. To help reduce inflammation, your could try vitamin D, which might help, especially since you, like many ofus, have a history Also B6. Google inflammation for other ideas. It mat be worth considering Aerius, which is mostly decongestant, along with a weak antihistamine Your regular MD might come up with a a scrip for cortisone creme for temporary relief. It may help to go to as hotel for few days, or work out of town during the bad season, if you can identify it. Finally eyes can become infected, especially with rubbing. Good luck!

I've been wondering.... Thanks, Rick.

What a good head! What a good Heart! And thanks for the articles and reference. I also liked Dr.Peggy Kleinplatz's identification of 8 components that contribute to great sex: 1. Being present, focused and embodied 2. Connection, alignment, merger, being in sync 3. Deep sexual and erotic intimacy 4. Extraordinary communication, heightened empathy 5. Authenticity, being genuine, uninhibited, transparency . 7. Exploration, risk-taking, fun 8. Vulnerability and surrender Any comments?

Wonderful contribution!

This such a fine thread that I almost speechless. Soleil's story and her client's reply are a window into goodness in life. Who among us is not dis/abled for some human interactions? Tread gently