Isabella Gia (Banned)

I may not be right but I think is not easy to find an SP that does not offer any of the activities you want to avoid however,is your decision which activities you want to happen during your time with her as long as among her activities listed of course, meaning she won't mind you crossing off what you don't feel comfortable with. Remember most ladies (and I'm just saying most as can't guarantee all but I would say a very high percentage) of SP's do get tested very frequently as we cherish our health and are aware of the risks we are exposed to. Not saying people outside of this industry are less exposed but many are less aware of the importance of getting tested. I suggest you find a lady or/and contact one from the suggestions made here that according to your standards is closest to what you consider safe and explain what your expectations are. I am sure she will have no problem respecting them. Good luck! :) ps. In respond to the post above mine, I believe Belle Bordeaux has retired.

Agree he he ...

In those threads is a service provider they are looking for. This time the OP is looking for a massage provider which is why he even started the thread in a different section.

Ertw. I suggest you check out this thread ... http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=43237 I also think if you want a succesful encounter going through the announcement section and going through ads of ladies who offer this for you to get an idea of what they offer and their rates and then check the recommendations of those who picked your interest but more importantly communicate with them beforehand. I have never been in a menage a trois but if spending time with one individual when chemistry is not there is awkward I can only imagine with two he he. I am sure gents who have been part of threesomes will make suggestions, again my advice is to contact both ladies as like in everything YMMV. Good luck! Additional Comments: Oops RG already provided that link, sorry!

Has it? I was about to say the same thing only a little nicer ;) but he is looking for an MP not SP.

Nobody else? Really? Wow!!! Well Ardbeg, I guess that makes the gift your lady friend gave you more special and you a lucky guy. Since I have not met you I can't get you a real gift but I can give you this ... Enjoy! The good side is this cake won't make you gain any weight lol. Thank you for your posts, keep them coming :)

I am not afraid of planes but any time I feel nervous/anxious music and candy do it or me :) A movie or a book/magazine are also good ideas and if you think none of that would work I guess taking the advice of those who suggested sedatives is a good idea. Have a safe trip!

I also find the OP saying he is 'willing to try' an escort sort of derogatory but it would be interesting to have him explain this to us as it could have probably just been a bad choice of words, it has happened to me in more than one occasion. Stereotype as Samantha mentioned could also be the reason why he referred that way to the possibility of having an encounter with an escort and I can't speak for everyone but for myself and in my experience I did have a stereotype for both escorts and men who spent time with them and of course after I became one my perception of them changed and I learned that just as in almost everything there are different types. Also, a little information that most may not know is the OP is a new member and a young man (21) and IMO is very admirable that a person his age has the honesty and courage to speak up about that matter (herpes) as opposed to hiding it which he could have done so I suggest we try to help icebaytrinity to learn about this particular topic and try to give him advice on how to handle it as well as give him and us the chance to trough posts getting to know him . Welcome to cerb Icebay I invite you to take the time to read the threads in the forum for you to understand the real privilege spending time with an escort can be :)

I second Cleo. Mod's words were he was closing the thread to avoid more negativity in the board and I believe creating confrontation and tension is not the way to go so I will comment no futher and invite SP's to move on and put this whole thing in the past.

I may be wrong but I guess ladies who advertise a 24/7 availability mean it for pre.bookings. That is the only way I imagine this happening as the lady would be able to plan her day and be rested by the time of the date. I have had 3 very late dates but with gentlemen I have previously met as I felt a level of comfort and trust = safety to do so. For some the time for a date may make no difference but I believe late hours may more likely attract a potential dangerous visitor than during the day.

Only your ass WIT? I thought one of the points of this thread was making a point on a person being the complete package and not just a part of his/her body lol. Oh well, if that happens your ass will be missed :( OMG these medications are really making me more silly than ever :icon_neutral: sorry guys!

Scott let's not forget having actions done by ' consenting adults' does not mean that is the right thing to do. I as many of us here have witnessed things done by consenting adults that are brutal, not saying the threads in question are lol, just trying to make a point. Besides, this consenting adult action is done in a community not in private so the thread being done by adults does not mean others can't give their POV on them. Also, of course people choose what to read and not to read but IMO that view on things is one of the reasons for the world to be the way it is today because some people think if one does not like something he/she should just look the other way or walk away. as opposed of making an effort on getting to an agreement that will make both parties happy.

SA what I believe WIT meant when he said 'private' is that if a lady decides for her albums to be seen by members in her friend's list only she can change her settings for other members not to be able to see them. For what Megan just said yes, there have been. She claims to have asked not to include her pictures in any of these threads. @ Cleo ... I understand your point and I agree with you, is always flattering to have someone compliment one of your features but at least my personal feeling and I believe others here too about these threads is naming them 'the best' when they could be named differently, ie. some of the beautiful bums/breasts, etc. on cerb. Adding 'some' and taking 'best' off the title would make a difference I think. I know it has been said by others that 'beauty is in the eye of the beholder' and it is true but I still don't agree with the term 'the best' Also as Megan pointed out I find kind of shallow dividing a woman in different parts and focusing in that and the fact that there is no one single thread about 'nice personalities on cerb' confirms that IMO. I know pictures play a big part on the decision of you guys to meet a lady but I have read in several threads from many of you that is the attitude and personality that counts the most well, that is not exactly reflected in any of those threads, is it?

Gent11 I can't comment about your differences with Mod as I think none of that has been discussed publicly but I suggest you reconsider not only because you will be missed but because IMO this is one of the most respectful forums I have known of in this industry, in fact the only one I participate in. Differences of opinion is something we deal with everyday in our personal & professional lives but I think as long as handled with respect and maturity it can be bearable. I believe many here including myself at a point have disagreed with something mod does or says and again it can be said and even discussed with him as long as done with respect. In the end as I was actually recently discussing with someone he might be doing something right where this remains a positive community in many aspects. So G11 I invite you to put all in a balance and think if you can let those 'differences' go and in return be part of a community where you can discuss different topics, learn from them, contribute and of course do something you enjoy (meeting ladies) in a safe way. I hope you do stay but if you find at this moment cerb is not the place for you. I wish you all the best!!

groups, cerb member Masterowls recently made a post in the special needs cerbites group asking for support/advice in a particular topic, members of the group I invite you to check it out in case you have information useful to M.O. Thanks and yes, is good to have that tab. I think it will increase visits to groups. Thanks Meg for pointing it out :)

None of those actually I will not suggest a solution to this as like I stated in my post I am aware of as long as if done respectfully there is freedom of speech here. The ideal for me? As I also mentioned in my post is to leave those comments to the recomendations and pictures comments but by no means I'm saying those threads are right or wrong as those terms (with some exceptions of course) are relative too. I'm just saying how I feel about them. I don't entirely agree with this. I have no doubt that ladies mentioned in those threads are truly beautiful and my issue is not the threads existing but to have some classify certain characteristics from those women as the best. I agree and that's why tried to make clear (looks like I did not succeed) that I was not asking peoe who post there to stop but giving my POV. This is also something I mentioned in my first post,that 'the best' of whatever is very relative and I too mention that most of us ladies on cerb are confident enough to not let this bother us in a personal way so I think none of us is 'crying' because of those threads. Also, I don't think the message from guys who post in those threads is them wanting all ladies to look like the ones in the pics but I may be wrong.

Ok here I go. I know some will not agree with this but it has been in my mind for a while now and I just have to get it out! I know in cerb as long as nothing negative is said there is freedom of speech so by no means this is an attempt from me to stop this but just me showing another side of the coin, a woman's perspective and boy that can be complicated so get ready guys. For months I have been reading or sometimes just seeing in the main index all the 'best whatever' threads and I often think 'The best according to who?' obviously according to whoever posted it but my point is in order to know what or who the best is you would have to try them all right? In my dictionary the best is very relative as we all have different tastes which means definition of best varies from one person to another and what is best for me may very likely not be for someone else. I have a point I promise. I know us ladies on cerb are confident enough not to let this 'best' threads bother us as we are aware of the fact that each of us is a different individual with characteristics and skills that make us all unique but I still find naming someone the best kind of shallow. Yes, of course us ladies feel flattered with the compliments we receive but I think this can be left in the picture comments and recommendations area. I know this may and very likely will not change anything or stop you guys from posting on those threads but that's not my goal anyway but you understanding a litle more the way we or at least I feel. In the end as much as as I said these 'best' threads have been in my mind for a while it was actually a comment in a recommendation I read yesterday that made me write this and I know the guy who wrote it meant nothing else but complementing the lady he was talking about but I found it a little too extreme so I'll quote him ' she is the way all women should be' seriously?? I may be overreacting but find this comment kind of extreme. The fact that to him this lady is what he was looking for in an escort or/and a great experience for him does not mean us other women should be like her. Am I taking this too literally? Possibly but still needed to get it out. Thanks to those who read this!! xoxo

It probably has nothing to do with the type of outfit you were wearing or the way you fixed your hair. Some people are just distracted by nature. I have been told by 2 gentlemen I have met through cerb that they saw me at the mall or walking on the street and I don't recall having seeing them. I guess I'm the distracted type, I have to literally bump into someone to notice his/her presence even if is someone I know well.

I say yes. You never know who is around and if she has any company and suddenly shows up the 'how you 2 met?' is a frequent question in situations like that and that will be awkward and tough to answer not knowing a lot about your private lives. Also, this can lead to reveal the real name of the lady if is mentioned by whoever she's with. For what I read in a few threads, including one you just posted ;) many of us agree that the best is a friendly and discrete smile and a follow up message.

Vanessa this is for you ... :bigclap: It all resumes in a word that has been mentioned .. DISCRETION and as we read in Kyra's post is for both parts not only for the lady. This is actually a topic I discussed with the first few gentlemen I met since I was starting to learn about the industry and having seen ladies with face pictures made me think I was perhaps doing something wrong but still never even contemplated changing my mind. I then found there were a lot other ladies that do not have facial photos and understood there was no rule for that. My reasons? The first one on the list is because one day I plan to have a family and I would hate someone showing or telling my kid about those pictures. Also, my family does not know about me being an escort and good or bad I know it would hurt them, not something I would like to do. I also prefer to be on the safe side by not having any evidence that would cause trouble like what someone mentioned about being stopped at the boarder. And yeah Emma is right we just have Sara's recent and unfortunate experience as an example of the consequences of that and I'm not saying is wrong for her to have face pictures, she was not prepared for that indiscretion from the SP in question but handled it well because she knows it comes with the exposure part. In my opinion there's no right or wrong when it comes to this but there is a preference that fits in the lady's life style. And the pros and cons well they probably also vary from one lady to another based on what her priorities are.

Does anyone know how can one report a shout box post besides having to send Mod a PM?

I second this ... and baby food, the fruit kind I mean & organic of course :tongue: