Isabella Gia (Banned)

A guy doesn't have to be a member to be blacklisted here since some ladies advertise in other sites they are allowed to post guys emails or numbers in the bad date section. Vanessa there's not much I can say as everything this guy is has already been said but you obviously did the right thing by pretending not to see him and by as a consequence to his behaviour chosing not to see him again' date=' a lady like you does not need to deal with men like him.[/b']

Mistert!! But you are on your 514th post already! Good thing I enjoy reading them so THANK YOU for sharing advice, recipes, stories, jokes and for letting us get to know you through your posts :)

Done! he he. Kidding of course. I have never used the block option and I don't think I would. If I ever receive a negative or rude Pm I would just report it and move on. But that's just me I guess if some use it is because they obviously have no choice or simply choose not to hear from a particular person.

This is me ... 30000. http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=30000

It lifts my spirit to see that more people want to contribute every day to fight hunger :) NEW YORK -- The National Hockey League is partnering with Rock and Wrap It Up! to fight hunger across the United States and Canada. This season, all 30 of the League's Member Clubs have committed to work with RWU to pack up all prepared but unsold concession food on game nights for redistribution to local shelters and places of need. Several NHL Clubs have long-established working relationships with Rock and Wrap It Up! and have donated more than 170,000 meals since 2007. As of Opening Night of the 2010-11 season, all 30 are ensuring that their excess in-arena food doesn't go to waste and that fewer families in North America go to bed hungry, making the NHL the first sports league to have all of its Member Clubs participate in Rock and Wrap It Up! "I am extremely proud that every one of our 30 Clubs will help combat hunger this season by teaming up with Rock and Wrap It Up!," NHL Commissioner Gary Bettman said. "Our players and Clubs are dedicated to serving their local communities and it is our League-wide pledge to be responsible stewards of our planet. There is no better example of that commitment than our partnership with Rock and Wrap It Up!" Rock and Wrap it Up! was founded by Syd Mandelbaum, a forensic scientist by trade, who in 1991 coupled his love of music and passion for wiping out hunger by collecting and redistributing leftover food from rock concerts. RWU was launched nationwide in 1994 with the support of MTV. It has since broadened its scope to include collaboration with more than 150 bands, 200 schools and universities and more than 50 sports franchises to collect in excess of 100 million pounds of food that have fed more than 200 million people. "Rock and Wrap It Up! recognizes how vital and valuable our partnership with the National Hockey League is," Mandelbaum said. "Poverty in North America is at a dire and critical point. The National Hockey League and its franchises will help feed millions more who hunger while keeping thousands of tons of food out of landfill. Food recovery has become part of the culture of the National Hockey League." http://www.nhl.com/ice/news.htm?id=540306

I tried hotel as location for a short period of time and never had a discretion issue, of course as Pete said I made sure not to have a revolving door just like I do in my private location. But as everything it has the good and bad side. I found few reasons why hotels are not ideal for me but what really made me stop using them was the lack of hygiene and considering how much time I'd be spending there it was not something I could take. Is not the same using a hotel once in a while for vacation than being there constantly. Having a private location allows me to not worry about how clean things are and as others have mentioned, I too feel more comfortable in my own space.

Have a great day, many more years to come and don't forget to make a wish :)

Chavez I think you could have expressed your concern about nominations and reputation points without offending anyone. I actually have wondered myself how some posts that in my opinion are not contributing to the forum in a positive way at least have been nominated or received nomination posts but as far as I know there are no rules about it and there could be something behind that nomination/points given that is not of us other readers' knowledge. Now, as for your 'sucking-up' comment I don't see what kind of benefit a gentleman could get from nominating another gentleman. As I said there's a reason why he has decided to give a nomination that we obviously don't know and maybe not even the poster does but the rest of the community should respect that and keep our thoughts (especially if not positive ones), to ourselves. in the end it doesn't affect us in any way.

Not sure if Im allowed to post non-sex industry related articles here but this article really got my attention and thoght I'd share. http://www.dailynews.rs/extracted-a-mummified-fetus-who-spent-30-years-in-the-belly-of-a-haitian-woman/ If this is the wrong section I trust it will moved wherever it belongs.

I do not think is appropriate to ask a gentleman to write a recommendation after a visit. Yes, as the ladies who already responded said it of course feels nice to read that someone who visited you was satisfied with the encounter and appreciated the time with you enough to write about it but the decision should be 100% his. I have actually noticed how some of the ladies (and of course including myself) go wondering why a gentleman that has enjoyed his time with a lady and even becomes a regular guest does not write a reco on her and have done it for other ladies. It has crossed my mind that perhaps he was asked to do so? Which as I said not something I would do but respect it as long as it stops with the provider asking and not conditioning the gent or offering extras in return (Yes, I've heard it happens.) In my opinion recos are of course help for both parts, exposure for the ladies and guidance for the gents but is more the lady's personality and pictures that should help make the choice on who to meet as a lady that clicked with the person that wrote the recommendation may not be a match with the one reading.

Excellent additional comment RG. I when asked for a reference have received a message with the name of the lady for e to contact her which I consider not only as you said disrespectful to her but also awkward for both parts. So the ideal thing is for the gentleman to contact the lady whose name he will provide as a reference and ask her to vouch for him with the lady he plans to visit.

I've been reading this thread and as others already explained those who have reputation points have earned them through their posts which other members here agreed on enough to either nominate their post or give them reputation points, which as previously mentioned can be good or bad. This however in my opinion does not make a member trustworthy, as Roamingguy said trust is earned and at least in my case I do not label/consider a member here trustworthy based in their reputation points. Reputation is 'the general estimation in which a person is held by the public.' Trust on the other hand is 'a firm reliance on the integrity, ability, or character of a person.' I consider a member trustworthy or not based on how he carries himself in here, the kind of posts made by him, how he interacts with people and yes, the reputation influences in the opinion made on someone but is not the only factor. Bottom line of what I'm trying to express here is reputation points most times represent our agreement or disagreement with what one has said or that's the way I see it. If you guys don't agree then I guess I'll get a few bad rep points but that won't make me untrustworthy, will it? ;)

I understand what you are asking for and just as Peachka ponited out, I believe you are referring to lack of transportation but you also express discretion to be your major concern and Yes, I have no doubt you can find a very discreet lady here but again as Peachka said it takes one noisy neighbour, or the wrong person at the wrong place (yours) or even worse your wife having to go back home for some reason to this not ending the way you expect. I'm speculating here as you did not provide us with many details but is it worth the risk? Perhaps looking for a lady located close to your place and you taking a cab there could be an option?

Or let's just stop wondering if she was either of those dancer,MP or SP) and who murdered her. Is sad that her life was taken no matter who she was and who did it. Of course it would be shocking if she was part of this community but the fact that a young woman was killed and that us other women (not necessarily for working in this industry) have to be more careful are the same no matter what the details of this particular case are.

I agree with all of you regarding the information in the SP area being exclusive for the ladies that have access to it but I don't think the gentleman in the thread mentioned by the OP was asking for any information there. From my point of view he simply said he would be concerned that for not following up a date with a lady who did not use accurate pictures he could be considered a bad date and this would create bad reputation with other ladies.

I was just trying to say how grateful I am to have met real gentlemen. There's other ways us ladies can show appreciation to the wonderful guys here without having to make it of public awknowledge. I might have given the wrong idea or used the wrong words but never meant reco's of hobbyists are not allowed here. I apologize for the confusion caused and not explaining myself properly, probably should have used a different example. Also, I forgot to mention those gents I have not met but have got to know through chat, Pm's or groups :) Thanks for the nice messages, chats, etc.

Good question, I'd think the SP in question would have some honesty and awareness of her being responsible for the gentleman having decided not to stay but you are right there's a chance that she won't even consider the picture fraud wrong and actually label the guy as bad date.

My opinion on what you are asking is .. - If the person you decide to visit looks VERY different than her pictures and you were only attracted to the physical part then you can be upfront and tell her and that since she posted old pictures or photoshop them you don't feel comfortable staying. - About the smell in the place well, I suggest before booking a date you ask the lady if the location is smoke free. - As for your last question I don't see how you would not be attracted to the lady if the pictures she posts are real. If you mean the impression you get when you arrive well, is hard to say after 2 minutes that you are not attracted so I would say follow up with the date and if chemistry is not there, don't repeat. Hope this helps.

This morning I realized something I already knew but as many things in life, we appreciate them but tend to forget. I know it has been discussed here how us service or massage providers sometimes have to deal with certain difficult issues when having to meet a person we know very little about and get intimate with him : lack of respect or hygiene, overstaying, etc . But hey! What about the truly gentlemen we get to meet? Those who show up on time, follow our requests, in other words, treat us with respect. I as many ladies here don't ask/expect any gifts from my guests however they often surprise us with a bottle of wine, chocolates, gift certificates, etc . Which of course are very much appreciated. And what about when they go out of their way to do something nice for us? Yes, it happens. Just yesterday this great guy fixed my door lock for me (something I had a hard time with for months). If could I would write a recommendation on those gentlemen I probably would but since that is not possible here which makes complete sense since they would be receiving PM's like crazy lol. I really want to thank them, even the ones I have not had the pleasure to meet on behalf of all the other ladies here :) xx Isabella Gia

I am Can't wait to see those recipes :) This group was such a good idea. Thanks Mistert!

Noticed an apple/mac group sarcacsticsid created recently for those who use it or are interested in this topic.

Anytime, good thing I still have my connections there lol. And I'm sure the fact that you are now a Senior Member will make a difference if you ever end up there again ;)