Isabella Gia (Banned)

Ok I thought this thread was already a cold case lol, since it was re-opened I will start by posting once more what my original question was just as a reminder that I never asked opinions on what others think about ME particularly not sharing this, it was a general question. Angela yes, I by no means want or expect everyone to think like me or to tell me what I would like to hear, what I do expect though is whatever the response is to be done with respect as that is the way I have treated everyone here. I do not understand what you mean by 'exposing' myself as I don't think it was a secret for anyone that I was not born Canadian, as for arousing curiosity and being asked my nationality I never asked not to be questioned about it but explained not to expect me to respond as who I share my personal information with is at my discretion. I appreciate your comments and have no doubt of your good intentions.

Ok I know I'm late and I'm truly sorry but I just noticed there's two more members besides PP and Birdboy (They got their birthday thread) whose birthdays are today so ... HAPPY BIRTHDAY Namssa and Mr. Mech here's a cake for each of you and my best wishes! Sorry Namssa could not help it and ate some of yours :oops:

I remember having seen this thread when Superlift posted but did not have the time to reply and decided to wait thinking it would be in the main menu at least during that day but nobody responded so I forgot. Anyway, I know is late but I think Superlift's idea of the positive things bouquet is a great one so I will share the things I everyday give thanks for ... - Freedom - Health - My family & friends - For having a home and food - For having the opportunity to live in a safe country I'm sure I'm forgetting some but those are the most important ones to me. Anyone else?

Mod perhaps you could please announce this? I notice a couple of members had no idea about this change since it was only posted in this thread. Thanks!

I just heard of this otherwise I would have posted earlier. Seems like this young man is now an inspiration to start acting about this horrible discrimination and bullying. http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-504083_162-20020164-504083.html

Yes Jabba I do have a reason to keep(not obscure) my nationality from strangers and that is discretion. As some have said in here by no means I am obligated to share that with anyone. You are wrong here, and if you read my post in the first line I typed was this (Where are you from?) is a question I constantly get so if nobody cares why do I get asked? And from Annessa's post I see I'm not the only one. As for why am I concerned? I'm just curious on what leads the ones who ask to do so and how it influences in their decision to meet or not a lady. I do not think there's a 'background' with a prostitution phobia and that would be a cultural thing and a phobia is a mental thing. So my answer is no. Do you not tell others about you hobbying because you think they have a hobbyist-phobia? Don't think so! Again, if you read the entire thread you saw me saying who I share or not share this or any other thing depends of the level of comfort. and once again I tell you the reason why I started this thread was to know why is it you guys ask questions like this if as you said it they don't really care. So no, thank you for the advice but I have no issues about my culture ;)

Thank you Berlin, as I said it goes with the level of comfort, I have revealed a little too much in few occasions so I am not that good but rather decline politely or change subject than tell a lie. Not saying is wrong or right to do so (in this particular escort-hobbyist scenario) but I do not feel comfortable with it plus I think people that lie get all messed up with their own lies and others notice. I guess because most of us at some point misread others post and get the wrong message commenting in a different topic as a result. Then a sub-thread begins lol

Hahaha you really made me laugh and you know I needed that :) Chanel is so right. Anytime I'm asked if I offer services for an extra amount I remind the person what Chanel just said, the 'donation' is for my time, activities during the encounter are not negotiable and I also agree with her that finishing the appointment before the duration that was arranged is not right unless the gentleman decides to leave sooner. I have to admit I find strange having to advertise the msog but there must be a reason to it where we ladies have to mention it. I'll stop typing , confused now and do not want to make everyone else confused but if someone can explain why limiting the times a client can orgasm please do.

Came across this article http://lifestyle.ca.msn.com/health-fitness/health/rogers-article.aspx?cp-documentid=25872377 and finally got to understand why my health has improved since I joined cerb hehe take a look and be the judge of those 5 reasons ;)

Also, if you read Capitalman's post the word he used was 'anglo-saxon' which many here are not btw. But the point I'm trying to make is he never used the word 'non-white' to refer to me. And for the record white is a skin color not a race so yes, the term is used for that but is wrong. There are people from all over with white skin (including myself, a little tanned but my skin is white)who are not from what is considered a 'white race' and this does not make them/us 'non-white' same way there are people born in any of those countries that call their people 'white' for the only reason of being born there and have dark skin. I think if people want to refer to the race perhaps 'Caucasian' would be more accurate? However again, is just a skin color.

Thank you Pete this is the kind of answer I was hoping to get and is my idea of what a person is. My heart feels a lot happier now to see there is people who still value that. You just made my day :) Additional Comments: I never asked not to comment on capitalman's post I asked to please leave out the Isabella - Capitalman situation as nobody has the right to comment on something that happened between two people unless they both agree and opinion is asked. I do not agree. He decided to publish something that should only concern us two and even then he just directed the message to me yes, I find he should have done that in a PM but still he did not end the message asking others what they think.

A. How do you know this?? Same way you were not there to lecture me on how I should have responded to him. I will please ask you and anyone who will keep posting in this thread to leave the Capitalman - Isabella situation out. He brought it up but I do not agree and would prefer not to mention anything else about it. Again, I do not publish anything about my encounters unless is to warn other ladies and for that there is a special area.

As you said you were not present. I will keep the reasons why perhaps (from your perspective even not having been there) my answer to capitalman was not 'softer' because I consider inappropriate publishing details of my encounters, there is a reason why they are private. You are right there is enough of an issue and it has come up more than once mostly in chat (not during an encounter) and if I posted is because I care about what the gentlemen here think about that not because I feel I have done any wrong by not sharing. As for Johnsutter's comment he was just giving his opinion just as everyone else has. Exactly and everyone should respect that. Thank you Annessa for sharing this!! ps. Did you confront the guy about how did he know who Carrie was? hehe

And as I mentioned in my original post if I feel some level of comfort I will (and have) share it but this kind of information should not be a must. The ymmv applies for this too and if a client decides not to come back for me not sharing this. Well, there was a reason for me not to share anyway so I would probably not have him back even if he asked.

Well, I'll make it simple because there's not many people from my country here and for personal reasons I do not need/want everyone to know I'm an escort. However I had even given hints here of what my nationality is that's how proud I am I haven't been that good keeping the 'secret'. As for afraid of discrimination not really as to me people who discriminate are only ignorant I'm not interested to meet or be in touch with. All I'll say here is level of comfort is a key in order for me to share personal details which I have done with some people and not only my nationality but a lot more personal stuff.

For a while I've been wondering what the reason for some of the things I am asked by men here on cerb. I understand when a lady gets a hobbyist's attention knowing a few things about her are a must; starting by her description, services offered, rates, to some of you communication to get a vibe and see if there's chemistry there which at least in my particular case is encouraged but in my opinion wanting to know specific details on what I do when I don't take appointments, where I go to school and where I work (I do both) is unnecessary. Also, there's one particular question I get a lot that is kind of understandable but not entirely. As many of you know and others imagine I was not born Canadian and constantly I get asked what my nationality is which I have decided to keep semi-private and when I say semi is because I have shared this with some members that I consider trustworthy and discreet and in most cases I have previously met. So, my question for the gentlemen here is How important is the lady's nationality in order to decide if meeting her? I know some of you have preferences but aren't her physical characteristics enough or perhaps her background? (European, Latin, Asian) Also, let's not forget the discretion part goes both ways and if a lady (like in my case) is not mentioning her nationality in her ads and profile chances are she does not want to share that. Finally, I would like to clarify for everyone that I am very proud of my country and don't see why any person wouldn't be. If I bring this up is because believe it or not I have gotten a few 'Are you ashamed of it?' when I answer I choose not to say where I'm from. Anyway, I would like to hear your opinion very much. Thanks :)

Wait until you see this ... now Chanel has enough to share with us :)

Happy Birthday Chanel. Here's a little present for you ..

'Is not who you are underneath, is what you do that defines you' - Rachel (Katie Holmes), Batman Begins

Loralee!!! Is awesome that you post something like this reminding us to help others. I want to include here a list of the items that are most-needed - Canned fish, meats & stews - Peanut butter - Jam - Macaroni & Cheese - Tomato Sauce - Canned vegetables & fruit - Cereal (whole grain) - Cooking Oil - Dry pasta & sauce - Baby diapers - Baby Formula - Household products - Juice (boxes or cans) - Legumes (canned or dried) - Personal hygiene products - Rice - Nutritious snacks - Soup As many of you may already know Metro, Loblaws and Independent grocery stores have red bins collecting this items so cerb people let's all help ;)

Jazzitup, Even though I told you I will not attend I appreciate how you to organize this & put so much effort to it, you do a great job :)

Thank you Lowdark for the nice wishes.I waited until today to post since is officially thanksgiving, now I'm a little late but want to wish everyone here that all the things you are grateful for today stay with you for as long as you want/need them and that those things you feel you are missing come to you soon :). I also want to second Emily and invite you to send a happy thought to all those that are not as blessed as we are. Love, Isabella Gia

Good idea Loralee and T'storm so here I am just posting to keep it circulating, be safe everyone ;)

Hmmm I have to admit not having watched the video as for what I read I may not be strong enough to do so. However, having what T'storm posted as an example, many women can avoid ending there when noticing violent behavior in their then boyfriends before getting any further. Sadly, many choose to go for the 'he will change' and the way their story end is not any pretty. I was just having a conversation with someone yesterday about how one of my biggest fears based on seeing someone I loved going through that, is being the victim of violence. I really hope none of us here (it doesn't only happen to women) go through something like this but if we ever do let's learn from stories like the ones mentioned , see signs and stay away before is too late.

Agree. That is a very good idea FT. In fact, I was going to do that in one of the threads but thought perhaps it would look a little vain (and for the record it was none of the 'best parts of the body' threads) but there is nothing wrong with we -people in general- appreciating and being proud of as FT called them our assets. So I think this idea would work for everyone as only the ladies comfortable and willing to be mentioned and have their pictures posted will be on the thread and the gentlemen who agree can comment. I am sure no lady will get no comments as I have mentioned all ladies here have at least someone who considers her the best so I say let's do it :)