Isabella Gia (Banned)

I may be wrong but I think Lindsay's account is no longer active.

Aha!! you sneaky Spike ;) I'm glad to see you back it was a very pleasant surprise to read your message. THANKS!!! xo

Wow! I am very amazed to see the response and support big thank you to the ones who took the time to reply in here or via PM it really helped a lot and is appreciated. The minute I clicked 'post thread' first thing that crossed my mind was ... 'and why did I post this? No-one will care' I am so glad to see I was wrong and to see i did the right thing by sharing. Flyer you are so right. That is what I have been doing since I started the change and yes, it has worked :) Liquor thanks for the advice. BTW I did that (and that is why I was going crazy by not being able to reach my mom). My grandma was the priority if I brought this up it was not because keeping my dignity was my main concern but because wanted to share how I felt to probably/hopefully stop some of you from making the same mistake. Piper this is very true. Although I will demand my mom's respect (for the record I'm talking about this particular situation as she has always shown respect for me) I can't act same way I would do with someone not as important as she is to me. Thank you for making me realize this :) As an update, grandma is doing better and I'm very confident that she will make it :) I am truly grateful to the ones that showed interest in her condition. Kisses, Isabella Gia

Good afternoon all, Is not very often that I share a personal experience in here, at least not in a thread I guess that is in an effort to keep my secret identity :cool: however something is really bothering me today and want to share it with you partly looking for advice and another part giving an example of how we can regret some of the choices we make and try to avoid them. I'm sure many of you have heard many times how going to extremes is not good. Well, I'm trying to fight that bad habit. In my case, for a long time I have been struggling with being too forgiving. I know being resentful is not good but I have had people do some very bad things to me and I forgive pretty easily even without being asked. So lately I have been working in finding the balance between being forgiving but with dignity. Well, it turns out I had a disagreement with my mother because of some personal stuff that for a while has been in the middle of our relationship. Anyway, yesterday that came up and after hanging up all upset I wrote her an email explaining how I felt and asked her to respond it before calling me, this in order for her to realize she did wrong and hurt me instead of as usual pretending nothing happened. I did not receive the email but did get a phone call last night which I chose not to answer since i was in a bad mood and did not want to get into another argument, BAD CHOICE! This morning I got some bad news, my grandma is very sick in the hospital which means my mom was calling me to tell me that and I'm pretty sure to tell me how she felt. Needless to say I feel horrible now as I have not been able to reach her. I guess the moral here and what I would like to suggest to all who may eventually be in a similar situation .. 'pick up the phone as we never know what is really going on and may regret not having done it' Now the question for you is how can I find that in-between not being resentful but at the same time getting respect from others? There's also another side of this story I want to share with you but I already made this thread too long so I will leave that for another time. Thank you to all the ones who actually read it all. xoxo

Before I give my opinion on what the thread is about I would suggest the ones to differ with Amanda's or anyone else's point of view to start a new thread on that topic, i.e. 'Are SP's with no father presence in their lives as happy and confident as SP's that have/had a father in their childhood?' Then everyone including Amanda can comment on that and this perhaps will avoid the original topic of a thread fading. Anyway for what I understood Peachy meant expenses that are work-related (investment) If I am correct then I guess some of the ones in this list do not apply IMO Agree :)So yes, I think is always good to put effort/money to the business based on your personality and also possibilities. A lady with expenses like a family, school tuition, books, etc or responsibilities like those may not be able to invest same as a single lady that perhaps is done school or does not study currently and has no family. However, as some have mentioned that's why there's services/articles for different budgets and in the end IMO is always good attitude that counts the most. I in particular take care of myself/looks, eat healthy (which do not consider 100% an expense for this since I have to eat anyway ;)) try to have little treats for the gents that visit me and something that I think has not been mentioned is the cost for hotel room. Probably I'm the one out of topic now as Peachy was talking about expenses for personal maintenance?? Hmmm ... See guys? Changing topics confuses ppl, better stop typing :oops:

And no Johnsutter no donuts ... waffle!!!

GQstyle ... is this what you meant to say when you posted this? It would probably be good if you could elaborate your comment a little more to avoid any confusion? I don't know how the ladies here who are dancers feel about this, it would be interesting to read their point of view. SA perhaps this is because for some reason they chose to be dancers and not escorts? It will of course be an easier task with an escort as she is advertising for that. Superlift I do not think them 'being in the business' is why they should not be offended but more like the way the client interested approaches them. Also ... as you mention here I think for both parts the ideal would be if you want something more than activities allowed in a strip-club and do not want to offend anyone, either book some time with the dancer if she is also an SP (following the procedure suggested in her ads) or go visit an escort.

Thank you Steve for starting the thread and a big thanks to the ones that posted, I'm having a great day and there's more fun waiting for me :)

Yes, that is very unconsidered of them. This is the first thing I ask for after greeting them and I have gotten the 'I washed them before coming here'. Yes, but after that you touched door knob, car keys, car handle, the door to get in my location which many other have touched too, etc. A lot of people do not realize how important washing their hands is :( In another topic, mine are real pet peeves lol .... - When people take their dogs out for a 'walk' and do not scoop/clean after them. Again, people do not quite realize the consequences of this. - People who take their dogs for walks/runs to or near parks and ignore the 'dogs on leash' signs. To all of them their dogs are very friendly harmless creatures but they don't understand they act out of instinct.

So while I was taking a nice walk I once more found myself reflecting over something in particular. In this occasion it was about how we people constantly make ourselves too busy for doing something we actually enjoy or for sharing a moment with the important people in our lives. And decided to start this thread with the only purpose of inviting all the ones who read it to use you time wisely and share it with your beloved ones. Life goes by super fast and we can avoid regretting leaving some important things for 'tomorrow'. Here's a link with some steps to follow for time management http://ezinearticles.com/?Time-Management...7-Tips-to-Use-Your-Time-Wisely-and-Effectively-at-Home-and-at-Work&id=3450850 it may help some of us but I think the key is to really be willing to stop being unavailable for the ones we care about and for ourselves and remember ... " Time is like a handful of sand, the tighter you grasp it, the faster it runs through your fingers."

Lately food network. I love cooking shows. Also, history channel but soon ... desperate housewives. I just added the pic as a little treat for the guys here ;)

I second you Angela, very touching story and is great of her to share it with us. You are definitely a strong & brave woman Cat and I also send many blessings to you and your family :)

I am member in three of the groups here and I can say only contribute in one but often visit/read posts in the other two. However, there is a reason why I'm a member in each of them ... 1. Spiritual aspect to this business .- I do believe and try to make a connection and communicate with the person interested in meeting me to have more chances that the encounter will be successful and what he is expecting. 2. Paying homage to the all mighty spinner .- I was kindly invited by a member and think it helps hobbyists interested in this type of ladies to find what they are loking for. 3. Special needs cerbites .- I started it after reading a post from one of our members with the only purpose to offer advice, support and exchange ideas as well as stories with this wonderful people.

"Worrying does not empty tomorrow of its trouble, it empties today of its strength." - Corrie Ten Boom

Damn, there were only 2 and then I decided to edit my post not thinking you would get me on that one , I'm bad at math but not that bad lol.

Same here. but I know I would not like it. Also, papaya, mushrooms, shrimp and most of sea food.

Believe me, I've seen worse lol. In my case that come to my mind probably not in that order well number 1 yes ... 1. be clean 2. well dressed 3. respectful 4. fun to be around 5. caring I could keep going but then will sound too picky so will stop there. Perhaps more ladies would reply if this was in the general area?

"Sometimes on the way to a dream you get lost and find a better one" - unknown

that's 2 words now jazzitup u know that the fact that you posted twice doesn't change that right? jk hehe. Actually I'll also cheat and post the 2 words that came to my mind, sorry everyone :oops: fair & emotional/sentimental

Well, thank you all for the input and experiences shared. As I commented in the original post and the ladies here have confirmed my perception is/was that this is based on several factors like hygiene, attitude, chemistry, mood, etc. and IMO all those are acceptable however, lately I have been hearing one that I find should not be considered YYMV but unprofessionalism and that is appearance. Why would this matter? It really upsets me that someone after advertising a list of services offered once seeing the client will suddenly come up with 'I'm not into it today', and change her services saying touching/kissing is not allowed. Then why not mentioning it before? :-x There, I said it, did not want to be that specific but looks like I had no choice.

Most of us know YYMV stands for Your Mileage May Vary but for what I have noticed we all have a different idea of what it means. So question for ladies would be what are the things you put under consideration to apply this term? And for the gents , has your experience with this been very different from one lady to another? What I mean is when seeing a lady, have you noticed many things done different from what she originally offered? I have the idea that most of us (escorts) base this in hygiene and attitude but lately I have heard a couple of situations where something else may have made the lady apply this so I'm curious to know what it means to you. Thank you in advance to the ones that will share :)

You are so right Annessa. Any time I have a fight with someone I care about if haven't heard from the person when my day ends, I call/text and let them know I'm not happy but I still love them. True and what I'm about to write may be a little out of topic (I apologize) but because life is too short, do yourself a favor and everyday take some quality time for yourself and do something you enjoy. I used to wake up early enough every day to have time to do things and not rush since who knew if that was my last morning ever, starting tomorrow I will do it again :D so I guess no more late nights on cerb for me lol

Thank you Ryo83 for replying to my silly question lol. I don't know what happened but looks like my account is back to normal now :-D

So, I am trying to read a thread and in the index says it has 7 posts (one made by me so I know it should be there) but I can only see four of those. This is the link http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=34295 Can anyone else see them? Also, I tried searching it from my profile going to the posts made by Isabella option and it keeps telling me I have to wait 9 seconds. Is it just me???

Ok if I got this right shortdude is saying he has difficulty breaking the ice when calling a lady and finding the right approach when asking questions. Well, yes as Ryo83 commented reading a website is important in order to decide if you are ok with things mentioned there (rates, do's & don'ts, etc.) the call is step 2. Now, if the lady you are interested in seeing has no website and does not mention rates anywhere in her ads then IMO you can still call just to let her know you would like to meet her and would appreciate her sending an email/PM with the information you need to know before booking and what you need to bring to the appointment as well as if she has any requirements like reference, your contact info or anything like that. I personally have been asked on the phone for my rates and simply respond I do not discuss that on the phone but they can be found on my website but there is no reason to be rude to a potential client especially if he is being respectful to the lady. Like they say ... 'the secret to success is to treat customers as if your world revolves around them.'