Isabella Gia (Banned)

SA I knew this thread would get different reactions. Now, I do agree with ladies deserving recognition and that is why I said the ones who decide to join cerb are welcome here, I never suggested not wanting them here. But my perception is if someone is not interested in joining the community it means she is not interested in any of those benefits. As for the ladies from cerb who advertise there, I don't even mentioned that in my original post as my observation/advice was not don't use Cl it was don't bring anything related to it in here and as far as I know ladies who post there only bring it up when it comes to safety issues to prevent others and do it in the SP section. As for a policy of inclusion well, I would not even consider me expressing my thoughts a policy but again, I mentioned ladies are always welcome to join cerb. To me, that is inclusion.

I don't think Mod would post a warning but I have seen ladies posting for someone with no access to the SP only area.

I have been giving some thought to posting or not this thread so before I start, please keep in mind this is my opinion only, I'm not trying to tell anyone what to do. With that said, I'll get started. Is at least twice every day that I read threads from guys asking about someone's ad from CL. Personally, I find this very disrespectful to all members of this community, starting with Mod who puts a lot of effort to keep this site safe like for it to become an advertising tool of other sites. Also, to us ladies who care about keeping a reputation and being truthful in our ads and last but not least, to the hobbyists here that do not use that site. So, my point here is everyone is free to meet ladies from wherever they choose but I think unless the site is affiliated with cerb then no posts about it should be posted in here. I suggest out of respect for all members here we leave everything related to that site in there, where it belongs including questions, recommendations and especially the drama. I have noticed a few ladies that only advertised there and by a guy's suggestion decided to join cerb and they are very welcome here but guys until they do it would be best to keep any comments away from cerb. As I said at the start of the thread, is just what I think I apologize if someone think this is inappropriate just had to get it out :)

And that's exactly why I said 'my opinion is' I was not expecting everyone to agree with me. I still think listing characteristics like tattoos, piercings, etc would be a little too much.

I don't have any but my opinion is that a man who is interested in seeing a particular lady and can't really stand them would ask her if she has any but don't consider it information one needs to to include in an ad.

When I read it first I thought ... 'does he mean bff?' but was too shy to ask as was not sure what the answer would be lol

Thank you for sharing such an important thing with us Carlos. Coincidentally I just got back from bringing mom to the airport and let me tell you I can guarantee your daughter will be missing you lots too but remember geographical distance does not separate people who care about each other :)

Mr. Green I'm sorry about your loss but what an emotive and great way to give tribute to a friend.

Well I think the lady you sent the PM to misread it as you asking the hourly rate makes very clear you were not looking for a rendezvous.

SA I'm not going to say is every day that I get a request to 'be friends' in here but in the almost 5 months I've been on cerb I have gotten four (that come to my mind) invitations to coffees, lunches, etc ... followed by a 'I just want us to be friends'. As I recently commented I don't mind having conversations on chat or PM with members who may not book with me but I can feel really enjoy chatting with me but are not trying to take advantage of me in any way. Hopefully this doesn't sound rude but and I'm not here to make friends, , not that way and if I say not that way is because I am lucky to have found some friends in here (ladies and gents) but under different circumstances than what guy's like the one Tulsa got the email from. My point is it is possible to develop a friendship here with someone that made the effort to book an appointment with the lady and they happened to get along but not with a guy that only wants to rip you off making you think he wants to be friends.

West Congrats!!! However I don't agree with you on the you being a lurker as you always post really trying to contribute so, cheers to you and your 69 post. xoxo

Sarah I totally know what you are talking about and my mom suffers of the same and just like yours is a strong woman with a great spirit :)

It looks like all the opinions/suggestions on cupcakes have been said so my contribution to this thread will only be in addition to what Diva said, having the pleasure to know Lowdark I confirm he is a true gentleman with a huge heart always trying to help others, so Lowdark, as a thank you to your great idea here's a smile for you :)

I am not sure how to explain the way I feel about this thread as I respect everyone's point of view but I can't understand how someone would respond to a potential client in such a rude way. I mentioned in another thread once we (SP's) owe potential clients the same respect any other service provider owes to people interested in their service/product only that normally they are not as lucky as we are to get to decide if we want to see the person interested or not which is not how it usually works in any other business and when it does, one of the first things someone dealing with clients is taught is to always be respectful so yes, there is nothing wrong with choosing not to see a client but that can be done without being harsh or impolite. As for the chat/pm exchanging well, I was surprised to find that most ladies do not want to chat 'just for conversation' I mean, I understand there is some members there who definitely do not know how to approach a lady but I have had the pleasure of being in very nice conversations with a few of the gentlemen there some of them I know I'll never meet as they are not in Ottawa but I still enjoy our chats and learn from them. Anyway, I'm glad things were clarified between MH and the girl and I guess a piece of advice or lesson for all of us is not to answer PM or email if we are in a bad mood :)

Yeah well I never said I'm refusing to make/answer a phone call. I said I feel more comfortable with PM being the first way to make contact and only give my number to those who really have intentions to meet me.

I don't include my number in my ads or website for the only reason that I can't answer phone calls all the time and for what I have read giving specific times would not work as apparently not everyone follow those requests. I have no problem providing my number once contacted by PM and having schedule a time to call , part of the reason is to keep my number a little 'private'. So I have a question for the gentlemen here, does it bother you having to send a PM or email instead of making a call? I have thought on giving the number and ask to leave a message but not sure if this would work. So getting input on this would be really helpful. Thanks ;) IG

That's what I do, being away from home FB is a great way to communicate with friends/family and even know how they do but I do not allow friends of friends to see my profile. I think there's even a setting to not allow anyone find you by name so only ppl you invite can befriend you or see your profile.

I used to be the kind of person that would always be in a rush (still a little). However I've learned to change that bad habit. Being a night owl I would always prefer a little more sleep and then get ready super fast, eat a quick & poor breakfast (in a good day) and run to school/work. Now I wake up early enough to be able to do everything taking my time as I never know when will be my last day so I try enjoy every single thing I do in case.Also, I try to tell/show everyday to the people I care the most how much they mean to me. Finally, I'm grateful for everything I have which is a lot :-D

I have never been with an agency but IMO a lady working for one chose this profession same way an 'indy' did just may have different views on the advantages of being with an agency and that may suit her needs. As others here have mentioned, the key for the SP to enjoy the appointment is you being respectful and communication prior the encounter and a little research (posts, recommendations) may make a difference as you can sense the vibe of who you'll meet.

Agree with PP Almost Famous soundtrack is one of my favorites. Also liked the Moulin Rouge one.

I agree, I would PM later explaining I was not being rude but found inappropriate to say hello.

Well apparently this topic makes many curious as it has been brought up on a thread more than once http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=25532 I agree with Megan on the no contact in public rule as even if at the moment when I see the person he may appear to be alone but then someone may join him and even when is not impossible for us to have met under different circumstances and tell this to his companion it will still be awkward, so even when some people has nothing to worry about you never know if the other person does. Bottom line I would never approach a client in public just to be safe and out of respect to him and the person with him (if that's the case)

Well, since you say you don't want a hit and miss I would suggest you see someone you can communicate with before to see if you think you'd get along. I would say Megan'sTouch http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=28987 is someone that may suit what you are looking for as even when I haven't met her, I've kind of learned a bit about her through her posts which are respectful and helpful to many of us. Good luck in your search !

I hope you realize not only an escort can give you an std I know this thread refers to the sp/client case but you made it sound as the risk of contracting a disease from unprotected sex is only if with an escort and is the same risk from a woman you meet up randomly and decide to get intimate with, in the end they are both strangers who you know nothing about.

Definitely the ones that show respect for me in one or many ways. I get the feeling from the way I get approached on email or PM to how they act around me. Being on time, showing up clean, being polite does it for me. Also if a special connection develops, those are the things I appreciate the most :smile: