Isabella Gia (Banned)

Absolutely agree, I actually just posted in another thread how important respect is starting with self-respect. I think it says a lot from a person. As Angela pointed even a thank you is hard to get. I guess the thing is appreciation for others and what they do for us is almost gone which is sad, since sometimes it takes an unfortunate event for us to realize how important this is this. A big THANK YOU to 777flyer for reminding us :)

I think there is no obligation for the client to write a reco. As the ones who provide the service we choose how much effort we put, however, just like in any other business the more effort you put the more costumers return and not only that but tell others to go to you . Also keep in mind not everyone feels comfortable writing them as consider the moment with any woman sp or not private and for that reason find disrespectful to share details about it. One other thing is from my perspective not all the men decide who to see based on recommendations as from what I have read in other threads and think that way myself, what/who someone likes a lot is not someone else's style so don't let the not getting recent recommendations bother you, guys will notice you and see who you are based on pictures, posts, etc. :) Joeblow ... I have regulars who have never written a reco on me something like what 777flyer mentioned, I not only respect their reasons but enjoy seeing them every time and try to give the best of me. I'd never ask for one, consider it tacky and for what I read from cheektocheek's opinion guys don't like when they are asked. I however understand where you are coming from as I need to feel motivated/appreciated to give more at whatever it is I'm doing. So, my advice to you is if you don't feel that way with some (hopefully very few) of the men you have met then don't see them anymore and you will feel much better. If you just are annoyed then as Annessa suggested maybe is best for you take a little break or go back home and work from there if you feel the problem is only in Ottawa. Also the word you use to refer to yourself is not respectful, in order for others to respect us we have to respect ourselves first, just my opinion, no intention to offend anyone. best of luck to you :) Oh and sorry for not quoting, no clue how to do it :oops:

that's good to know but unfortunately, it wasn't that clear to everyone here.

Hi, Just to make it clear to those who have asked for the pictures, the pics are only available for the kind members who make a contribution for the cause mentioned above. If it wasn't that way they'd probably be on my profile or website. I apologize for the misunderstanding, Isabella

Ok for the ones that asked and want to help again, there's more pics ready so contact me and thanks!!!

please don't forget to give your cerb handle when you email me

aww guys, you are awesome not the pictures. well, I know I've said it but the only word that comes to my mind is a very sincere THANK YOU!!!

guys please help!! any dime counts

Just to thank VERY much to the nice members who bought my pics or made an appointment to help raise funds for my friend. You have no idea what your help means to me for the cause and because I confirmed there's great people in this community. My pics are stll available if anyone is interested, pm me or email me for info [email protected] and email money transfer is completely safe and anonymous http://www.interac.ca/consumers/productsandservices_ol_emt.php have a great week!!

for those who have asked about how the email transfer works here's the info and a demo http://www.interac.ca/consumers/productsandservices_ol_emt.php , is very safe and as it says there you don't have to share any personal info.

Hello I know is hockey game this afternoon and many of you will be busy but I have some nice & naughty pics available for you . Only the lucky & nice guys who have helped me donating $ to help my sick friend have seen them so, please help and you'll get a nice reward ;) send a pm or email me [email protected] for more info or if you want to verify this is real. for those who have asked about how the email transfer works here's the info and a demo http://www.interac.ca/consumers/prod...ces_ol_emt.php , is very safe and as it says there you don't have to share any personal info. hope to hear from many of you

Well, I've replied to the other thread and I'll do it again, this is like any other business where you owe any client or potential client whatever reputation you have. Success in as I said any business is not only about the service provided but the attention you give your clients. How many of us switch companies because after we sign a contract they forget about us? or even worse before us deciding to get the service from them they are already ignoring us, is same here, attitude says a lot of a person. As for not having time to reply? doubt it, internet access could be but if a provider know this is her case she should post another way to contact her. That's my thoughts, I may not be right.

thank you to the ppl that have emailed or pm'd , some have been asking how email transfer works, this link may be helpful to give you a better idea of how it works. http://www.cibc.com/ca/student-life/products/email-money-transfer.html

Hello As some of you know already, I'm trying to get help from the gentlemen in this community for a special friend of mine who is going through a difficult time. So I'd like to trade a few very sexy pics of myself for your donation. You can check my profile http://cerb.ca/vbulletin/member.php?u=30000 or visit http://isabellaw25.webs.com/ to see pics of myself and get an idea of what you'd get, (only with a lot less clothes than that). I'm also open to cam shows. Please pm me for more info or email me at [email protected] Hope to hear from you & thanks in advance ;)

Thanks to the members that have sent emails or pm's, hope I get some more! sincerely, Isabella

Good morning all I haven't been a part of cerb for long. However,I've had the chance to express a few times how pleased I am to have joined this community. From the member who kindly informed me about its existence and provided me with very useful tips & advice (if you are reading this you know who you are) to the many great members(hobbysts & sp's) I've had the chance to meet, some in person, chat, pm's or by reading their very interesting posts. Last night as I was thinking how to help a friend of mine who needs financial help for some healthy issues, it occurred to me to bring this here, I have to admit I hesitated because of a thread I read on how some of you have fell for a fake story and feel that have been scammed by a sp. But I came up with an idea ... To those who are willing to help, I'll be offering also, a few very sexy pics (not published anywhere) I can send those as appreciation to the nice gentlemen here willing to donate for this cause & yes, is me in the pictures, I don't mind having our dear expert cowboy verifying this. So please send a pm or email [email protected] if interested. Thanks in advance!!! xo Isabella

Exactly Scott, I'm sure many members here will agree with you. I was actually talking to a friend about cerb the other day and told her is great to have a site like this where members (most) in one way or another (sharing bad experiences, posting information we probably had no idea of, giving advice, etc.) care about each other and protecting other members. Also, having people in charge of it, in this case mod that really care about trying their best to keep this a safe community makes a big difference. In other words, I'm so happy to have found cerb. Let's all do our best to keep it safe which I'm sure is everyone's priority here :)

Use or wear, the word used is not a big deal, I think you get the point of my comment.

Ok Here I am replying to this after hesitating thinking 'who am I to say this?' Well, if you people think my comment is out context I will gladly remove it. Yes, I totally agree with the fact of this person offering and not caring about having unprotected sex is absolutely wrong and sad but then ... don't we (most cerb members) do the same? :confused: Yes, I know you'll jump and say wtf with her but even though most of us here (I'd like to believe all) only have INTERCOURSE with condom just think of how many of us (I think all) have unprotected oral sex. Then, aren't we in the same position than this person who posted that ad?? Being so simple to use protection for oral we choose not to because 'it feels' nicer, what about our health then? In my personal situation I advertise as offering cbj only but who am I fooling when I receive unprotected oral, since I started in this business I think about it and I've come to the conclusion that many hobbiest here have chosen not to see me because I don't offer bbbj. Now, imagine if to that I choose to ask my clients to wear a dental dam, I'm sure no man would agree to that even when the benefit is for both parts. If I wouldn't/haven't even suggested it is A. because of what I've already mentioned (refusal) B. I have to admit I am very confident that most people here care about their health, get tested regularly, etc . So that's my point let's care MORE about our health and be better informed, unprotected intercourse is not the only way to get an std. Happy v.day all!!! I.

I don't only absolutely agree with you but think the exact same way. Is like any other business no matter how pointless a question a client asks seem you always have to answer with a smile on your face or that's how it should be. So here' is only through pm's or emails but we MUST reply to every single message we get as an appreciation to that someone showing interest & taking the time to send a pm plus it takes a minute or less to reply. The only times I haven't done it is when I see it but can't reply right away and end up forgetting :oops: my apologies if you are reading this and that has been the case.

I actually got a couple of pm's like the ones you mention & even though it was late, I replied apologizing for not reading them sooner and I know is not like I HAVE to read my pm's on time but the apology was like the polite way to say I need more notice. My point here, even if the pm didn't get to the sp on time if as you said it was a respectful pm then she should take the time to get back to the person.

It looks like our cerb gentlemen reading this are finally learning what some of us sometimes go through. I totally agree with everything that has been mentioned here, especially by Emily and some of the points Cindy mentioned, hygiene EVERYWHERE is a priority both ways and having it will make the experience a lot more pleasant, no matter how good & respectful the sp is, is not easy to ignore these things. To me the biggest turn off is no respect and bad smell, so gross!!