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Totally agree with you Delilah, have seen it more times that I'd like and just recently read an example of what you are saying :( http://www.danoah.com/2010/09/you-just-broke-your-child.html

People who refuse to use a laundry basket to carry things on from the dryer and instead intend (failing many times) to carry the whole pile of clothes only using their hands. Oh wait, that's me who always do that and end up having to rewash something because it falls from the pile. So I have to stop being stubborn and use the basket :)

I think each person knows if they are being judgmental or just not comfortable with the situation for many reasons like the ones Nat mentioned above, although I don't know her, she has actually shown not to judge others, I, like her wouldn't feel comfortable for pretty much the same reasons so we can't/shouldn't assume why people do or don't do certain things and try to know their point of view on certain topics.

Only the OP inquired in the Escort & FS Providers section so he may be expecting services that an MA in Spa doesn't or is not supposed to offer. Just to clarify as he may misunderstand and think he can get full service.

While I'm aware we are paid to do our job, one of the greatest things of this profession is to be able to work within our comfort levels so yes, we do get paid to do 'this' but each of us has do's & don'ts and is valid that for some visiting a gentleman at the place he shares with his SO a don't same way for some fetishes or other things are in their dont's list.

It is your right to decide to see or not a lady based on that however it doesn't necessarily mean she is judgmental but something (whether is this or a different situation) is against her values/morals and as such doesn't feel comfortable doing that particular thing but that doesn't mean she is judging you, also giving one's opinion on something does not mean judging the situation or labeling it as wrong or right, is only sharing views and/or thoughts about it. I think in this situation as long as the lady is acknowledged beforehand that is the home the client shares with his SO then she can decide to accept or decline the invitation and even if she explains her reasons, as I said there's no reason to think she is being judgmental, only not comfortable doing so ... Of course this is my opinion only.

I will give my opinion on this topic. I am one of the ladies who prefer not use explicit language in my advertising and in my posts because is not in my personality so I would be using what some like to read to attract readers and/or potential guests who would come see someone I'm not however I have always respected ladies who have a different approach than mine. There has been in the past one or two ads that I thought were a bit too explicit, or what you call vulgar and I admit to have made in my mind an idea of what the posters were like and with time through posts they started making that weren't ads, I realized that wording in ads didn't define the person they are, and definitely does not make them unclassy, there's also ladies who never use explicit language in their ads and even use the word classy in them and in my opinion (based on things I saw) they are not. Class is not in what you wear or the words one use in an ad or post but in how you (the real you) carry yourself so I don't think an ad defines if a lady is or isn't classy. As for the way some men refer to ladies here, I agree with you than some should be more respectful but is the same as with ladies, I have had a not so great almost encounter with a member here who in many of his threads comment how he is a gentleman and with me he didn't act like one which is why I think that words are just that and don't make us who we are. There was also a time with one of the most respected members here (don't think he is active anymore) was in the general chat room giving very intimate details of his time with a lady and using language that I wouldn't like to be used when talking about me so I asked to please stop referring to her like that and to take his conversation to a private chat, he told me that this is an adult forum and that I needed to grow up so I guess what I'm trying to say is that is not about the words used but the respect or lack of it behind them. Hope I am making sense :)

Just heard this one earlier and I felt like I had just heard the secret for happiness and I think I kind of did ... 'Be the best person you can be.' I think by doing so you can have a peaceful life knowing that yes, not everything you do is right, that you may hurt someone or make mistakes that resulted in something bad happening but not having done it intentionally makes all the difference :) If only all of us would follow that advice and those of us who do would stop blaming ourselves or stressing out for things we couldn't control, at least not entirely the world would definitely be a much happier place .. Let's try!! Additional Comments: PS. I think we have to start by being the best person we can be with ourselves in order for us to be like that with others :)

This is a very sad topic. I've heard so many stories about children being abused and it really breaks my heart and upsets me. I was very blessed to never had suffered from any kind of abuse and not only that, I grew up surrounded by loving people but not having experienced it does not mean that I do not know how it can ruin a kid's life. I really wish I could do more to fight child abuse and I also wish it wouldn't exist, but it does and maybe one day I will be able to contribute against it for now all I can do is ask all of you reading this who have kids, to love them, be kind to them and also to always trust them more than you would trust anyone else and have great communication with them, many kids abused by people who aren't their parents never say anything because the parents do not hear them for the little things and do not have communication with them always being busy so make time to talk to your kids, show them that you believe what they tell you and keep in mind that if turns out to not be true it doesn't mean the kid lied, they have a different perspective than us, in other words, always take your kid's side, it can make a huge difference.

Congrats Mr. Lucky :)

Feeling great today after a yucky Tuesday of headaches :)

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