Chanel Reign

Yay sweetie!!!!

You are who you are. Married or not, drama follows those who invite it. If you have regular ladies who love seeing you, then you are the ideal Client. :) Silly man! ;) Additional Comments: This has happened to me twice in 2+ years, where a single younger Client has "fallen" for me. Situation corrected. Judging by what you are saying I do believe there are a few out there that do believe this. I frequently direct them to dating sites or Fetlife if they continually sext me or want to date.

I keep coming back to something Cowboy Kenny said about "Don't sell me, tell me..." This is probably the most simple and best bottom line. However for some of us it's hard to do that. I hate writing ads, I never know what to say....better yet, HOW to say it. I think this comes from too many years of writing dry historical articles and papers, and composing long complicated contracts. Not exactly teaching fodder for this business. :) I have had a few Clients tell me that they never would have put my personality to my posts though (not ads). These were meant as compliments, but it does point out that our personalities don't always come through. How do I tell you that I am funny and will try to make you laugh, a well rounded person with opinions about current events. How do I say that a romp in the hay with me can be either fun and light or passionate and down and dirty. And for the love of all the gods...how does one warn that you are a squirter, involuntary or otherwise? There are folks out there that don't like it. Its got to the point I inform new Clients now. Do I put a big red warning box in my ad? While some of you may be able to just rip one of these off the cuff and its perfect (SaraMq), some of us have a really hard time "telling you". :( Maybe I should take a creative writing course? lol

I remember being around 9 and squeezing my legs together in a certain way would bring a weird feeling. Took a few years for me know what it was.

Good thread! And a very subjective one. Gentlemen, if I may make a suggestion; take note here what the Ladies say. This is what is important for us, so we know whats important to you. :) This is my perspective: Seeing naked bodies in an intimate environment is different that just being around naked people at camps and events or photoshoots. One is sexual and one is not. Somewhere along the way I think my lines got blurred (in a good way), and so I do not see parts but the whole. An example: David Lee Roth. OMG sexy in the day and I bought into it. Until he opened his mouth. Crass, no class, and in my opinion, stupid as a bag of nails. Completely lost it for him right there and still find him revolting. So since 99.9% of us are "normal" by our own cultural dictates; I have to look further than a body to prefer a Client. Lady or Gent, you must be squeaky clean. Respectful, but also understand that I am also part of the 99.9 that you walk beside everyday. I am much more than you see, and live on the same planet you do. Therefore, friendly; and it will be reciprocated. In other words some should lose the "whore and slut" attitude, because what does that make you? With women I am totally enamoured of boobies!!!! And nipples!!! Oh my! I do admit to loving mens butts however. And believe me, cute bottoms come in all shapes and sizes! Age again is a no go with me. I know too many people that defy their chronological age....unfortunately both ways! lol But in this biz, I draw the line at around 25 or so. I have a Gent who is 81 and a snowbird. He WALKS to my location for our playdate. There is nothing gross or disgusting about this man. He is eloquent and open, and I look forward to our summer sessions together. There are so many versions of "married" out there these days, I rarely ask or look. Sometimes it is shared, and if I see the Gent regularly and we have such a rapport; I will sometimes quietly ask why they see me. The answers are usually the same variation. For the younger men, I tend to mostly get single ones.

But they are most welcome during intimacy. And don't even get me started about what Baileys and Hot Chocolate will turn me in to! :censored: edit: oh I just remembered I have body chocolate in the fridge! wheeeeeeee

Try looking at it from the other side of the fence for a moment. As an SP: If this is ones chosen profession, you should be educated and aware of the risks before engaging your first Client. You should know what you feel is safe, what your willing to do and not. And communicate that clearly on your web site. And then you protect and take care of that asset. You cant pull another you out of the drawer or off the rack. It is my opinion that SP's as a whole are much more educated and practice much safer sex than the general population. As for confidence...we're just folks, be yourself. :)

While I most certainly enjoy and prefer manscaping and ladyscaping, it is not a mood killer at all. Myself, I have been mostly shaven since the mid 80's as it is much more convenient. Oh and Lee, it's ok to be afraid. lol

You are absolutely right Carrie. You can offer it, but in some cases it is at the discretion of the SP...and of course the Hobbiest.

Flame me if you may, but isn't this thread the type of negativity we are trying to NOT exhibit? Hijack over. Peace out.

Wonderful Sara!! :D

May I suggest Padmapper http://www.padmapper.com/ And use the preferences. I believe there is one for sublet.

So if I am able, I was semi planning an eastern tour for a few weeks in the Fall. Should I put Halifax on my agenda? I was there a long time ago, and remember it was very beautiful and unique for a Canadian city.

Umm no. Its your pectorals behind your breasts. Think A5-35 guy. Women can develop their pecs as easy as men. Its all a matter of isolating the muscles. Like belly rolls in belly dancing. Or kegels.

Carrie Moon: Mine are as big as my head.. but not bigger! I have a big head :) Yes they are, but you are proportioned perfectly for their size. Have you taught them to bounce yet? :)

Well, did you think I was going to talk about knick knacks? ;)

How did I miss this thread? Laundry. UGH More than I can say. But there is a way to adapt. Firstly, my mattress has one of those high end mattress covers that they now call bed bug inhibitors (man there was a marketing coup!). I have my sheets and a comforter, but I dont use my comforter because I know better. What I did was convert 2 duvet covers, into, well, covers. There's nothing in them (I do occasionally slip a couple of baby changing pads in it for longer sessions, but they absorb wonderfully if a towel or body is not handy. So a playdate will make the Gents towels and facecloth, mine, and the cover into the machine. And any towels that may have been grabbed. Thats it. One is in the laundry and one is always fresh. As for squirting or gushing, both depend on position and intensity of orgasm imo. Marathon ejaculation will actually dehydrate me, and I suspect anyone else who squirts. Which is why there is always a beverage for us nearby when we play. And yes, Nicki is such a sweet squirter! :icon_wink:

This is how I approached becoming an SP. I thought about who I am and what I can bring to a Client besides the obvious. I took the easy route and decided that I would just be me. I am a social butterfly, I love people and I have a nurture aspect to my personality. I am the same person a Gent sees, as everybody else in my life does. I am not Chanel and xxxxxxx, I am one and the same. These things have brought a "type" of Client that is indeed who I treasure, and who have, in a lot of cases become regular playmates I so enjoy seeing. I do get playdates that are completely out of my demographic and those are usually the 30's crowd that is curious about older women, more comfortable trying new activities with her, whatever the reason... I also get first timers...and this is where my skills at making people feel comfortable really work. You can almost see the awkwardness and nervousness shrug off; and when that happens it makes me very happy and that I have been a good Ambassador for the sex industry.

Just read a friends blog... http://karasutra.blog.com/2012/03/22/crystal-delights-frosted-plug/ Oooooo

After reading this thread I must say it is making me rethink. The majority of photos I take, I do myself. It is difficult for me to set up a shoot for me with a friend for a myriad of reasons. So what you see is what you get. I also don't want a the professional cost, as much as I would like to. I have fun taking my pics (and others). The planning, the ever loving freakin' timer, is something peeking out that shouldn't, is that the dog licking his winky in the background? Do I crop? You bet! Do I airbrush? Not at all. Do I like to decorate or tweak some of my shots? Yes! It's fun and I enjoy playing with graphics and images, my web page here and my web site. Do I represent myself accurately? I thought so. Now I'm not so sure. ____________________ Spelling and clarity are 2 of my buttons. Especially spelling. Grammar, not so much. But looking at it from the other side of the fence; if I read an ad that was full of misspellings and touting how they are "the best" or some such, I would take a pass. Obviously no thought was put into the ad and comes off crass and scripted. This, of course, does NOT apply to folks whose first language is not English. AAMOF I give kudos to those that have a difficult time accurately communicating in another language. From experience, that is very difficult. I am not perfect, I make tons of spelling errors myself. But I correct them; if I didn't it would bug me.

To put it bluntly, if there was no CERB I would not be an SP. On FaceBook yesterday I saw a "funny" that had a scraggly street walker standing by a post. The caption was, "If you have to ask, you can't afford it". I just shook my head, as there was that stereotype yet again. Here on CERB I know I am not alone. I know I am reasonably safe by my own practices and this site. And I definitively know I am not/and never was, that woman in the picture. Because we are small in population and a gov't town, that puts Ottawa in a unique niche. One we should be thankful for. Other cities have their unique qualities/problems as well. We may fight like cats and dogs sometimes, but when push comes to shove, we tend to come together when we need to. If that's not extended family, I don't know what is.

Thank you for the overwhelming response. I will reply to the PMs a little later. ;) Thank you again! Chanel

Im not too sure if I can post this here. Im hoping so. Do you like yard work? You know Spring Cleanup in the sun? Due to my complete lack of interest and my room-mates pending hand surgery, I need a Gent who could do this for me. Please pm or email me. Thank you Chanel

Spiciest wishes on your special day!

Plain and simple, I don't do chat...anywhere. It really doesn't interest me. I have been in there a sum total of maybe 3 times. Not much was going on and I left. Things come and go in waves. It'll pick up again...soon. Spring fever does that! :milleunenuit: