Chanel Reign

Call me! :)

Water Bottles http://www.plasticsinfo.org/beveragebottles/apc_faqs.html Coffee Mugs Wash them between uses. You really dont want to know whats on your office desk and coffee mug.

"The best way to wake up in the morning; either with a warm'n'fuzzy, or a hard and smooth!" Ok you made be blush and shed a tear or two. I am so sorry I have been away from my favourite site for so long. WHAT was I thinking! Thank you all. I know Im late, but now that you just made what would otherwise be a gray dull day FABULOUS I am smiling! Thank you C

Over the years I have had much experience with polyamoury. Both personal and with the people I surround myself with as friends. I have seen people struggle with the "am I.....poly or mono". I truly believe that some people are hardwired to be one way or the other. I have watched relationships crumble because of indecision, and I have seen beautiful relationships grow and produce very happy and whole children. I know a man that is so eager to be part of mainstream culture, that he falls in love, marries them; and then can't keep it in his pants. He has been doing this his whole life and I have had many discussions regarding his poly leanings. He knows people that lead this life in a positive way; but refuses to let go of the thought that love and sex go together, and yet leads a second life. He knows what he's doing, but wants to me mainstream so badly and yet fails constantly. He is never at peace with himself because of this imo. The instinct of procreation for survival of species has evolved out of us by culture and time to become a choice. Being poly still bucks the mainstream culture, but is being more and more accepted; as the definition of "family" is also in transition. I this evolution? Devolution? I think it's just that more and more people are attaching less importance to the sex/love thing because of the negative issues it "can" bring into a mono relationship. As I've always said, sex is an activity and love is an emotion and should never be exclusively inclusive. We have set our culture up to frequently fail at monogamy with fallout touching everyone; but I have an anthropological feeling that as an evolving entity eventually it will work itself out. Humans always do, one way or another.

Thank you for the support. Its about all Im getting these days...and NOT from the medical system. :(

Well Im swearing a whole lot more! lol Thanks

Ok I don't bitch much, don't vent much and don't want to start a thread on this. Lets just bury it here because I need some hugs. You may have noticed (or not) at the last CERB Social that I was wearing flat shoes (not really my style), and standing rather stiffly (unless being checked if I was actually commando that night). It was because I was in extreme pain. Yes the Baileys helped but I did have a tobacco hangover the next morning. ewww Anyway, in September I was diagnosed with Osteosclerosis in my lower back. I guess I have fallen out of too many trees and had one too many miscued hugs (please don't hug the Photographer). Because I am allergic to most painkillers and until they fix the problem, there are only 2 activities I can do in comfort. I am still able to walk 2km a day (cant do 5 unless a good day) and....playtime!!!! whew Otherwise right now, its "Suck it up Buttercup", for everything else. Unfortunately Buttercup is running out of patience.

Another Social!! SQUEEEEE

I cant believe it's taken me THIS much time to respond. THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU. Sistahs you rock! I had a great time, couldn't stop talking, laughing or smiling. I got hugs and squeezes, which I love. Flirted a lil, drank a lil, won a prize...and then crashed and burned. I think I was so excited that day to be around some good friends and meeting new ones that I was already sleepy. I felt very over?under? dressed however...and short. LMAO Didn't matter. Oh and Sara, your hands did make a surprise appearance under my sweater at one point. Ange and Nikki...you're the best. Thank you again.

Duo's is a misnomer imo. There are 3 people (or sometimes more) involved, the chemistry is there and all should be pleased and please. I do not understand the mindset of "dont touch me". Why would I get naked and all worked up to have only one partner with a third doing something else? That means there is half the fun gone. :) From this SP's standpoint, if you truly enjoy this activity, you have to be open minded and, bottom line; bisexual, or poly.

You are awesome WTG Angela. I knew I went to the Harvard of SP Finishing School but this...I bow at your feet and worship you!

Who cares! Kilts are awesome!

Ok now I'm wondering what to wear and if MY date is committed! :icon_wink:

Most SP's will not allow double dipping of hands (fingers) or genitals. If Im enjoying you in my kitty you will put a different condom on for backdoor activity and vice versa. Hygiene is VERY important. And you are most certainly not being irritating by asking. :icon_smile:

Nope true. I was cutting a tree down and my harness broke and my gaffs gave way. Castle: False

I agree. It has to be with the right person and know the rules.

Want a Monday morning feel good?

It is true. Additional Comments: False? I once fell 40' out of a tree I was cutting down.

Nathalie: I will say true. I was once a negotiator for Governments!

Thank you so much WiT. Much appreciated. And I agree wholeheartedly.

How strange. Hugs to you Malika. I had a friend pass 2 days ago from the same thing. I found out via email. His mem page is already up at FB. To All The Weekend Warriors: Your body is not meant to be a couch potato Mon-Fri, and a jock Sat and Sun.

I missed this option a while ago. I was hoping it was a malfunction. Have we figured out what happened?

I am so looking forward to going! See some old friends, meet some knew ones. Its been a while since I've been out.

I agree. While Carrie and I know each other, we didn't that way. I do believe there was underlying chemistry simmering anyway. She was always on my "wish list" on my site (with her permission and all the other Ladies there) as she is so sexy. We also had several discussions beforehand as well. Berlin is an exception whereby I tingled immediately upon meeting her; and I have only met her briefly. Reading her posts and kenning to her mindset has only increased that. I don't think I would be comfortable just jumping into bed with a woman I didn't know at least a little, with the purpose of pleasing a client. It's not a 3sum, its a duo and I'm sure I speak for most SP's when I say we would like to know how to please both. :)

Why thank you. Given our interaction so far, I am looking forward to meeting you some day.