Chanel Reign

D/s sessions rock. Having a sub playpartner in ones life is always a good thing! :whipping:

Hmmmm. One thing that is glaringly missing here, unless I missed it; is that we are doubly at risk. You are coming into an SP's home. You know the location, or you wouldn't be there. Whats to say YOU don't do a reverse lookup with the address? You then also have the SP's land line number and their real name if the account is in their name. That is another risk we take. So I "share" my calendar with one person. They know who and when I am seeing someone. No last names, just first. Outcalls require that I make a call once there and when I'm leaving or a return call will occur. Most of the Gents I see are regulars and truly gentlemen in their demeanor. Some I do know the names of, some personal info they choose to share and after a time I share as well. My life before my newish career was fairly pedestrian so I have few skeletons hanging around. Some Hobbiests also consider a regular SP their Muse if they trust and click well with each other. I respect all my visitors, regular or otherwise, and their requirements to ensure they can continue being a Hobbiest. The only thing I can say, is please don't ask me to call you by your CERB handle. Some of you are very clever or witty or downright funny; and if you hit the sweet spot, I'll lose it calling you Lunchtimelickerisme or something. Be careful, or I'll decide your name myself if you do that! :wink:

I was under the impression that this was tomorrow. My apologies for being a git. I will attend the next one. :redface:

When I have/need an Ottawa StayPlaycation, I book with my card, but pay in cash. I am careful what appears on my card. I don't always want to play at home, so I like outcalls and pampering myself at nice hotels while working. But that can work both ways. I have found some Hobbiests have a problem sneaking (bad choice of word) money out of their finances for their Hobby. SP's can sometimes offer different methods of payment that is not always cash. Either for in or out calls.

I'm sorry I didn't get to meet you. Ottawa is a unique and active town, I have found. Because of our population I believe we are large enough to be anonymous and small enough to be a community. We are not threatened by touring Ladies, indeed welcome them. I have heard many negative stories about touring, which has in a way, held me back from doing so. Perhaps I will rethink this. Thank you.

I always dress business and carry a briefcase. When doing hotel outcalls I also have "business" paraphernalia IN my case, just in case. There might be a few surprises in there as well! :wink: Also, upscale hotels are no place to arrive looking like you're ready to film porn. You are just asking for trouble. Discretion is required by both parties. For me, the clock doesn't start ticking until I am redressed, freshened up and exit the washroom.

I have a client that likes me to dress 50's retro and be bending over the oven when he shows up. We have our dates in the kitchen. Nothing weird there.

Is there a date for this or do I keep having to show up at the venue every evening? :biggrin:

All my best. Your future is waiting! :icon_smile:

Yes I understand. I am familiar with this activity and, if in the right frame of mind, thoroughly enjoy it.

Being in a poly relationship, this might be a good opportunity for me to meet some CERBite polys. Chanel

There is. And I value these regulars very much. It is my thought; that this time is more for the soul rather than the mind and body. Studies done on primates regarding non-sexual touch, socialization and the lack of, indicates that we need this activity as humans on several levels besides cerebral. Being a big fan of hugging, I will get into your space and give you one. None of this European kiss kiss on each cheek. If I know you and it's appropriate I will genuinely hug you, as thats how I say hello. I know some Ladies offer this. Additional Comments: Odd?? Having you ask me to dance with a goat might be considered a little odd. But please never feel this service weird or think that it's odd. It's not. :milleunenuit:

LOL I love Bill! The guy's gold! I think all regular clients have more than just sex as criteria. Personality and companionship and compatibility are most certainly important. One of the first things I learned was just be yourself. So me in my life is me the SP as well. However, there are some events that require a different "price line". Does that get negotiated, no. You want me with you in Tahiti for a week. I am most certainly not going to charge you my hourly rate, nor my daily rate. An evening of dinner and dancing, again different price. Outcalls with travel required. Camping for the weekend, 3sums, group parties, BDSM; all have a different price. But its set and not negotiable. Again its one service, just a different donation. Thanks for the laugh.

Hopefully I can attend this one. I wasnt able to make the last one, but had a lovely time at Christmas.

Hazarding a guess; for 99% of any SP's playdates, they are GFE or PSE with a set donation for their time. If you have a menu of other available activities that also has a clearly defined donation, I fail to see the problem. There should be no sliding scale. Some of us also give the option of donation or gift to regulars or members. CERB, in my opinion, is an introduction community. The whole story is at the Ladies website. :-)

I do agree, however...there are some "services" that are more labour intensive/skilled/fetishlike etc. While you may still be paying for my time; it can sometimes be in a non FS or GFE/PSE timeshare. Those time rates vary. So having both clearly stated, either in your ad or on ones web site what your time rates are I don't see the problem with having both.

Both are enjoyable, but in my experience, I already have to be pretty hot and turned on before I can squirt. So it's a win win situation.

PSA: Never use Tiger Balm to ease a sore back, forget to wash your hands and then have sex. OMG ouch. On a hot summer day I have tried cherry freezies. Didnt work for me; but had amazing sex in a snow blizzard. Back to topic. daty is never too much as long as I get to dati :69:

That sounds kind of interesting if there were no side effects! :)

This is where a few O'Town Ladies are. http://www.date-check.com/

On my web site, at my Availability Calendar tab, there will be a pic of a fairy dancing in the moonlight if I am that way. IF I feel like offering "BJ and/or Backside" I will, but I usually just want to pet white fluffy kittens and watch chick flics. I do however get exceedingly horny the week before. :icon_redface:

After Easter is good!

I too missed it. I was all prepared, dressed and actually downtown running errands. Got a chill and had to come home. Shook for hours with cold instead of shaking with laughter and fun. Boo me. I'm in for the next one! :vl:

Around the world can be fun in longer sessions where condoms are a plenty. I'll usually have 3-4 open and waiting (more if using toys). Not all activities require a condom so switching it up makes for less condom donning. I've always thought that if I'm going to have MSOG's so should the person you're with.

I may just make it. Im feeling a little better! :milleunenuit: