Chanel Reign

What can I say. You were one of my first pro friends and I got to know you and love your enthusiatstic approach to...everything! :bigclap: And Fbook is always there!

Antlerman if you yelled supercalafragalistic, or even expialadoshus, I would crack up laughing so hard I couldnt continue! Hard to stay in the mindset with Mary Poppins version of "meh". :) Its not nice to make Mistress Chanel laugh! :spank:

Mine is MERCY MISTRESS. Then I stop what Im doing. Doesnt break the role but makes me pay attention to what I may or may not be doing. Additional Comments: Hiya CK Using words like STOP HOLD DON'T DO THAT, can often get mixed up in what one is saying. It needs to be something that wouldn't necessarily come up in regular conversation. Something like yelling Peanut Butter, or Code Red. Many an mishap has happened because of this. Example: At a wrestling and bondage demo a lady had to be literally cut out of ropes quickly because she could not breathe. The word was given and within seconds she was free, no worse for the wear. Safe sex and safe BDSM. :whipping:

I SWEAR that was one of the more funnier moments of my life...

There is an entry in the American Medical Journal from about 20 years ago; that directly linked breast cancer to wearing of tight binding clothing around your boobies (IE: a bra). The pooling of toxins because of restricted flow is the key. For the last 20 years the only time I wear a bra is if I need to or when I'm working and it sure doesn't stay on long! What happens is that your pectoral muscles start to do the work that the straps were doing and develop (which is why you rarely see a chesty female body builder), to carry the load. I have a friend who is a G-inormous cup. I convinced her to not wear a bra for 3 months. She gave it a shot and while it was difficult, she now has pecs that can support her huge boobs. The only time she wears a bra is when she is doing athletics such as paint-ball. Oh and the A535 advert guy isnt even in my league!!! :boobeyes:

I don't qualify but small breasts turn me on as much as large ones do. They're all quite spectacular in my opinion! :boobies:

Thank you so much Angela. So here we are all these years later; obviously you reading myself better than I do. :icon_redface: I have had an astonishing year and met so many wonderful Ladies, some that I now consider friends....and the men! What can I say but...HELL YEAH! I have never had a bad date, never had someone be rude with me, rip me off, or cause me anything but awesome orgasms. A few no shows, but thats to be expected as life does happen. Right about now I feel like the luckiest woman on earth that's just discovered the wheel! :icon_eek: CERB is where I feel comfortable, we are a small enough city that the community is just the right size for close knit and protective environment to naturally occur. That's a good thing. Thanks again! :milleunenuit: Chanel

Honestly, most people do not completely understand the role of "Submissive" and indeed is the one in control. Being a Sub is truly a gift to a Domina or Dom and trust must be built up to explore and push boundaries. And if you're intelligent, you practice RACK. I know very strong willed people who, in the dungeon, are submissive. It is a sexual mindset and not all like it "rough". My Subs are treated with respect, reward after punishment, teased to distraction and some like it to be a combo of both. And yes some like it plain rough. There are many levels of submission as there are dominance. Being assertive in sexual encounters, both vanilla and kinky can be enjoyable. I have a gent who is a tall burly man (you would never guess he's Sub), and over the last year we have built up a trust that has allowed us to ramp up his boundaries and exploration of all things BDSM. Hair pulling would not be considered a submissive thing in the BDSM world, its more a heat of the moment thing in my opinion. Unless of course you are pulling someone around by the hair (I've seen this; man thats gotta hurt). My point is, is that there is room for this type of encounter, but trust and communication are the keys.

Yes it is offered by some and yes it is a blast! :butt:

They also make a passable pizza, and a pretty good breakfast. Living 5 mins from there and 10 from KS, I too frequented both. Back when Hunt Club Road went from Bank Street to River Road!!! :D

My favourite restaurants: The Empire Grill Hy's The Fish Market Milestones Daly's Giovanni's ARC Merlot Rooftop Grill Mekong and KS ROCKS! Thankfully they didnt move out of my neighbourhood! And yes the pizza is the same.

I prefer the DNR route as it is a subjective reco and everyones mileage may vary. There are too many variables to rely on a persons experience/opinion and one gent would have to try every single one of us to have an objective position. It would still be their opinion and not a tried and tested theory. We have our favourites, you have your favourites, and its all good! :boobeyes:

Tantra is indeed a full body spiritual type of lovemaking. The word itself can be loosely translated to tools of broadening your horizons. Rather than blah bah (I'm tired today), I'm going to cut and paste: "One translation of the word Tantra is "tools for expansion." Tantra is over 1500 years old, and like yoga it originated in India. It is a set of teachings and practices that are specifically designed to help us feel more, to increase our awareness of our own energy and the energy around us. The path that Tantra uses to these ends is the exploration of sexual energy. The goal of Tantric sex is to allow us to experience more depth and breadth in our sexuality. The goal is not necessarily orgasm, but rather enriching the whole sexual experience. Many of the teachings are about desire and the experience of sexual energy. Unlike western approaches to improving your sex life, Tantra teachings do not focus on external evaluations of what our body looks like, what kind of car we drive, how we wear our hair. In this way Tantric sex teaching are open to anyone who is interested in exploring a new path to sexual fulfillment. Incorporating ideas of Tantra into your sex life can be something anyone does, regardless of age, sexual orientation, and what your body looks, like, how it feels, how it moves, etc… Tantra is different from western ideas about sex in some other important ways. The western concept of sex is like a story with a clear beginning (sexual excitement), middle (penetration), and end (orgasm). This is the way it’s supposed to be and if you don’t follow the story, something is wrong. Sex without penetration is often viewed as being "not real” or “merely” foreplay. In Tantric sex the point of sex is not orgasm, the point is to feel. There is no clear cut beginning middle or end. Most of the exercises related to Tantric sex involve slowing things down, trying not to focus on our external body, or orgasm, or anything outside of our experience of the moment. Without a focus on orgasm, the goal becomes increased awareness leading to greater understanding of ourselves, which eventually leads to enlightenment. There is no pressure to "get over the top". This doesn't mean that orgasm doesn't exist in Tantra, it just isn't the be all and end all. The spiritual practice and the good sexual feelings are inter-related, each leading back to, and improving the other. What Tantric sex “looks like” will be different for different people. Tantra is taught by many teachers around the world, who have their own take on it, influenced by the cultures they grew up in. Certainly a key feature of Tantric sex is the importance of breathing, and slowing down sexual behavior compared to the hectic, orgasm-focused North American approach." This type of activity is a journey between yourself, 2, or more people. It is not achieved overnight but with the right person can be most awesome. There are also yoga positions that are considered Tantric. There is wonderful and special furniture to explore these techniques on. Its usually very comfortable for 1 or 2 people, and is very flow-y rather than boxy.

Oooo a committee meeting!

Fetishes and kink are in the eyes of the beholder. What I do behind closed doors might shock most of you, but some would think it rather pedestrian. What you are asking for is just another fantasy or fetish. Nothing more. Are there women out there that do this...yes. Finding them is tricky and depending on whether you truly want to degrade a woman, your window gets smaller in this community. Refining and redefining what you think you like may get you a better response. In my opinion two people can build a trust as regulars and explore boundaries together. And (gasp) I do have a tat...but then I've never really fit the mainstream mold anyway. :!:

Since there are not a lot of us in Ottawa South, I am certainly willing to sell tickets. Oh, and I have experience in planning events for up to 1000 people, tons of it. I had done small dinners to large hall to full out camping events. I actually love doing this. I think Angela can also attest to me also giving good parties. Basically I would like to help with this one. :smile:

I had a wonderful time.....and then I had a great time. Yes I drank too much, but I think it was part nerves and the fact that I felt so comfortable. I met some awesome people, saw some good friends, discovered a new drink (which will become a pie as I really don't like tequila), and got my annual get wasted thing out of the way. All I can say is that is was a warm and happy crowd from my point of view and am looking forward to the next one. I am very grateful I live in O'Town....we rock!!! Thank you both for organizing such a great little event! :D

I too have a few really regular Regulars, that since I know they are coming back, get a reduced rate on my hour, but mostly its because they are there for more than GFE.

I think we can say we all had a pretty good time. And a BIG THANK TO ANGELA AND OTTANON for throwing a really awesome time. And no more tequila for me!

I live surrounded by the greenbelt in O'town, the hydro corridor runs right by my back yard, there is a farm in the middle of the city, the river/beach is a stones through away and I've lived here on and off for most of my life. Having sex outside is the best! I think, as a city, Ottawa has the best opportunities. Including Parliament Hill when I was 17! :lol:

I don't think it's just a "guy" thing. And it most certainly isn't a bad thing 99.9% of the time. Theres always the question of where that "line" is between just sex, an emotional bond and sex, and emotionally involved. I myself know where that line is and with my Regulars it is a "emotional bond and sex" relationship. I love being able to spend an evening with a Regular(s) that I know, can talk about things in my life, and they share what they choose. Although I never ask, I am always curious as to why they see SP's and eventually they usually bring up the subject. The reasons are as varied as there are Hobbiests/Hobbiestas, and most are very valid in my opinion. Some it's just for the sex, some is for that oh so important human touch, and to some it's the whole package. Since I don't judge, it seems once that subject is broached and we talk about it, things only get better because they realize I understand. Perhaps that is the guy thing? I do know that I sometimes get rather chatty clients and am only too happy to spend time getting to know the person and the body! They are, after all...attached!

I can frequently tell when it's a persons first time with an SP...and I ask. If so, and if there is time for chitchat, I can sometimes dispel some of the myths associated with this industry, or make them feel more at ease. New Hobbiests are just that, new. Asking questions is not a problem and I have had some wonderful sessions knowing I've sent another individual away sexually satisfied and with a new slant on things. I tell them to get out there and explore. Some have come back and are regulars and some I have never seen again; hoping that they are tasting the delights O'town has to offer. :wink:

Regulars are now definitely my bread and butter. It only seems to get better the more times I see these ladies, gents and couples. There is always THAT understanding that this is a relationship based on sex and friendship. Thats all. My favourite new clients are outcalls to hotels when they are in town on business. I love upscale hotels and enjoy the amenities they sometimes have to spice things up a bit. One can also be pleasantly surprised by the lengths some of these folks go to, to have the most enjoyable evening. But like a bartender you sometimes engage in personal chit chat as clients relax and understand that I am, above all, discrete. One gent sees only me as I am conveniently located and I satisfy his non-vanilla needs. He has no time nor inclination to see anyone else. I am very flattered by that. He is a Snowbird so I may be losing him for a while, but he has vaguely suggested that he might fly me down for a week and put me up in a hotel. We'll see. I value my regulars very much and rarely see new clients. It happens of course, and my respect for them is as high as my regulars unless they prove otherwise. Everyone is human, everyone is special and deserves to be treated as such in my opinion. Just don't cross me. I have a backbone that can make you wish you never had genitals! ;)

Couldnt agree more. There are some nasty people out there. I think I'll kepp my rose coloured glasses on and thank the stars that there is CERB and that we are all great people.

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