Chanel Reign

I actually get turned on very much by both activities. ;}

Ditto here. The Southway has always been out for me. Close to my place, I know too many people who have worked for that family over the decades...and quit.

Thank you. I did not know this and it was one of my hotels of choice. I am assuming from previous posts that The SOuthway is out? Additional Comments: I have had a wonderful time at the Westin. Again the elevators are on the second floor if you get there by 8pm, as the Rideau Center doors are locked. And as Angela said: Just a side note..I am adult diaper friendly.

I'm still happy dancing, but now I have a whole summer of no hockey. How many days till the exhibition games start? :boobeyes:

Not today...Chicago all the way!!! :smileysmontrefesse:

How very rude. I guess this never occurred to me before, but WOW. How inappropriate and, as Angela says, tacky. More like, tacky, tacky, tacky. And I KNOW thats not a course in my Escort Finishing School, I checked the curriculum! :)

Since I don't know many of you well, nor met in person; at this point I have discussed this with Angela and Nicolette. Both would be diff services; as Angela says, being with her, most attention would be on the client. Some light interaction but yes, I'd prolly burst out laughing if I wasn't totally focused. What a mood killer. I'm not a very good actress. But we'd have to try to see what would happen. Maybe a test run with a special test client. :D After meeting and talking with Nicolette, while doing a quick photoshoot of her, I am attracted to her definitely. We also have bdsm in common and to my mind got along very well. I think I would have just as much fun pleasing her as I would the client. :wink: Having years of non-professional experience with 3sums and poly groups, I think this is something I can bring to the table (errrr....bed), and indeed offer it on my site. I guess I need to get out more and meet other like-minded SP's. Thanks for getting the ball rolling Annessa.

Im guessing that American CERB type boards dont have their ladies and gents talking about hockey! We're so Canadian! :-D

Thank you Auntie Angie. Maybe you have known me too long. LMAO And I just put the SpongBob one in one of my PlayLists. Folks, just to be clear, these are metaphorical balls; I really don't own a set. :sm185: Additional Comments: I think "was" is your operative here. It may be that the norm is turning around. Everything fluctuates and changes, especially in North American culture. Sometimes slow, most times stupid in the important cases. Where women are concerned the norms for body type and dress and pubic hair (some early Egyptian cultures despised all hair) have experienced the fastest changes historically. In the Rubenesque era I would be considered a little on the thin side and probably would not have been Nobility as size mattered in women. It showed the affordablility of good food. As did the foot or so of fabric one dragged on the ground. It indicated you could do so and not care about your gown because you were rich. All for show. In that sense not much for women has changed and most of that lately has become our department due to the 60's and 70's. I am not saying that its all a womans world right now, as fashion and body type are clearly still dictated by mostly men. But Spain, for instance, has banned wafer thin models from their runways. Dove (or Ivory) has an ad campaign out there right now that depicts normal everyday bodies and celebrates that fact. And as I said in another post, I do believe we are on the cusp of another "sexual revolution". I'm interested to see where it goes.

And how sweet is was last night! But it was only game one. Lets see what Monday brings.

Thank you. You'd think I never did this, but having sensitive skin now I sometimes get them and I hate it. Thank you and I will try it. :idea: Additional Comments: Unfortunately hun it can look very sexy, but I find it just gets in the way for me. A tongue sliding up skin can make me jump a foot. Not so much with hair there. I do see a resurgence of men and women liking the Y bush, and I'm happy to refer. On another social board I'm on, at the moment it is actually considered a fetish, rather than the norm. Its all perspective I guess. I am willing to try a tuft or landing strip, just stay shaved below that. Additional Comments: :bowdown: OMG November I tried an epilator once and almost went through a window! You are one tough lady!

Thank you for allowing me to clean the OJ off my monitor. :-o

This is where I feel comfortable, I feel safe and am learning so much. There is camaraderie here and THAT is a big one for me. My friends are here, so why would I want to change? Perhaps other boards don't have etiquette rules, but I am glad this one has.

Maybe I'll just keep a tuft at the top. But would it look silly if it was strawberry blonde and my hair was copper red? Btw, does anyone have any tips for keeping the "Y" free of shave bumps? I don't get many but I dont like them and BumpStopper does nothing for me, but YMMV.

At this point I am cheering for the Hawks. I'm a hockey nut and when my team gets knocked out, I go to my next fave. The Habs lost to Philly, so they suck! GO Chicago! :-P

I have used the evil site 3 times exactly and I was not comfortable with doing it. I prefer the quilted comfort of CERB and now consider it part of my life as well. I may not perk up and talk a lot, but I read voraciously the posts I am interested in. CL is just too much trouble to bother imo. There are enough wonderful gents here that I don't need to bother. Thankfully. If one needs to be discreet, this is the place to be. I trust this site and like it.

My first outcall was to the Westin. The gentleman was a wonderful man, we had as much down time as play time (it was a 2 hour call). While I say on my site regarding gifts; "A lady never asks, and a gentleman never forgets"....that is not an expectation of a tip nor a gift. I left there a very satisfied and happy girl and with a tip and a bottle of my fave wine! (I was so surprised) He emailed me a few days later to thank me for the wonderful experience. And we will be meeting again in a few months when he's back in town.

Having been both, I prefer shaved. But its not the look, its the feel. I love my men and women to be at least shaved/trimmed, as I love skin on skin contact. And hairless balls will keep me busy for a long time if allowed. Unfortunately some men are too sensitive to have much play there but I have yet to be told to not to. Having several fetishes myself ;-), I have had the pleasure of participating in some pretty naughty balls activity, but prefer to treat with care. Cultural changes over the years have added a fetish to the Community, in that some men love trimmed to full out forest pubic hair. I know Dom(me)s who have asked their Subs to grow their hair and I have a young friend who is constantly asking me which friends I have that aren't shaved. It totally gets him off and he's under 30. Essentially both have become normal preferences (i.e. I'm a leg man, boob man, bushy pussy man).

Im impressed. You must have a lot to say. Instead of a Chatty Cathy, may we call you Chatty Cato? :wink:

Having had this thread resurrected was so time appropriate for me. I am still new and while the line between business vs relationships are still mine to draw, I see where the pitfalls and the benefits can occur. While it is true I warm up to most clients, I still be myself and hope thats what they want to come back for. As I've said before, a client is an onion, with layers of person. Just like we are.

I've been lucky so far in that Ive had no harshness or rudeness come my way. I know being new to this, that it will happen, but thankfully I have guidance as to how to deal with this. I did have a gentleman that wanted to break some of the golden rules of an SP but having never met him, I declined. If this had been a regular I connect with, I would certainly consider it. But Mr Email Text became rather insistent so I stopped correspondence as he clearly wasn't listening. My web site makes that perfectly clear and sometimes I wish people would read a little more. While these are most certainly business relationships, I feel like I get to get my cake and eat it too! My "business plan" is to have regulars with the occasional new one for spice. Whether this pans out, I can't tell at the moment. With regulars you get to know each other much more intimately and I feel the client gets more "bang for their buck" (I know, rather crude) if you both know which buttons to push and what a client likes. Also, comfortable clients are more likely to explore and push their fantasies. Which is fine by me. At the moment I have 1 1/2 regulars (don't ask). And I'm hoping this other gentleman chooses to see me again as we connected quite well for a first meeting. All I do is be myself and hope they are too.

I also work in the east end (Orleans) almost every Friday.

Communication is paramount in this situation. I have had foot fetish folks want to just bite my toes, or use them as my hands. Some just want you to walk around in high heels, or pedi you! Some want much more and is up to the individual. And men are not the only ones with feet fetishes. I had THE most amazing time with a woman and my feet. Unfortunately many clients think that "their" definition is a blanket one, so communication is important up front as this is a subjective fetish. Chanel

THIS lady does. Especially my arches being worshiped. I have long toes and folks love what they can do. Really, my index (?) toe, is as long as my baby finger. giggles Chanel :p

I was almost tempted to suggest the same thing A.M. :rolleyes: Chanel