Chanel Reign

I am in a poly open relationship. It goes much deeper than sex and has for over 20 years. I am lucky that when I chose to become an SP he came around. I took a huge risk, but he now views it much differently, as does he the whole industry. Hypothetically though, I don't come home from work though and talk about my day like a regular job. But when he comes home, it's our home and not my workplace anymore. It looks no different than when he leaves in the morning. So yes, there are men out there that are not threatened by your being an SP, they are just hard to find in a mainly monogamous culture.

I have just taken my web site down, but I also offer this erotic activity. :)

Need a hug. Roomie who takes care of me, and my doggie, were hit by a car Aug 3rd. He's convalescing elsewhere and I'm living alone with a messed up pooch. I hate living alone. Alway have.

I'm a Tweenie. But theres nothing like making a bbw moan with pleasure. ;)

Young Guns soundtrack - Blaze of Glory

Edible massage oil...chocolate please. One big orgasm or lots of little ones?

Mothers are special. And they will surprise you at every turn.

So looking forward to December 12th!!

I wonder if this works for men??

Judging by the replies, I am so sorry I didnt get my request in, in time to make it. I'm glad it went so well and everyone had a good time. Hopefully the Christmas one doesn't fill up so fast!!

Firstly, we all know it is very easy to hide behind a keyboard. And easier for some to trash talk someone else to make themselves look and feel better. Also since there is rarely more than 2 or 3 folks in a personal conversation, it is easy to make ones self look good if a person feels the need to. In this business there are many types of people, both SP's and Hobbiests. When you throw all of those differences into the stew, some people feel they come up short and will do and say things that can be mean and spiteful. Peer pressure, business pressure, self esteem; it's not just an SP issue. And this is not unique to this industry, but it is easier here because its a personal and intimate one. Discretion is not our cultures strong suit these days. Nor is truthfulness. It is easier for some people to just go with the flow and be the norm, rather than step off the treadmill and be different. Excaliber, please understand, these are not my "sisters" nor are they my co-workers. To a point we are each others competition. But only to a point. Like all businesses there are reputable ones and not so reputable. And yes some of them can be my friends. Just as some hobbiests who's type I am not, can be. I am not suggesting that hobbiests are a commodity but to a degree you are. A human one. Somewhere along the line some people lose that sight of the communal fact and become self serving. Lying and making up rumours can be seen as a useful tool to some people, others are just like that normally. It is up to you, as the Consumer, to decide if it's worth it to put your money there. As an SP it is also our choice to be that "business type" or not. Since we all bring ourselves to this industry, the stew will always have these types. Like it or not.

Hearing that Angela is missed at the Social. Downside tho...I missed it too.

Why am I thinking Gilligans Island at this point??

So I come back and you are again under the microscope. sigh I wish you all the best I can. Being a 2 time survivor (surprise!) I am amazed at your ability to keep your game face so positive. That alone says a lot. No one will tell you to shutup and please keep us up to date with your progress. To a lot of us, it's pretty important. As they say, Every day may not be good...but there is some good in every day. Yah I know, corny...but true.

3sums and Group playdates are always exciting in a unique way. Each one is different. It's like visiting someone else's garden. Women are so fun to play with, especially when there's a Gent(s) involved. But yes, you have to do your homework when it comes to what a Lady will or wont do. Some have restrictions that are within their comfort zone and you have to respect their choices. Other Ladies are all encompassing as long as everyone is comfortable and into it. I have brought my do's and don'ts into my play from past experience before I was an SP. I'm pretty simple with my rules. Others have their own. So asking your questions are certainly not inappropriate and most certainly your list is available in Ottawa. As for MSOG, I have never understood why this is an issue. If Im going to orgasm multiple times, how is it fair that the Gent/Lady should not? I guess everyone is different. Just my 5cents worth. :tongue:

I am now exclusively on CERB. And I usually don't advertize anymore. I have an established clientele and that suits me just fine. I like the people here and trust this site. My web page no longer exists as I was getting too many weirdos and requests for things I don't do. Apparently some folks just don't bother reading. So I took it down a few days ago. But as they say, never say never. I might just restart another somewhere else.

Since I am missing this one, I am truly looking forward to the Christmas Social. Everyone is always in good spirits and I'm hoping this one is a charity one for a worthy cause.

Love and sex are two completely different things. Over time our culture has put the two into the same bed, so to speak. Bad idea as 2 people can love each other but have different needs that have nothing to do with the heart. One can love someone, but have sex with someone else and that doesn't change that love, unless you cannot separate the 2. One is an emotion, one is an activity. Your reasons are your own and your question is one I think we ALL ask ourselves at one point or another. Only you can answer it honestly. For whatever choice we are here, most of us are here because we want to be, SP or Provider. There are exceptions of course, and thats when the struggle begins. It is a good question to ask yourself, but is it a reflection of you having sex with an SP, or an SP having sex with you? Additional Comments: In this I have to respectfully disagree. You are talking in completely monogamous terms. The human species was never meant to be monogamous but our culture dictates whats right and whats wrong. If you follow mainstream norms, then yes your statement stands. But who really falls into that category other than sheeple? No rudeness intended, I just disagree, :) C

OMG this thread is SOOOOOO funny! Nice to see this instead of drama!! :roll:

Wow, I am so sorry this happened. It sounds like it would have been a very memorable and wonderful experience for both of you. Sometimes miscommunication can happen, and in this case must have been a real let down for you. And yes it is her loss. In this business trust and discretion are utmost. At least to some of us. This is why I am more of a "regular" Lady. I trust the Gents who visit my home, so the doubts and uncertainties are not there. I find this makes for a more enjoyable experience for both of us, allowing us to be, well...us! While most SP's prefer multiple clients daily, not all of us do. I see one Gent a day and usually not on weekends. My hours of operation are just like any other business. Of course there are times when I will see a new Gent/Lady and yes I am as nervous as they are. Some come back, others don't. Again I am truly sorry this happened to you. After that many years of seeing the same person, I would have expected that trust would have not been an issue and the miscommunication would have been cleared up by your words. I sincerely hope this has not tarred us all with the same brush. Good luck with your endeavour, whatever that might be.

Busting in here. I would like to do all the girls I've done before...with a really spirited Gent! giggle ;-)

She will be a very lucky woman. I have done Staycations in the past where I am with a Gent for hours and hours. I have also gone on vacations with some very happy results. So speaking from experience, treat her well, firstly. For your chosen Lady, perhaps ask her what she might like and if it suits you, do it. Flowers and good conversation or a spicy movie might work, you won't be "active" the whole time. Also try something you have never done before. Perhaps an agreed upon third playmate for an hour or so? Or do what you wanted and have a parade with your favourites. It is your weekend after all! Make it memorable. I would like to note here that I am always sad to see men leave because of age. Either theirs or the SP pool. But especially when they think they are "beyond" an acceptable age. You might be stunned to know that there are some very sexy and desirable older Gents out there that hobby well into their 70's and even 80's. It is always a pleasant surprise. If the SP's are getting younger to a hobbiest, and I am not trying to change your mind here, sometimes one needs to find someone they are more comfortable with. Again, it's been my experience that sometimes it's not all about the sex, but comfort and connection, which of course then brings out some amazing sex, in whatever form it takes. Of course if you like variety, then I wish you the best choices CERB has to offer. :icon_smile:

Yes I realized this early on. It was a bit of a shock to see my name and I was thinking "huh"? I was just adding to the convo. :icon_smile:

I am very choosy who I see. And it has nothing to do with race, colour or creed. If you are rude to me, expect me to just see you at the drop of a hat, or I don't feel even the slightest connection; I don't see the point. Both of us will not be at our best, and that makes for a not so interesting or satisfying time for either of us.

Well...you have to respect that some people have "activities" they don't care for. This situation however is a little odd and I'm sorry it happened to you. I suspect it's a rare occasion that it will happen again.