Chanel Reign

Actually, this has happened to me once. I figure these are folks that are usually not really into giving oral anyway, or don't appreciate the taste of a woman ejaculating. Agreed; their loss.

Good gravy I thought you were talking about me! lol

HIYA!!!! I just thought I would drop in and be nosy and see whats been doing. :) Im feeling pretty good, all thing considered. I'm still on the mend and coming along very fast. They have reduced my medication and I am ecstatic about that (I hate prescription drugs). But walking and exercise has done my back a world of good and I'm more dependent on myself. I am doing more now, getting out a lot more than I was. I even spent a lovely weekend at the Lac Lemay Resort and Casino. I love 5 star hotels and how they treat you. I'm going back soon and this time I'm staying on the VIP floors. I can hardly wait! I miss you all very much and as soon as I can, I am back in the game. Until then, everybody behave, have fun and now I'm going to go play catch-up in the forums. Take care and I'll see you soon. Chanel

Good afternoon fellow Cerbites, Some of you may have noticed that I have not been very active, both in the forums or advertising for playdates. For the last year I have been suffering from a misbehaving back involving several disks and vertebrae. They figure this was probably something I did when I was younger. Like falling out of trees etc Anyway, I was hospitalized for over a month this summer. I cant remember the dates but I do know that I went in when it was being a crispy summer and came out to a lush green one. When I had to start cutting out activities that I enjoy (BDSM (too painful) and Golden Showers (the medications I'm on)), it became evident that if I cant give my all, I should pay attention to my health. Saying that, it is best that at this point I take a hiatus from all the fun, and focus on my health and getting better. I have already surprised them with the fact that my inner core muscle is a lot stronger than they thought it should be. I wasn't about to tell them why (sex strengthens the muscles in your mid section quite adequately), but I had a little smile on my face. Unfortunately for the time being I am going to be one horny woman, hopefully distracted with working hard at getting better so when I return I will be the "new and improved" Chanel. Complete with new pics, new toys and sexy new outfits. I am looking forward to that day, as I will miss you all terribly. So this is not goodbye, but just a "see you soon". Chanel

WTG Carrie!! Please keep up the posts. :)

Being the age I am I see a broad spectrum of ages. That includes quite a few ED Gents. Some are upfront about it and half our time is spent talking and the other half doing what the Client wishes. I have total respect and will listen and try to give advice when asked. My first suggestion is see a Doctor to rule out any medical conditions, then we look at lifestyle and age and finally mental blocks. This, of course, is if the Gent wants to pursue the reasons. If you choose not to tell me about "the little blue pill" that's fine too. It is a very personal issue and Gents; we come across this A LOT more than you may think.

Im in trouble. I quit cold turkey 12 years ago and when I went into the hospital this summer, I started again. Not too sure what to do this time. :(

I don't want to alienate or offend you, but I have to disagree here. It has been my experience that the majority of my Clients visit because it is a twofold experience. It is an amazing feeling when the Gent or Lady is there for giving and receiving. I have never experienced the "I'm here, pleasure me" type of date. And I don't think I'd like it. Maybe I have rose coloured glasses on but I am definitely going to orgasm during a date. As for 15 minute "deals", I would never offer that. I don't think I would feel very good after one. It would feel like it was a drive-by jerk-off and very impersonal. I'm not suggesting it is a bad thing, as everyone's mileage varies; it's just not for me.

Well I must have been doing it wrong the whole time. I guess I missed that day at Ms Angela's Finishing School. :)

For outcalls I always dress professional complete with briefcase. I have sometimes been asked to leave said clothing on for a while after I reach my destination as it is usually a surprise that I arrive in that attire. Imo it is one less risk, than walking into an establishment dressed for sex.

T-girl Kay has such a nice ring to it. But to me you will always be November. Especially since I cant remember the name I was originally introduced to you by at B. one evening. lol

Thank you RG for your general input, your sense of humour and your wisdom. I am also thankful that you are here and part of CERB as you add so much to such a great site. I am looking forward to many more posts from you in the future. You rock!

I hope this day is filled with happiness and giddy curiosity as to what the next year may bring.

I think the bottom line is this. -Sex isn't going away any time soon. -Being an SP if I contract an STD/STI/or the common cold, my means of living immediately stops and there is no medical insurance or UI for that! Therefore most reputable SP's will educate themselves to the nth degree regarding this and other subjects. Ex: I am allergic to latex, I did my homework and buy a different condom. They may be more expensive but I am assured of no latex and basically you get what you pay for. In my case, a higher grade condom. -Hobbiests should also educate themselves as well. Regardless of how many posts or how long someone has been here has zero bearing on the question itself. I don't know you, your personality nor your fears; so any question is a good one if it satisfies your curiosity and provides you with the information you need. -I do believe that given the same set of circumstances, the percentage would be higher with muggles (for lack of a better word), than Professionals and their Clients. We have some pretty strong rules that we have set for ourselves and don't have the opportunity of a mistake that muggles do (lust, immortality, drunk, self esteem, don't have one handy, etc)

I am also in the south end...well Mooneys Bay. And there is another Lady here but I forget her name. I get back to you with it....

So I guess thats why some men have softer beards than others. The things you learn. After some reflection, I do have 2 Gents that I see that have beards and I never noticed until now. LOL

I dont mind goatees or moustaches full beards tend to make me wonder whats in there. Im sure bearded men take hygienic care of that area as well, it's just me. A trimmed and short beard is fine, but I dont really care for the zztop version.

Chatty fellow arent you! I enjoy reading your posts and having a good belly laugh (which doesnt happen to often to me). I will snort, guffaw, chortle, chuckle, giggle, teehee; but a belly laugh is the best. Thank you.

Congrats Christine. Thats a mess of wisdom!! :D

Im also in the South. Near Mooneys Bay.

Welcome to CERB. You friendly home away from home. The extended family you keep in the closet. CERB is a wonderful place to meet people and chat about his and that, learn about things you didnt know and perhaps get over some nervousness by the friendliness of this site. Again welcome. I hope your stay is long and happy. :)

My quirk or kink, is having sex with more than one person. Playdates like this get my motor running days before it's even going to happen. I like boobies of all kinds and hearing folks orgasm (thats a huge one for me). I love to watch as well. The list is as long as the Nile River but I'll stop there. :)

I so wanted to go. Again I even had the dress and shoes. Hopefully I'll make the Christmas one. Angela I want to thank you and your cohorts for really showing Ottawa how cool we really are. This is a LOT of work, and you seem to have a gift for it by making sure everyone is having a good time. I wasn't there, but thank you anyway.

I think that TG is basically asking where did honesty go in our culture. Honesty is a very cheap commodity these days as a whole. Our culture allows and indeed embraces a less honest way of life. It's easier. But is it? Our children are growing up to believe this. Anyone under 30 has been exposed to this culture. All one has to do is turn on the television, listen to a politician (who is expected to lie), or read a magazine (10 ways to cheat on your income tax). My view is that I choose to live in a world where honesty is still prevalent, although not always present. I am not a fool and cant be snowed that easily, so I choose to use my feet/ears and walk/stop listening. I find it much easier to believe people than always be suspicious of everything they say. If it's a lie and not hurting me, I don't care because it reflects on that person, and not me. And I don't lie. It's too hard to remember so I see no point. Unless I know it will hurt someone, then I re-think what I am going to say.

Well, you're on my List. But I'm not going to tell you which one! ;) :milleunenuit: