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My CERB Goddess Of The Day today is Miss Jessica Lee No, I haven't had the pleasure of meeting her. But her website www.happyhookersofcanada.com is a forum for like minded SP's and has an avenue to express how being a professional companion has been a positive choice for them in their life. Having a forum like this allows ladies to express how choosing to be a professional companion has been positive for them, in their life, instead of being stereotyped as a victim by MacKay and the rest of the intolerant CPC and religious zealots. And as a side note, after reading Jessica's letter on how being an SP has been a positive and empowering choice for her, I feel less like a john and perv ;-), and more like a gentleman who enjoys female companionship :-) RG

Just back from some last minute shopping for a weekend escape with a very special Goddess And once today is over, it's a day closer to this Friday, when this lady and I reconnect for a very memorable weekend RG :-)

First off, the very first encounter you ever have, if at all like me, will be both terrifying, and exciting at the same time. But overcome the fear of seeing a companion (I know, easier said than done) and book an encounter with a companion who interests you Avoid sites, JMO of course, like BP and CL. CERB is a good forum and community to find a companion who interests you. In addition CERB has a recommendations page, here it is for St Johns http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/forumdisplay.php?f=264 That would be a good start to find a companion who interests you. Now once you see a lady's profile and she interests you, contact her through her preferred method of contact, be it email, text phone call etc Be respectful when contacting her. You should explain up front when you contact the lady that you have autism, and how it manifests itself, so the lady will know what to expect when she meets you Also, you need to decide whether you are going to have an incall or outcall Incall you go to the lady's place, Outcall the lady comes to your place (usually a hotel). Once a date is booked, whether incall or outcall, GO THROUGH WITH IT The lady has set aside a block of time to see YOU based on your word that you are going to show up. As enjoyable and sociable this lifestyle is, it is for guys an escape, for the ladies, their livelihood, their job. If you don't show up that is a block of time the lady could have used for another client. And any nervousness, heart pounding etc, it's normal...all part of the excitement of a date. I get that way even with ladies I have seen before...the day there is no nervousness, heart pounding, excitement, that's the day I quit. I say this so you don't cancel because you might get nervous BTW here is a link to another thread which may be useful more on following instructions http://www.cerb.ca/vbulletin/showthread.php?t=78942 The money, put in an envelope and discretely lay down on a table (if incall) for the lady to pick up and count. Don't be offended if she does count. You may wish to include a gift (gift cards are a good option, the lady may have a website with suggestions for gifts) If you are having an outcall then just leave the envelope on your table One thing about the lady's donation, don't negotiate her rate. Her rate is her rate, and not something to haggle over...that's a sure way not to get your email/text returned Finally, some ladies employ screening/verification. That means providing your real name, phone, email and reference. First, don't be afraid of this, many ladies employ screening, it is a routine part of seeing a professional companion. Seeing as you are new, you wouldn't have a reference. But if you want to make a good first impression, on your introductory email, provide other verification information, it shows openness and trust. The lady may have other ways to verify you since you have no reference Anyhow, that's a lot to absorb, I know. And I probably forgot something, so others may add to this Good Luck RG

Well my two cents. At home I use Dove Men Care bar soap. But for an incall location, don't use bar soaps of any sort...went to one incall a few years back and all the lady had was a used bar of soap...GROSS!!!...I don't know who all had used that soap before. Personally I would recommend a neutral (no smell) body wash. That way no concerns for gentlemen who have wives/SO's having a perfume/cologne smell on their bodies when they get home Also some guys may have sensitive skin, so a neutral body wash should be OK for their skin And if you do want to use bar soap, one bar of soap per client. If you can get a hold of hotel soap great. If you need to buy regular size soaps fine. But make sure each client has his own fresh still in the box, never used, soap. Nothing more gross than a used bar of soap My two cents RG

Best of luck in your future endeavors Nathalie. You have been a great contributor to this community, and your presence here will be missed. Again, good luck in your future RG ;-)

Good post Lexy, Thanks Using a city's warning section isn't just for hobbiests only. Yes it is useful to provide guys with information on bait and switch or worse, so we can have encounters with reputable companions But ladies also can look at a city's warning section, there may be information posted on there that could help a lady stay safe, avoid bad dates or worse too. The warnings section is but one resource available that ladies and gentlemen alike can use to ensure their encounters are positive. And ladies and gentlemen alike should feel free to post in those forums if something has happened warranting a warning Thanks again Lexy RG

Bacon and Tomato Sandwiches Washed down with a Becks no alcohol beer And for desert, strawberries Time to get cooking RG

Billy Joel Sometimes A Fantasy RG

Ricky Nelson and Dean Martin Cindy Cindy From Rio Bravo RG :-)

Never Say Never Again RG

Lucky Number Slevin RG

This song, well both dedicated to a couple ladies here on CERB...they get it ;-) Randy Bachman No Sugar Tonight http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NYg5cyUSJfE and for those who prefer The Guess Who's version here it is too RG

I understand that for her husband, the only way he can get a hard-on is with Viagra, on his wedding night it just died...actually she has been called the new birth control no fear of pregnancy with her. And her husband thought her first name was made up, because there has been no joy in his life since meeting her. God bless the CPC LOL RG

Have you tried offering her money for her bites, that might make her go away...she'd feel so offended LOL I'm sorry :icon_rolleyes: RG :-)

Just did the dishes, sitting back, relaxing, surfing CERB, watching a movie (Breaker Morant) and looking forward to a long time planned weekend with Emily next weekend :-) RG :-)

Got up early enough to get my laundry ready, it's down in the laundry room being washed right now, while I sit watching The Rifleman, drinking my second cup of coffee and surfing CERB. RG

Congratulations Sweetshay on being in the 100,000 club RG

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As long as the beer is no alcohol, beer is my answer An intimate encounter with a special lady or A ménage a trois with two special ladies RG

Jetski but only because I could get enough money from it to buy a fishing boat Ursula Andress as Honey Ryder from James Bond Dr No or Halle Berry as Jinx in James Bond Die Another Day RG

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Well seeing as she replied, and is also going to be in Kingston next week, and if you check the recommendation threads for Kingston, she is mentioned (by me ;-) ) Emily Rushton is beautiful. BTW besides being beautiful, even more beautiful now than when I first met her, she is a wonderful companion. And my encounters with her have taken me from Toronto to London to Kingston so you can read recommendation threads from those cities, and other cities she tours to. A rambling RG

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Well as they say beauty is in the eye of the beholder. That said, the ladies I have seen (some in Kingston while on tour there, some in other cities) and recommended are all beautiful. Maybe that might be a start for you. Take a look at Kingston recommendations page. The ladies mentioned there it would be a pretty safe bet to assume, in addition to being a good SP, also beautiful, to the client who saw her. Again of course, with the caveat, beauty is in the eye of the beholder (I have been fortunate btw that my eyes have beholden a lot of beauty and more than just physical beauty, in this lifestyle) Anyhow that's the best advice I can give you RG